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2018-04-19 01:32:32 UTC

tfw no gf

2018-04-19 01:32:51 UTC

AYYYOOOO

2018-04-19 01:32:52 UTC

beat me to it

2018-04-19 01:33:07 UTC

r/alone

2018-04-19 01:33:45 UTC

🇹 🇫 🇼 🇳 🇴 🇬 🇫

2018-04-19 01:33:58 UTC

mgtow tho

2018-04-19 01:33:59 UTC

jk

2018-04-19 01:42:42 UTC

where the thot posting channel at

2018-04-19 01:51:41 UTC

Work girls a bad call to talk to?

2018-04-19 01:52:10 UTC

mostly

2018-04-19 01:52:27 UTC

Why tho

2018-04-19 01:52:32 UTC

depends on the work

2018-04-19 01:52:43 UTC

not necessarily

2018-04-19 01:52:48 UTC

talking to is never a bad idea

2018-04-19 01:52:58 UTC

just be circumspect as you should be everyone

2018-04-19 01:53:00 UTC

and watch red flags

2018-04-19 01:54:27 UTC

I'd be careful, I dated a girl from work once, turns out she was psychotic and insane. After I broke up with her I still had to work with her and she would use work as an excuse to follow me around all day.

2018-04-19 01:54:59 UTC

Tfw no girls obsessed over you to levels that are frightening and uncomfortable

2018-04-19 01:55:23 UTC

But I also know people who met their spouses at work, so it depends

2018-04-19 01:55:41 UTC

try being more of a man

2018-04-19 01:55:49 UTC

@ChillS tfw no yandere gf

2018-04-19 01:56:02 UTC

unironically mean this, not insulting you

2018-04-19 02:07:19 UTC

Hello, I would like to learn how to be single

2018-04-19 02:12:11 UTC

@Jacob post "tfw no gf" memes

2018-04-19 02:16:54 UTC

@ChillS I still talk to a girl I worked with two years ago. We're kind of running out of things to talk about, though, since we used to always shitpost about work.

2018-04-19 02:21:09 UTC

I've never met him. She used to like me a lot, but I didn't know how to properly stoke a relationship at the time. Would do battle though.

2018-04-19 02:23:37 UTC

Something similar happened with me. I asked out a pretty conservative girl that I've clicked with well. She turned me down, "Not ready for a relationship." A week later she starts dating an Asian guy

2018-04-19 02:25:48 UTC

It's especially sad considering that a beautiful White girl will have children that likely won't resemble her or her entire lineage.

2018-04-19 02:26:23 UTC

Well damn I hadn't thought about it like that

2018-04-19 02:26:28 UTC

Feels bad man

2018-04-19 02:27:11 UTC

lol sorry!

2018-04-19 02:27:30 UTC

Lmao

2018-04-19 02:28:11 UTC

always makes me laugh when nonwhites oggle over white girls without the understanding of why they look that way in the first place

2018-04-19 02:29:02 UTC

@Aleis⊕ccidentalis thanks for ruining my night 😡

2018-04-19 02:31:27 UTC

I'll stop now

2018-04-19 02:32:56 UTC

F

2018-04-19 02:33:25 UTC

literaly happened to me over the weekend with my >based black friend

2018-04-19 02:34:52 UTC

If that soyboy can land that hottie you can too

2018-04-19 02:35:26 UTC

I'm also trying to imagine why shes into him, he doesn't look like a guy who's supremely confident

2018-04-19 02:35:44 UTC

probably loaded

2018-04-19 02:35:59 UTC

Is money really that attractive to women

2018-04-19 02:36:28 UTC

well its def not bc hes good looking!

2018-04-19 02:36:37 UTC

yes, it is

2018-04-19 02:37:00 UTC

it's not everything obviously, but it's insurance for offspring

2018-04-19 02:39:37 UTC

@ChillS Do you have any solid research to back that up? Not trying to challenge you so much as I don't want people taking blackballs if they aren't even real

2018-04-19 02:40:04 UTC

It's somewhat true

2018-04-19 02:40:21 UTC

I know alot of people personally like that

2018-04-19 02:40:30 UTC

but I suspect they'll change

2018-04-19 02:40:32 UTC

Having a woman pay for you generates no attraction in them

2018-04-19 17:00:23 UTC

@Pat-MA True

2018-04-19 19:57:54 UTC

Tip: Juventutem is a great group for meeting nice Catholic women.

2018-04-19 22:13:01 UTC

^^

2018-04-19 22:14:01 UTC

Simimlar things for orgodox?

2018-04-19 22:16:45 UTC

@givemetheafd No idea. Haven't done any research on it.

2018-04-19 22:38:18 UTC

Lol should I be sad or glad that I found my way into this channel?

2018-04-20 00:15:31 UTC

@Warren H It all depend. Many a man have wished once to not be single, only to find themselves longing for their long lost bachelorhood.

2018-04-20 11:18:06 UTC

Tfw single

2018-04-20 11:18:15 UTC

Tfw no gf

2018-04-20 11:18:20 UTC

Am I right lads?

2018-04-20 11:18:25 UTC

Feels bad man

2018-04-21 03:50:07 UTC

I feel free and wealthy...single is not too bad. It's not forever. AltRight qt3.14 will come to you, but only if you thumbs up this post!

2018-04-21 03:57:21 UTC

>throw party for my school’s college republicans
>hit it off with really nice girl, see her for about two weeks
>she stops talking to me
>talk with her other friend
>”she said she would have liked it if you were more edgy and memey”

2018-04-21 03:57:58 UTC

Dis is what I get for acting like a normie

2018-04-21 03:58:25 UTC

>tfw when just broke up after 5 rocky years
>was engaged

2018-04-21 03:58:41 UTC

>tfw when not blackpilled, rather liberated

2018-04-21 03:59:11 UTC

Remember boys, it matters not how hot she is... some guy somewhere is sick of her shit

2018-04-21 04:01:05 UTC

Just be the kind of guy that your ideal woman would want. Dont ever cuck on who you are just to get the girl

2018-04-21 04:01:22 UTC

*if you build it, they will come*

2018-04-21 04:02:44 UTC

@unclefesterr Been there.

2018-04-21 04:05:26 UTC

Yeah @unclefesterr youll be alright bud, dont sweat it. Just focus on being the guy you want to be, and eventually itll all fall into place. And stay outta your head; idle hands are the devils workshop.

2018-04-21 04:05:56 UTC

dont blackpill yourself

2018-04-21 04:06:26 UTC

No worries I’m already over it. Just a very ironic twist of fate

2018-04-21 04:07:28 UTC

I feel ya there

2018-04-21 06:16:36 UTC

No gun posting, or suicide posting

2018-04-21 21:21:21 UTC

kek

2018-04-22 03:35:22 UTC

@ThisIsChris For some reason, I think these might the most problematic forums.

2018-04-22 04:45:29 UTC

@Rick yes I'm trying to give them a few days to see if we can work out good rules for them, but I will absolutely nuke them if needed.

2018-04-22 04:53:57 UTC

It is amazing how a goy can have one area of his life in order and the area of love a total wreck.

2018-04-22 17:57:18 UTC

I cannot underscore this enough. If you are on the dating apps I strongly suggest you weave in a line or two about you being one or all of the following: traditional/against hook up culture/looking for something serious. if you can do that while using humor or poking fun at our degenerate culture all the better. If you put a message like that out there you will have girls messaging you (i do). There are not many men out there who actually want something serious so you will stand out.

2018-04-22 17:58:42 UTC

With all that said it is imperative you are firing on all cylinders in other aspects of your life. You need to 1) be fit, 2) have your career down, 3) have financial resources, 4) be well dressed/groomed. if you can do all that you will have quality girls coming to you

2018-04-22 17:59:04 UTC

and also make sure you have professionally done photos shot on a DSLR camera.

2018-04-22 18:03:56 UTC

@Zyzz Seconded. That said, you're going to get less matches if you make fun of the culture we live in, want something serious, or countersignal thots. HOWEVER: The people you will attract will be more compatible to a traditional lifestyle. It's like sales. LESS leads of MORE quality is better than MORE leads of LESSER quality.

2018-04-22 19:04:47 UTC

@Zyzz @Washington good points. I think in sales jargon they call it "qualified leads". But it makes perfect sense, if you're upfront with who you are and who you are looking for then it helps both men and women find compatible partners faster.

2018-04-22 23:06:55 UTC

In the end, you only need one.

2018-04-23 22:03:29 UTC

I think a good way is to be intensely social when single. Go to dinner parties. Host dinner parties. Attend church, maybe even a small group, volunteer, and in a general sense be a man about town in a good way. Make yourself known. It’s not easy if you work an office job in an all male field like engineering so you have to get out there. It’s really hard to meet women when you life outside a large metro area because most women love cities, but it can be done.

2018-04-23 22:05:25 UTC

A bachelor needs discipline so be sure and rely on the church and the gym for structure.

2018-04-23 22:41:07 UTC

Small group? AG detected. True though. Use an IE card as a bookmark in your bible maybe.

2018-04-23 22:42:20 UTC

Might help start the right conversation.

2018-04-24 04:49:32 UTC

Book based pickups are the best ways to find redpilled qt's.

2018-04-26 01:23:12 UTC

Book based?

2018-04-26 01:23:27 UTC

Like, go up to a qt reading a woke book and start a conversation about it?

2018-04-26 01:25:47 UTC

@NeoRealist nice, books are trad

2018-04-26 21:53:37 UTC

tfw you swipe through dating apps and there is not a single non degenerate thot in the lineup

2018-04-26 21:53:58 UTC

sad but tru

2018-04-26 21:54:11 UTC

boston is gross

2018-04-26 21:54:38 UTC

all the respectable women move here after they are married or dating already it seems like lol

2018-04-26 21:54:58 UTC

@Zyzz whats ur bio bro lemme copy that hahaha

2018-04-26 21:58:21 UTC

@johnnyc I stay far away from the tinders my man

2018-04-26 22:04:09 UTC

haha i thought u were talking about what to put on dating apps @Zyzz

2018-04-26 22:08:26 UTC

havent been on tinder in awhile but i find that the women tend to seem more put together and not as many thots on "bumble"

2018-04-26 22:17:21 UTC

I've heard the opposite

2018-04-26 23:05:01 UTC

lol really?

2018-04-26 23:05:22 UTC

ive heard the same from my friends about bumble

2018-04-26 23:08:20 UTC

I was on both on-and-off for years (frat guy in a big school). Tinder has a lot of thots, but if you're a top tier man you'll do better on it because there are more options and can beat 85% of most.

Bumble. Less thots, but women have to take the initiative to message you first. Not always a good thing because most women are notoriously bad at taking initiative in dating.

2018-04-26 23:09:05 UTC

I don't find Tinder to be helpful for improving your life

2018-04-26 23:10:53 UTC

It's not supposed to be used like most men use it. Limit yourself to five to ten minutes a day of swiping and that's it. You will have much better odds talking to 3D women IRL

2018-04-26 23:11:24 UTC

Of course. It's become a principle thing for me.

2018-04-26 23:12:33 UTC

I understand that. At the end of the day, it's just a tool, depending on how you use it, but even if used in a non-degenerate way it's not a super effective one compared to other methods of trying to find a GF.

2018-04-26 23:23:56 UTC

Bumble is deleting any gun related pics. They also donate to planned parenthood when you make a match.http://thefederalist.com/2018/04/24/bumble-presumes-all-of-its-users-support-planned-parenthood/

2018-04-27 00:43:07 UTC

I've been out of the dating game since before dating apps where a thing. But I can not imagine that it is a very good way to meet good women.

2018-04-27 00:45:23 UTC

it works if you're a morally shaky chad

2018-04-27 00:45:28 UTC

@johnnyc yeah I was using hinge with good results. you should note that these apps are location dependent. the idea is you want to use pictures and/or blurbs that screen out girls you are not interested in. For instance, I had a picture of myself in a trump hat. I also had a comment taking a jab at hook up culture, implying I am looking for something serious

2018-04-27 00:47:01 UTC

Again, come backs to how you use it. You can find quality women on there. You just have to do a lot of vetting and run your metal detector over lots of trash before you find buried treasure on the beach, metaphorically

2018-04-27 00:47:14 UTC

^

2018-04-27 00:53:18 UTC

@JesseJames me too. I think I just missed the cut-off too. Everyone I know IRL who got in a relationship after me got into it through a dating app.

2018-04-27 00:56:35 UTC

I don't know anyone who is in a real relationship that started on line. The only people I know who uses it is to hook up. I hate it for you single guys. I started dating my wife at 17 and was married at 20 and had our first kid at 21.

2018-04-27 01:08:54 UTC

@JesseJames a lot of negatives that were previously associated with internet dated have faded with a younger generation and more quality people have joined. a girl i took out last saturday asked me why i was using internet dating and i explained its a good way to meet people who can get a better feel for who you are prior to actually meeting you. i explained to her that I am not interested in dating any liberals or really anyone who doesnt like trump hence my picture with a trump hat. I also said if i was meeting some random girl at a bar or whatever then i really have no idea of who she is and vice versa. it'd be nice to meet people through family/friends but as you know we are a very disconnected people and many people find it difficult to meet people through friends.

2018-04-27 01:10:03 UTC

The pros of Internet dating are its cons. You have access to lots of high quality people. The problem is they have access to lots of people who are probably higher quality than you.

2018-04-27 01:27:02 UTC

hard to find guys higher quality than IE guys. if we do find them then we should recruit them

2018-04-27 01:27:57 UTC

I am in a frat. It is hard AF to rip normies out of there happy life to join us.

2018-04-27 01:28:40 UTC

Sometimes I tell guys that if you don't know what I'm talking about now, you will eventually. They are coming for us all

2018-04-27 01:28:55 UTC

Patrick made a comment on the fireside last night about 80% of women are sleeping with the top 20% of men. I don't think anything in the near term is going to derail that trend so my only piece of advice to all the IE men out there is to get in the top 20% if you're not already there. self improvement needs to be a cornerstone of our movement

2018-04-27 01:32:17 UTC

@Zyzz I'm kind of doubtful of that 80/20 stat

2018-04-27 01:32:41 UTC

It's true in sales.

2018-04-27 01:33:03 UTC

But regardless of the actual stat, I think it demonstrates a point.

2018-04-27 01:33:33 UTC

@ThisIsChris I cant confirm or deny that stat but I know one thing and it's I'd rather be in a powerful position where I have choice rather than a weak position where I am being chosen

2018-04-27 01:33:50 UTC

^This

2018-04-27 01:34:02 UTC

@Zyzz Just marry me already man

2018-04-27 01:34:06 UTC

lol

2018-04-27 01:34:29 UTC

self-improvement is important, for sure. I just don't want our guys to be any more black-pilled than they have to be, and that stat if true would be very black-pilling

2018-04-27 01:39:24 UTC

Men should always be in a constant state of improving themselves. That should continue even after marriage. If we're doing our jobs as men then that is par for the course no matter what that stat is.

2018-04-27 01:44:09 UTC

It also keeps your woman attracted to you

2018-04-27 01:44:55 UTC

^Yes, and motivates her to keep up, stay fit, and pull her weight in a relationship.

2018-04-27 13:22:11 UTC

Go to public gatherings with your IE guys, they are your best wingmen. You all will be confident around each other and the body language that emanates from that is good for you.

2018-04-27 16:03:02 UTC

What do you goys think about nightclubs/bars for the purpose of meeting grils? Are they inherently degenerate or just have some degenerate qualities?

2018-04-27 17:21:34 UTC

Depends on the bar. In a small town the bar is where everyone hangs out so it's not as degenerate, but I'd steer clear of night clubs.

2018-04-27 19:55:34 UTC

@Attrition in the desert Bars, great if you have game and a wingman. Women go here to socialize and find a mate. If you're looking for a girl who has never been with a man before or very religious, by all means, skip it. That said, it's a social environment and alcohol is a social lubricant, so people are open to talking or exchanging numbers.

Nightclubs: Garbage. Loud preventing dialogue, EXTREME competition (unless you're a 9/10 Chad you probably shouldn't even show), women are of either inferior moral/physical quality or usually superior physical but inferior moral quality.

2018-04-27 19:55:40 UTC

@Attrition in the desert mostly degenerate

2018-04-27 20:15:29 UTC

@Attrition in the desert how about a book club? Books are trad

2018-04-27 20:20:58 UTC

@ThisIsChris I have never met any woman who goes to a book club (not talking about church groups) that is not already a housewife with time on her hands or a shitlib that smokes pot, owns a cat, and praises modern art. Cultural marxism has infected that too.

2018-04-28 15:05:13 UTC

I met my wife in a foreign language course.

2018-04-28 15:05:26 UTC

Just throwing that out there

2018-04-28 15:06:56 UTC

I feel like anything having to do with education is a good place to meet women. (Maybe it's a good place for women to meet met as well?) Not that all the women/men are good, but that there are good women/men there.

2018-04-28 15:07:16 UTC

I do think with almost any activity you're always going to have to dig for the diamond in the rough

2018-04-28 15:07:30 UTC

@ThisIsChris I hadn't thought of language courses. When I heard book clubs, my mind flicked to bible or language.

But yes, absolutely agree that education is a great place to meet top tier women.

2018-04-28 15:07:50 UTC

Bible or fiction*

2018-04-28 15:13:36 UTC

@Washington ah yeah sure I see. I wasn't trying to argue against your book club statement either, just spitballing more ideas from my experience. A language course is kind of ideal because you can go get coffee to practice the language (This is how my wife and I started meeting outside the course).

My aesthetics... I don't see the point of a fiction book club, I'm really sick of consumer culture.

A bible reading group could be hit or miss I suppose, a lot of variables that could go into that. I do imagine a nonfiction book club would be good, depending on the book. A bible reading club could be good but you want to choose a good one since the bible is a lightening rod that attracts all type of people reading it. I think what makes a good bible reading group is the same thing that makes a good nonfiction reading group: hopefully the group is lead by an expert in the source material, which turns it into a sort of laid-back class.

2018-04-29 03:28:38 UTC

i think you should not go any place to meet a woman in particular. you should go about your life, increase the social things you do for yourself

2018-04-29 03:28:41 UTC

and keep your eyes open

2018-04-29 03:28:54 UTC

if you would go to book club or bible study anyways thats good

2018-04-29 20:41:00 UTC

The language course idea is really great when I think about it.

2018-04-29 21:02:54 UTC

agreed

2018-04-30 02:18:06 UTC

I also met my boyfriend through language courses. He speaks German and offered to practice with me.

2018-04-30 02:19:06 UTC

It’s great if you’re good at something and can offer to “help” a girl with it. She will think you’re just a nice guy and you can see if she’s worth hanging out with

2018-04-30 02:19:21 UTC

He didn't answer the door in his boxers a la Spencer?

2018-04-30 02:19:22 UTC

Krafty

2018-04-30 22:37:16 UTC

Checking on the wheat fields. No women yet.

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/440642824371830795/KIMG0413.JPG

2018-04-30 22:37:50 UTC

How far down did you dig?

2018-04-30 22:38:39 UTC

You should look in a huwheat field.

2018-04-30 22:38:42 UTC

I'm looking for the ones that have sprouted.

2018-04-30 22:38:52 UTC

I believe they start at 52 blocks down.

2018-04-30 22:39:13 UTC

Try a flax field.

2018-04-30 22:44:48 UTC

@Freiheit - CA You don't want flax women

2018-04-30 22:45:40 UTC

The legends of the flaxen-haired beauty are (((propaganda))) aren't they?

2018-05-01 00:39:00 UTC

i search for my women in watermelon patches

2018-05-01 00:39:13 UTC

😏

2018-05-01 00:39:40 UTC

Wodder melen

2018-05-01 00:40:09 UTC

Melen is wher melenen comes frum

2018-05-01 02:17:26 UTC

@Freiheit - CA <#390542955079008257> is <--- that way

2018-05-01 02:20:37 UTC

HAHAHAHAHAHHA

2018-05-01 02:54:01 UTC

I love how finna became a word. It was originally an autocorrect fail, when autocorrect meant you had an expensive phone. AFAIK

2018-05-10 16:54:24 UTC

*Hello fellow MGTOW's*

2018-05-10 16:56:29 UTC

Yeah goy just go your own way, you don't need those pesky white children

2018-05-10 17:04:46 UTC

“But don’t you want to travel abroad and have sex with local prostitutes goy?”

2018-05-10 17:05:46 UTC

"You'll be free from a nuclear family, a caring home and all that other pesky stuff"

2018-05-10 21:44:20 UTC

"Haha, who needs a woman that you actually have to spend money on? What retard would actually do that?"

2018-05-10 21:45:06 UTC

"H...heh....right...*sniffle* "

2018-05-10 22:02:29 UTC

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/444257949985144842/IMG_2383.JPG

2018-05-10 23:47:12 UTC

Craaawwwliiing innnnn myyy skiinnnn

2018-05-11 00:23:11 UTC

Little white children that will grow up and love their father and care for him.....

2018-05-11 00:23:33 UTC

Just say no to families....

2018-05-11 04:33:28 UTC

I wish I could find a wiif

2018-05-11 04:33:56 UTC

Are decent girls who aren't taken even real?

2018-05-11 04:34:11 UTC

In anime.

2018-05-11 04:34:16 UTC

2D waifus

2018-05-11 04:34:44 UTC

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/444356662430662666/42966fb2845f0a3d2d1ca3aedbd8667201354bc6_hq.jpg

2018-05-16 20:30:40 UTC

Bi-monthly wheat fields update: Still no women.

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/446409172297187328/KIMG0468.jpg

2018-05-17 18:04:31 UTC

@Der Seeteufel - SD I think you have to wait until harvest time.

2018-05-17 19:42:50 UTC

We'll see.

2018-05-18 02:55:59 UTC

Women don’t find the wheat fields, you must capture one and put them there.

2018-05-19 04:38:32 UTC

If I didn't know the context that would be a really scary quite. 😅

2018-05-19 06:18:01 UTC

@Der Seeteufel - SD tell her you live in the Windows XP background and she won't be able to resist

2018-05-19 10:43:13 UTC

@TV#8133 I don't actually live in the Windows XP background. I'm just the guy who grows them. Background farming is a small and neglected portion of the meme farming community.

2018-05-19 10:44:30 UTC

Also I think I just figured out why I'm single.

2018-05-21 21:38:46 UTC

Kinda disagree, to a degree.

2018-05-21 21:39:31 UTC

If you are under ~28-30, etc. there is no reason you should settle for less. You should be focusing on you, your skills, your fitness, your career, etc. and trying to better yourself to the point where you can "have any woman you want"

2018-05-21 21:42:28 UTC

Varg didn't start having kids till he was like 35

2018-05-21 23:17:48 UTC

To be fair the rest of the time he was in prison lol

2018-05-21 23:21:06 UTC

I think what he meant was that you have to actually step up and be a leader. No woman is going to meet all of your expectations right out of the gate...

2018-05-21 23:21:31 UTC

Not really about settling for less

2018-05-21 23:22:23 UTC

Yeah that perfect person in your head doesn't exist

2018-05-21 23:23:22 UTC

its important to put into perspective that your SO may have attributes that may be less than ideal. You need to decide if you can live with this. No one is perfect

2018-05-21 23:23:50 UTC

Surely we all have deal breakers but i think its important to not have an infinite number of them

2018-05-21 23:24:26 UTC

"you've got to learn to live with what you can't rise above if you want to make it down into this tunnel of love"-Bruce Springsteen

2018-05-21 23:26:58 UTC

At the end of the day you're lucky to just find one willing to grow with you

2018-05-21 23:27:00 UTC

"elbows too pointy. NEXT!"

2018-05-21 23:28:38 UTC

Yeah, I think any well adjusted person realizes this.

2018-05-21 23:28:45 UTC

Everyone is flawed and a work in progress

2018-05-22 06:03:09 UTC

Does anyone know any good dating apps that aren't scams or structured like a gimmick

2018-05-22 06:04:11 UTC

Idk man, the idea of dating apps is kinda flawed, like only broken women who can't get a date irl are on them in my experience.

2018-05-22 06:04:32 UTC

Whitedate.net

2018-05-22 06:04:45 UTC

It's just getting off the ground

2018-05-22 06:04:53 UTC

Oh wow

2018-05-22 06:04:53 UTC

Can't vouch for it

2018-05-22 06:05:12 UTC

Just know it exists

2018-05-22 06:14:53 UTC

Less than 2k members though

2018-05-30 13:53:06 UTC

Wheat field update #3: Due to a continuing lack of women we have decided to fertilize the wheat fields. Will update again in 15 days.

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/451382551228186624/20180530_084449.jpg

2018-06-08 02:46:29 UTC

how do you tell the difference between a girl just being nice to you/platonically friendly and her giving signs she's into you?

2018-06-08 02:53:27 UTC

There's entire books about this sort of stuff, but just asking is probably the easiest option. If you don't want to be super obvious just ask her to do something alone with you.

2018-06-08 02:53:40 UTC

tbh i'm not sure if I'm into her

2018-06-08 02:53:49 UTC

there's a girl in my martial arts class who started at the same time as me

2018-06-08 02:54:01 UTC

and all this time I have no idea if she's just been friendly with me or trying to subtley tell me she's into me

2018-06-08 02:54:15 UTC

so I'm just hoping for some kind of wisdom so I could differentiate

2018-06-08 02:56:44 UTC

Yeah if you're not really interested in her then I would just not even worry about it. Just do what you normally do and let her escalate things if that's what she wants to do.

2018-06-08 02:57:13 UTC

>women
>escalating things
🤔

2018-06-08 02:59:11 UTC

Well if you are not interested and she likes you and she never says anything that's not really your problem.

2018-06-08 02:59:20 UTC

fair enough

2018-06-08 13:04:03 UTC

@Gaius Mucius Scaevola look up IOIs (indicators of interest). Study these and eventually you’ll be able to tell on your own if she’s into you.

2018-06-08 13:08:33 UTC

Newly single. Advice on looking for someone who could be considered "marriage material?"

And/or what should be some basic criteria to look for?

2018-06-08 13:45:27 UTC

I might be biased, but, being an IE member is a good start

2018-06-08 13:48:04 UTC

IE > general population

2018-06-08 13:55:32 UTC

True, and I'd agree. But what would list as criteria to look for, in terms of character?

2018-06-08 15:35:28 UTC

@SamanthaM I think some important qualities in a partner are:
1. Able to communicate with you comfortably.
2. Being able to separate who you are as a person apart from what your emotional state might happen to be at one particular time.
3. Looking to make you comfortable.
I think these 3 go both ways in a successful relationship.

2018-06-08 23:13:13 UTC

@SamanthaM are you asking for yourself?

2018-06-08 23:34:20 UTC

@SamanthaM being a single women in IE is an absolute jackpot. idk if you go to meet ups but if not you should. the people(men) who i have met here are top quality. in terms of your question, i'd say someone who conveys to you that they want marriage and kids in the not so distant future. as in, someone who expresses intent and does so routinely. someone who isnt afraid of commitment.

2018-06-08 23:34:57 UTC

also someone with their career together. as in, they have a job they like and they have a path to advancement

2018-06-08 23:35:22 UTC

guys need to be financially secure in order to be available for marriage/kids

2018-06-09 00:29:25 UTC

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/454804174849441792/20180607_144021.jpg

2018-06-09 00:29:27 UTC

Come on ladies. Wheat fields are standing by.

2018-06-09 00:39:36 UTC

I just want to put this out there. I'm currently tied down, but if any IE girls need some dating profile pics I literally have access to thousands of acres of wheat.

2018-06-09 00:41:03 UTC

It's almost ready too.

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/454807103303843850/20180607_204103.jpg

2018-06-09 00:45:11 UTC

@micbwilli you're already married right?

2018-06-09 00:46:18 UTC

No but I'm not looking. I just kinda see post here and check them out. I'm discord obsessive and can't stand unread messages.

2018-06-09 00:46:41 UTC

I don't even know why I was added to this part of the server.

2018-06-09 00:50:24 UTC

I'm not a lady bro... 😅

2018-06-09 00:50:52 UTC

ya'll can still get married

2018-06-09 00:50:53 UTC

no homo

2018-06-09 00:51:00 UTC

Oh goyd I'm sorry bro!

2018-06-09 00:51:20 UTC

No worries. 👌

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