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2018-04-26 22:17:21 UTC

I've heard the opposite

2018-04-26 23:05:01 UTC

lol really?

2018-04-26 23:05:22 UTC

ive heard the same from my friends about bumble

2018-04-26 23:08:20 UTC

I was on both on-and-off for years (frat guy in a big school). Tinder has a lot of thots, but if you're a top tier man you'll do better on it because there are more options and can beat 85% of most.

Bumble. Less thots, but women have to take the initiative to message you first. Not always a good thing because most women are notoriously bad at taking initiative in dating.

2018-04-26 23:09:05 UTC

I don't find Tinder to be helpful for improving your life

2018-04-26 23:10:53 UTC

It's not supposed to be used like most men use it. Limit yourself to five to ten minutes a day of swiping and that's it. You will have much better odds talking to 3D women IRL

2018-04-26 23:11:24 UTC

Of course. It's become a principle thing for me.

2018-04-26 23:12:33 UTC

I understand that. At the end of the day, it's just a tool, depending on how you use it, but even if used in a non-degenerate way it's not a super effective one compared to other methods of trying to find a GF.

2018-04-26 23:23:56 UTC

Bumble is deleting any gun related pics. They also donate to planned parenthood when you make a match.http://thefederalist.com/2018/04/24/bumble-presumes-all-of-its-users-support-planned-parenthood/

2018-04-27 00:43:07 UTC

I've been out of the dating game since before dating apps where a thing. But I can not imagine that it is a very good way to meet good women.

2018-04-27 00:45:23 UTC

it works if you're a morally shaky chad

2018-04-27 00:45:28 UTC

@johnnyc yeah I was using hinge with good results. you should note that these apps are location dependent. the idea is you want to use pictures and/or blurbs that screen out girls you are not interested in. For instance, I had a picture of myself in a trump hat. I also had a comment taking a jab at hook up culture, implying I am looking for something serious

2018-04-27 00:47:01 UTC

Again, come backs to how you use it. You can find quality women on there. You just have to do a lot of vetting and run your metal detector over lots of trash before you find buried treasure on the beach, metaphorically

2018-04-27 00:47:14 UTC

^

2018-04-27 00:53:18 UTC

@JesseJames me too. I think I just missed the cut-off too. Everyone I know IRL who got in a relationship after me got into it through a dating app.

2018-04-27 00:56:35 UTC

I don't know anyone who is in a real relationship that started on line. The only people I know who uses it is to hook up. I hate it for you single guys. I started dating my wife at 17 and was married at 20 and had our first kid at 21.

2018-04-27 01:08:54 UTC

@JesseJames a lot of negatives that were previously associated with internet dated have faded with a younger generation and more quality people have joined. a girl i took out last saturday asked me why i was using internet dating and i explained its a good way to meet people who can get a better feel for who you are prior to actually meeting you. i explained to her that I am not interested in dating any liberals or really anyone who doesnt like trump hence my picture with a trump hat. I also said if i was meeting some random girl at a bar or whatever then i really have no idea of who she is and vice versa. it'd be nice to meet people through family/friends but as you know we are a very disconnected people and many people find it difficult to meet people through friends.

2018-04-27 01:10:03 UTC

The pros of Internet dating are its cons. You have access to lots of high quality people. The problem is they have access to lots of people who are probably higher quality than you.

2018-04-27 01:27:02 UTC

hard to find guys higher quality than IE guys. if we do find them then we should recruit them

2018-04-27 01:27:57 UTC

I am in a frat. It is hard AF to rip normies out of there happy life to join us.

2018-04-27 01:28:40 UTC

Sometimes I tell guys that if you don't know what I'm talking about now, you will eventually. They are coming for us all

2018-04-27 01:28:55 UTC

Patrick made a comment on the fireside last night about 80% of women are sleeping with the top 20% of men. I don't think anything in the near term is going to derail that trend so my only piece of advice to all the IE men out there is to get in the top 20% if you're not already there. self improvement needs to be a cornerstone of our movement

2018-04-27 01:32:17 UTC

@Zyzz I'm kind of doubtful of that 80/20 stat

2018-04-27 01:32:41 UTC

It's true in sales.

2018-04-27 01:33:03 UTC

But regardless of the actual stat, I think it demonstrates a point.

2018-04-27 01:33:33 UTC

@ThisIsChris I cant confirm or deny that stat but I know one thing and it's I'd rather be in a powerful position where I have choice rather than a weak position where I am being chosen

2018-04-27 01:33:50 UTC

^This

2018-04-27 01:34:02 UTC

@Zyzz Just marry me already man

2018-04-27 01:34:06 UTC

lol

2018-04-27 01:34:29 UTC

self-improvement is important, for sure. I just don't want our guys to be any more black-pilled than they have to be, and that stat if true would be very black-pilling

2018-04-27 01:39:24 UTC

Men should always be in a constant state of improving themselves. That should continue even after marriage. If we're doing our jobs as men then that is par for the course no matter what that stat is.

2018-04-27 01:44:09 UTC

It also keeps your woman attracted to you

2018-04-27 01:44:55 UTC

^Yes, and motivates her to keep up, stay fit, and pull her weight in a relationship.

2018-04-27 13:22:11 UTC

Go to public gatherings with your IE guys, they are your best wingmen. You all will be confident around each other and the body language that emanates from that is good for you.

2018-04-27 16:03:02 UTC

What do you goys think about nightclubs/bars for the purpose of meeting grils? Are they inherently degenerate or just have some degenerate qualities?

2018-04-27 17:21:34 UTC

Depends on the bar. In a small town the bar is where everyone hangs out so it's not as degenerate, but I'd steer clear of night clubs.

2018-04-27 19:55:34 UTC

@Attrition in the desert Bars, great if you have game and a wingman. Women go here to socialize and find a mate. If you're looking for a girl who has never been with a man before or very religious, by all means, skip it. That said, it's a social environment and alcohol is a social lubricant, so people are open to talking or exchanging numbers.

Nightclubs: Garbage. Loud preventing dialogue, EXTREME competition (unless you're a 9/10 Chad you probably shouldn't even show), women are of either inferior moral/physical quality or usually superior physical but inferior moral quality.

2018-04-27 19:55:40 UTC

@Attrition in the desert mostly degenerate

2018-04-27 20:15:29 UTC

@Attrition in the desert how about a book club? Books are trad

2018-04-27 20:20:58 UTC

@ThisIsChris I have never met any woman who goes to a book club (not talking about church groups) that is not already a housewife with time on her hands or a shitlib that smokes pot, owns a cat, and praises modern art. Cultural marxism has infected that too.

2018-04-28 15:05:13 UTC

I met my wife in a foreign language course.

2018-04-28 15:05:26 UTC

Just throwing that out there

2018-04-28 15:06:56 UTC

I feel like anything having to do with education is a good place to meet women. (Maybe it's a good place for women to meet met as well?) Not that all the women/men are good, but that there are good women/men there.

2018-04-28 15:07:16 UTC

I do think with almost any activity you're always going to have to dig for the diamond in the rough

2018-04-28 15:07:30 UTC

@ThisIsChris I hadn't thought of language courses. When I heard book clubs, my mind flicked to bible or language.

But yes, absolutely agree that education is a great place to meet top tier women.

2018-04-28 15:07:50 UTC

Bible or fiction*

2018-04-28 15:13:36 UTC

@Washington ah yeah sure I see. I wasn't trying to argue against your book club statement either, just spitballing more ideas from my experience. A language course is kind of ideal because you can go get coffee to practice the language (This is how my wife and I started meeting outside the course).

My aesthetics... I don't see the point of a fiction book club, I'm really sick of consumer culture.

A bible reading group could be hit or miss I suppose, a lot of variables that could go into that. I do imagine a nonfiction book club would be good, depending on the book. A bible reading club could be good but you want to choose a good one since the bible is a lightening rod that attracts all type of people reading it. I think what makes a good bible reading group is the same thing that makes a good nonfiction reading group: hopefully the group is lead by an expert in the source material, which turns it into a sort of laid-back class.

2018-04-29 03:28:38 UTC

i think you should not go any place to meet a woman in particular. you should go about your life, increase the social things you do for yourself

2018-04-29 03:28:41 UTC

and keep your eyes open

2018-04-29 03:28:54 UTC

if you would go to book club or bible study anyways thats good

2018-04-29 20:41:00 UTC

The language course idea is really great when I think about it.

2018-04-29 21:02:54 UTC

agreed

2018-04-30 02:18:06 UTC

I also met my boyfriend through language courses. He speaks German and offered to practice with me.

2018-04-30 02:19:06 UTC

Itโ€™s great if youโ€™re good at something and can offer to โ€œhelpโ€ a girl with it. She will think youโ€™re just a nice guy and you can see if sheโ€™s worth hanging out with

2018-04-30 02:19:21 UTC

He didn't answer the door in his boxers a la Spencer?

2018-04-30 02:19:22 UTC

Krafty

2018-04-30 22:37:16 UTC

Checking on the wheat fields. No women yet.

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/440642824371830795/KIMG0413.JPG

2018-04-30 22:37:50 UTC

How far down did you dig?

2018-04-30 22:38:39 UTC

You should look in a huwheat field.

2018-04-30 22:38:42 UTC

I'm looking for the ones that have sprouted.

2018-04-30 22:38:52 UTC

I believe they start at 52 blocks down.

2018-04-30 22:39:13 UTC

Try a flax field.

2018-04-30 22:44:48 UTC

@Freiheit - CA You don't want flax women

2018-04-30 22:45:40 UTC

The legends of the flaxen-haired beauty are (((propaganda))) aren't they?

2018-05-01 00:39:00 UTC

i search for my women in watermelon patches

2018-05-01 00:39:13 UTC

๐Ÿ˜

2018-05-01 00:39:40 UTC

Wodder melen

2018-05-01 00:40:09 UTC

Melen is wher melenen comes frum

2018-05-01 02:17:26 UTC

@Freiheit - CA <#390542955079008257> is <--- that way

2018-05-01 02:20:37 UTC

HAHAHAHAHAHHA

2018-05-01 02:54:01 UTC

I love how finna became a word. It was originally an autocorrect fail, when autocorrect meant you had an expensive phone. AFAIK

2018-05-10 16:54:24 UTC

*Hello fellow MGTOW's*

2018-05-10 16:56:29 UTC

Yeah goy just go your own way, you don't need those pesky white children

2018-05-10 17:04:46 UTC

โ€œBut donโ€™t you want to travel abroad and have sex with local prostitutes goy?โ€

2018-05-10 17:05:46 UTC

"You'll be free from a nuclear family, a caring home and all that other pesky stuff"

2018-05-10 21:44:20 UTC

"Haha, who needs a woman that you actually have to spend money on? What retard would actually do that?"

2018-05-10 21:45:06 UTC

"H...heh....right...*sniffle* "

2018-05-10 22:02:29 UTC

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/444257949985144842/IMG_2383.JPG

2018-05-10 23:47:12 UTC

Craaawwwliiing innnnn myyy skiinnnn

2018-05-11 00:23:11 UTC

Little white children that will grow up and love their father and care for him.....

2018-05-11 00:23:33 UTC

Just say no to families....

2018-05-11 04:33:28 UTC

I wish I could find a wiif

2018-05-11 04:33:56 UTC

Are decent girls who aren't taken even real?

2018-05-11 04:34:11 UTC

In anime.

2018-05-11 04:34:16 UTC

2D waifus

2018-05-11 04:34:44 UTC

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/444356662430662666/42966fb2845f0a3d2d1ca3aedbd8667201354bc6_hq.jpg

2018-05-16 20:30:40 UTC

Bi-monthly wheat fields update: Still no women.

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/436337973001322508/446409172297187328/KIMG0468.jpg

2018-05-17 18:04:31 UTC

@Der Seeteufel - SD I think you have to wait until harvest time.

2018-05-17 19:42:50 UTC

We'll see.

2018-05-18 02:55:59 UTC

Women donโ€™t find the wheat fields, you must capture one and put them there.

2018-05-19 04:38:32 UTC

If I didn't know the context that would be a really scary quite. ๐Ÿ˜…

2018-05-19 06:18:01 UTC

@Der Seeteufel - SD tell her you live in the Windows XP background and she won't be able to resist

2018-05-19 10:43:13 UTC

@TV#8133 I don't actually live in the Windows XP background. I'm just the guy who grows them. Background farming is a small and neglected portion of the meme farming community.

2018-05-19 10:44:30 UTC

Also I think I just figured out why I'm single.

2018-05-21 21:38:46 UTC

Kinda disagree, to a degree.

2018-05-21 21:39:31 UTC

If you are under ~28-30, etc. there is no reason you should settle for less. You should be focusing on you, your skills, your fitness, your career, etc. and trying to better yourself to the point where you can "have any woman you want"

2018-05-21 21:42:28 UTC

Varg didn't start having kids till he was like 35

2018-05-21 23:17:48 UTC

To be fair the rest of the time he was in prison lol

2018-05-21 23:21:06 UTC

I think what he meant was that you have to actually step up and be a leader. No woman is going to meet all of your expectations right out of the gate...

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