@TV She may also want to verify that you're a real person. Plenty of fake profiles out there that are used to lure women into unsafe situations. It's a real concern.

@Tanner - SC I use match, hinge, bumble, coffee meets bagel, and I am still on lesser apps like tinder and OkC. I have been out with girls from Match who complain about men they’ve met on Match and other dating apps. Guys will say one thing and go for another. Not everyone is upfront and honest these days. And girls are correct to be suspicious and distrusting initially. The only thing you can do as a man is understand how they feel and try to put them at ease. Stating your intent is a good start.

Do y’all think exclusivity should exist on the first date? Or are you fine with going on dates with multiple people at first and becoming exclusive with one after a few dates?

@Tanner - SC I think it should be, but it is not. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. You can make your intent known that you are looking for something serious, I'd advise against it unless it comes up naturally, but never make it exclusive on the first date. You just met them.

Generally, you can date multiple people unless somebody "DTR's" which is define the relationship, a talk where you tell the girl to stop seeing others and you will too

Depends on how well it goes, and it should be communicated

@Deleted User Yeah, as you said. Communicate it. Never assume that she's not seeing others because you aren't. Spell it out what you want and if what you want is her

Now, also, going on a date is different than dating. Dating tends to imply seeing them for a bit. I don't see anything wrong with going on dates with multiple people to narrow the field, but your goal should be to make a choice. A company interviews three candidates for any position. Shouldn't you do likewise for the woman you are going to spend awhile with?

@Tanner - SC I second literally everything Washington said

@Tanner - SC Since the first date may be a last date...no, but the second date better be exclusive, I think if one is committed enough to agree to a second date, they are either using you for free dinner, or you are the one for now. So if they have other dates, they're using, if it's just you, on date 2, person is "well adjusted" to quote the great Stephen Bennett.

This seems like signing up for an inevitable hack and doxx list:
https://www.amren.com/news/2018/02/new-white-dating-site/

Not to mention that there will be literally no women on that site.

Publicize it to women only groups on facebook using a fake ACC

You could do a great deal in an afternoon for that site.

I'm already on whitedate.net

The women are spread out.

Membership is free until they hit 10k members if memory serves

@Freiheit - CA Is the site any good?

Not very populated but not full of degenerates.

The search filters are a little buggy sometimes.

Haven't been on in a while.

Am I doing this tinder thing correctly?

@Der Seeteufel - SD Maybe don’t try tinder.

No use the app to get her out on a date. From there you ask more personal questions. But also, yeah don’t expect much on tinder

Use the app for light screening

@Zyzz At that point in the conversation I'm assuming Andrew was like, "Eff it."

Agreed. Use it as a vehicle to propose a date after about one or two questions/talking, get their cellphone number as another POC, and then schedule the date shortly after

I have a picture of me in a trump hat which screens a lot of degenerates

“Swipe based on your political preferences”

@Zyzz Agreed. Tinder is good for screening what you want and don't want. It's at your discretion. I've seen very trad girls on Tinder, mostly garbage but trad chicks very seldom. Still they exist. It's your job to swipe left on thots

@Washington I literally swipe right on all of them and only pay attention to them if we match. If they are not what I want I will unmatch. Online dating is a filtering tool and the least amount of work you can put in to get a girl out on a date should be the goal

It’s literally a funnel and a numbers game

I use copy and paste openers and screening questions

I use them so frequently my phone already knows what I’m going to say

@Zyzz Don't swipe right all the time, it hurts you algorithmically, but yeah, I do likewise

Yeah I'm actually not even looking for dates on tinder. Its just a TRS troll. Basically just trying to expose Tinder THOTs to alternative view points.

@Der Seeteufel - SD tbh, you sound a bit bitter there. Try to work on projecting a more compassionate voice if that's what you're trying to do

@Washington interesting I didn’t know that

@Der Seeteufel - SD I think it would be smart for IE to find a willing woman who would dress in IE garb and write a pro white profile that effectively shills for IE.

We would take the pictures and we would create profiles (with her pictures) all across the country

Interesting enough I actually first heard about TRS and the Daily Shoah through some girls tinder profile. Except she was definitely real lol and not attractive.

@John O - I was going for bored rather than bitter but the point is just to have some guys on tinder that don't worship the ground these girls walk on. I'm not going for hearts and minds.

Holy crap she just replied. I'm going to wait about an hour and ask her for her phone number.

Waiting games are stupid

@Zyzz Just create a lot of accounts and redpill guys by sending them the link to our site/literature. 8Chan's been doing it for awhile, lmao.

You’ve received bad advice

Waiting games work though on some level. Texting back instantly is not a good habit and comes off as needy, initially at least.

Waiting games are stupid

Need to strike when the iron is hot. With that said if she takes 5 hrs to reply and you text back instantly yeah that comes off bad

the answer is inbetween.

I rarely disagree with Washington

It’s stupid to say “I will text back exactly one hour later”

Washington is not wrong in his point though

I should have clarified my position. @Zyzz is right in that striking while the iron is hot and keeping/matching the tempo in step with teeing up for a date. Yeah, I meant to say that if you get a reply, it's okay to wait a few minutes to respond and if she waits an hour or two to respond to yours, it's also okay to pace accordingly. Mix it up. Reply a minute later to one text and wait two hours for another. Keep them anticipating/curious

Yeah space responses out over a while but strike while the iron is hot

If she's responding right away, you can do the same

Also @Der Seeteufel - SD nice. I had a feeling she would respond

When you get her number you should call her

The reason why it works is because you made her qualify herself to you. Girls can't stand being compared to all other girls so when you said "almost every girl I've talked to on here says the same thing" it bothered her more than the actual generalizations you made. She also knows that the generalizations are true and wants something better.

I'm actually at work right now so I can't consistently go back and forth. If I was at home I'd message her back sooner. I'm going to lunch now so I'll send her another message.

@Der Seeteufel - SD what about the based Australian arranged marriage?

@Der Seeteufel - SD also @Zyzz gave a good breakdown of the kind of people you find on each app a few days ago.

@ThisIsChris we're still talking but she's back in Australia for now. Like I said I'm not actually looking for dates. I'm just doing it for the lols

That's a keeper.

Sooo as @Washington pointed out to me the other day.. tinder/Bumble have algorithms that sort you based in desirability (or something similar). I was searching the interwebz last night and came across a brilliant yet sinister idea. So my understanding of the algo is you can boost yourself by 1) getting a lot of right swipes and/or 2) swiping left on a lot of people. An easy way to boost yourself is to say you’re interested in both men and women. Now obv we will be left swiping on all the men but chances are those homos will be swiping right on guys like us. So it accomplishes both objectives of boosting our “desirability” through receiving right swipes and a healthy number of left swipes for us to appear more selective.

@Zyzz Not a bad idea, but the issue is there are more dudes than girls on there, so be prepared to see a lot of dudes and lots of dudes. Most important thing to do is swipe right selectively and swipe left on lower tier people on you as it places you in terms of desirability.

🤔

Any tips for improving tinder profile overall? I recently added a pic of me playing my violin and added my height to my bio, that seems to have helped some.

all pictures have implicit messaging, send the right messages

its really all about the pics man.. profile is a distant second

adding your height inparticular will help you @Attrition in the desert

Also, look fucking good

Yeah I really need to hit the gym and get abs again

@Attrition in the desert you and @John O -

Or hit the kitchen rather

pack on 30lbs of muscle and you will be different humans

Right? Haha

I forgot this was an official server. I almost went ham on my boy @Zyzz

if you need ideas on good pics, you can change your settings to see men , and go through what's good and what's not

also kinda funny to see your competition that way

@Deleted User whenever I see other guy's dating profiles, all I can think is how gay it all is

seriously, i cringe at 90% of all these dudes

sometimes you find the chads who have great image control though, the kind to learn from

https://nypost.com/2018/07/10/still-single-try-marrying-a-stranger-expert-says/

^ Better than Tinder.

tfw literal arranged marriages

Bergman?

Why is the top interest of so many women travel? A lot being international travel. Is it status signaling? When they talk so much about travel, it makes me think they would be unhappy in a stay-at-home-mother role.

@Tanner - SC It’s pitched in books/movies/music as a life/growth experience. People think it will make them a more accomplished and compassionate person.

things white girls like: puppies and traveling

literally everytime

"Tee hee I love to travel and eat pizza LOL I also looove dogs let's go on adventures I'm so quirky hahah no one else is like me teehee"

I have 42 matches 26 of them have almost that exact same profile.

I have 1500+ matches and they are all the same archetype and vapid

Damn Rural South Dakota is doing me wrong. I thought 42 was pretty good.

To be fair though the biggest town within 100 miles of me has a population of around 14,000.

Tinder is run by Jews btw. Also, Jews don't use Tinder they use their own ethnodating app called JDate.

AryanDate when?

IDATEity Evropa

Time to get JDate

https://www.whitedate.net/

@Attrition in the desert