Message from @Attrition in the desert

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2018-06-29 17:37:36 UTC  

Also @Der Seeteufel - SD nice. I had a feeling she would respond

2018-06-29 17:38:05 UTC  

When you get her number you should call her

2018-06-29 17:41:16 UTC  

The reason why it works is because you made her qualify herself to you. Girls can't stand being compared to all other girls so when you said "almost every girl I've talked to on here says the same thing" it bothered her more than the actual generalizations you made. She also knows that the generalizations are true and wants something better.

2018-06-29 17:53:33 UTC  

I'm actually at work right now so I can't consistently go back and forth. If I was at home I'd message her back sooner. I'm going to lunch now so I'll send her another message.

2018-06-30 00:33:32 UTC  

@Der Seeteufel - SD what about the based Australian arranged marriage?

2018-06-30 00:38:11 UTC  

@Der Seeteufel - SD also @Zyzz gave a good breakdown of the kind of people you find on each app a few days ago.

2018-06-30 00:52:01 UTC  

@ThisIsChris we're still talking but she's back in Australia for now. Like I said I'm not actually looking for dates. I'm just doing it for the lols

2018-06-30 01:08:47 UTC  

That's a keeper.

2018-07-01 13:41:57 UTC  

Sooo as @Washington pointed out to me the other day.. tinder/Bumble have algorithms that sort you based in desirability (or something similar). I was searching the interwebz last night and came across a brilliant yet sinister idea. So my understanding of the algo is you can boost yourself by 1) getting a lot of right swipes and/or 2) swiping left on a lot of people. An easy way to boost yourself is to say you’re interested in both men and women. Now obv we will be left swiping on all the men but chances are those homos will be swiping right on guys like us. So it accomplishes both objectives of boosting our “desirability” through receiving right swipes and a healthy number of left swipes for us to appear more selective.

2018-07-01 13:44:40 UTC  

@Zyzz Not a bad idea, but the issue is there are more dudes than girls on there, so be prepared to see a lot of dudes and lots of dudes. Most important thing to do is swipe right selectively and swipe left on lower tier people on you as it places you in terms of desirability.

2018-07-01 13:45:04 UTC  

🤔

2018-07-01 13:53:23 UTC  

Any tips for improving tinder profile overall? I recently added a pic of me playing my violin and added my height to my bio, that seems to have helped some.

2018-07-01 13:54:14 UTC  

all pictures have implicit messaging, send the right messages

2018-07-01 13:54:16 UTC  

its really all about the pics man.. profile is a distant second

2018-07-01 13:54:31 UTC  

adding your height inparticular will help you @Attrition in the desert

2018-07-01 13:54:36 UTC  

Also, look fucking good

2018-07-01 13:58:06 UTC  

Yeah I really need to hit the gym and get abs again

2018-07-01 13:58:26 UTC  
2018-07-01 13:58:32 UTC  

Or hit the kitchen rather

2018-07-01 13:58:48 UTC  

pack on 30lbs of muscle and you will be different humans

2018-07-01 13:58:58 UTC  

Right? Haha

2018-07-01 14:02:43 UTC  

I forgot this was an official server. I almost went ham on my boy @Zyzz

2018-07-01 14:06:03 UTC  

if you need ideas on good pics, you can change your settings to see men , and go through what's good and what's not

2018-07-01 14:07:18 UTC  

also kinda funny to see your competition that way

2018-07-01 14:10:54 UTC  

@Deleted User whenever I see other guy's dating profiles, all I can think is how gay it all is

2018-07-01 14:13:49 UTC  

seriously, i cringe at 90% of all these dudes

2018-07-01 14:14:27 UTC  

sometimes you find the chads who have great image control though, the kind to learn from

2018-07-11 02:27:32 UTC  

^ Better than Tinder.

2018-07-11 02:33:12 UTC  

tfw literal arranged marriages

2018-07-16 06:25:35 UTC  

Bergman?

2018-07-16 22:30:10 UTC  

Why is the top interest of so many women travel? A lot being international travel. Is it status signaling? When they talk so much about travel, it makes me think they would be unhappy in a stay-at-home-mother role.

2018-07-16 22:32:47 UTC  

@Tanner - SC It’s pitched in books/movies/music as a life/growth experience. People think it will make them a more accomplished and compassionate person.

2018-07-16 22:33:45 UTC  

things white girls like: puppies and traveling

2018-07-16 22:33:51 UTC  

literally everytime

2018-07-17 01:24:36 UTC  

"Tee hee I love to travel and eat pizza LOL I also looove dogs let's go on adventures I'm so quirky hahah no one else is like me teehee"

2018-07-17 01:35:29 UTC  

I have 42 matches 26 of them have almost that exact same profile.

2018-07-17 01:36:23 UTC  

I have 1500+ matches and they are all the same archetype and vapid

2018-07-17 01:37:27 UTC  

Damn Rural South Dakota is doing me wrong. I thought 42 was pretty good.

2018-07-17 01:44:40 UTC  

To be fair though the biggest town within 100 miles of me has a population of around 14,000.

2018-07-17 05:56:28 UTC  

Tinder is run by Jews btw. Also, Jews don't use Tinder they use their own ethnodating app called JDate.