Message from @Jacob
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@Wood-Ape - OK/MN you're actually not kidding about the sister thing, huh? How old is she?
Not kidding. She is single and as tall as I stated. Under 30. However... she is divorced and has a kid. đ«
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN I donât see why a single mom with a white child is such a big deal. Just a chance to help raise one of our own.
At the end of the day, it's not your kid. You can love it like your kid, and there will be a point in my life where I won't have an issue marrying a woman with children as long as she wants more
I think a good question to ask is how does she feel about dating a guy that is shorter than her? Many women I know wonât date a guy shorter than them. Circumstances may be different for a girl thatâs 6â3â though
If itâs a white kid it is one of ours though
@JoeDrake True. I think the far right's over use of the "cuckholdry" and "my wife's son" memes causes single moms to be counted out. And yes my niece is white.
@Wood-Ape - OK/MN well I was asking because as a single father myself, I'm willing to be with a single mother given it's just one kid, (two is too much considering the resources it'll take since I want 2-3 more myself,) I know she's quality etc.
I'm the same height, that ain't an issue. But the age thing is, sadly. I turned 23 recently. I'd assume your niece is probably already past the toddler age, (not that bad, but) I have a brother myself that's 5-6 years older than me, whom I consider my senior so it'd be strange dating someone older than him and my sister-in-law. Not to mention it'll be 2 more years before I have that house, ready for family building etc.
Perhaps once I graduate, 25 yr old with 31 isn't that absurd. Kinda embarrassing it'll be until 25 that I have a career that's not from a phd or masters, but that's how the divorce reset goes lol
Could be epic
I.E. arranged marriage. Identity Matchropa
I'm 6'3 and willing to relocate @Wood-Ape - OK/MN
Always wanted an Amazon gf to beat me up
IE eugenics program
To father the star child that will complete the cycle of german idealism and become the overman
@John O - My sister is a great gal, but with tastes difficult to anticipate. I wouldn't move just for her. đ
Of course
@missliterallywho thanks for the stats on women's happiness. @ThisIsChris I needed this for using against women I am courting (mostly) who don't agree with my views.
@VinceChaos the video you posted "How to find a nationalist girlfriend" I disagree with. One many of us cannot afford a child who can live in a white neighborhood, so having a kid is outright dangerous. The fact is, all the trends indicate that the future is mass suffering for us, and frankly who would have kids, or should, if they think that they won't be able to themselves, spouse, and child away from that? Also note that I might be having a child myself, because I am in a relationship with someone with alot of resources who is older than I am. I would never have a kid with someone less financially able than me, because I have very little resources myself
If you have alot of money yourself, and what it takes to get a nationalist girlfriend, then yes your a hypocrite if your not having children. But if you just can't get a girl, or you have very little financial resources, then that is not being a hypocrite. Also by enough resources I mean alot more than enough to feed and clothe them, I mean enough to live in a white neighborhood
Warfare ???
Should you really be courting someone if you have to use stuff *against* them?
@Jacob Almost all women I meet are against what I believe. Especially the notion that 60 years ago women were happier, even among generally "conservative" women. I think sometimes IE taken Identitarians underestimate just how BAD it is out there finding a woman who is of our views, or even someone capable of being led to that point
Maybe it's just the word choice that threw me off. I get that more likely than not you'll have to guide a women a bit, but "against" sounds a bit harsh, like you're forcing the information on someone unwilling to hear it.
Which I suppose could be the case, I don't know
More like doesn't want to hear it.
Why do you need to convince them that life was better for women 60 years ago?? So long as they want to raise children the same why you do, assuming thatâs the intention, does it really matter??
She will read what I give her, watch videos, but yes she wants to see men as having it easy and women as being protected
*being protected today
@NateDahl76 Well because I want her to understand why women shouldn't vote as a whole and why women should be encouraged not to work. If being a career woman isn't the ideal, and she is, what if we have a girl? She will want the same thing for her daughter. If we have a boy, she needs to understand that he will likely end up in trouble if he looks for a relationship that is similar to his mother's and I. In other words she needs to understand that while it may work for her and I, we cannot pretend it will work equally well for our son or daughter
@Jonaltright dont worry about getting a girl on board with your exact political views. It matters in the long term but not early into the relationship.
You mean put off till tomorrow what you can do today, AFTER the baby is born?
No that's not what I mean
For one thing, it takes people a long time to fully understand what we're up against right now. Once you learn the facts you also have to learn to accept them and the weight that they carry. None of that has anything to do with whether a woman will make a quality wife or not. For example, a girl can know everything there is to know about the JQ but still be a huge whore and terrible person. On the other side there's a girl who doesn't know that much about politics but wants nothing more than to live out her natural role as a wife and mother - even if she doesn't ever verbally admit it.
Another aspect to consider is that most women will end up following their man.
They need to be lead
It's not about getting them to verbally admit you're right. It's about observable traits.
We are at the point of being ready to conceive but she has all the natural resources. She is 44, I am 27. By resources I mean she has ALOT of resources. We will not be together forever. This is my chance at very high quality genes, better than mine, in making a child. But she will have most of the power, and making sure she is fully onboard is all I have to insure she will be fully onboard with my tradtional plans. To be clear, she already has two kids to someone else who she has raised fairly conservatively- sends them to church, understands the importance of masculinity on the whole, etc
I wouldnât worry about convincing her âwomen shouldnât voteâ thatâs a terrible hill to die on. Also, if you donât have much in financial resources I suggest you take a less strict approach to her working. And there are absolutely white areas that are more middle/working class. Look at upstate NY. Or almost anywhere in New England.
@Zyzz I am all for her working, I am against encouraging our daughter to do the same, or expecting our son to find someone like her, the way I found her