But I figure it's hard enough for geniunely based/conservative women as well

So has some appeal to them as well

Most girls just start with “hi” and then that gives you go ahead to lead the conversation forward

"hi" : OK
"hii" : really good sign
"hiii": she's really into you
"hiiii": yowza bowza

@ThisIsChris on point

also says something about their personality

lmao too many i's too many guys

🤔

I found that too @Zyzz

It does seem to get quality women to their platform who aren’t just looking for that “hey sexy” message and a hook up

Introductions from other women in and around IE work well, in my experience

My fiancé has made several intros.

Well first event I’m going to Saturday! As long as it’s not cancelled 😬

I’s not cancelled. @VinceChaos, check Slack

@VinceChaos better see ya at LoPF 2019 as well 😉 (my spare funds were exhausted on DtR)

Oh that was so vague anyway lol

Yeah I’m not sure about the national conference yet! I’m strapped for cash but it should be near enough that I’ll be able to go with minimal travel expense

Well bois, just went on a date and managed to sperg out only minimally. Hell yeah.

Yeet goy

👏

Congrats @Attrition in the desert

Gamers rise up

Did you ask her what her opinion of King Charles the 2nd was

That's a second date question

Make sure you imply heavily the right answer, and let her know you'll be disappointed

I made sure to preface the date with the correct opinions regarding divine right and the accession of Edward the confessor.

The girl I was supposed to meet tonight flaked hard, but she sent her number instead. Either she's a scam in action, or she's very interested in the fake persona that I've carefully crafted via internet interactions

Hell yeah

2180 we can sperg about whether robot womb babies are white.

🤔

Been on Bumble a few days. I will say the quality of women seems much higher than OKcupid. Unfortunately you can't pre filter by race like you can on (based?) OKcupid. And I dislike not having agency in Bumbles' "only ladies can message" feature. Waiting on the matriarchy to peruse the meat market.

But on a silver lining, Bumble is less of a time sink than OKcupid was, due to the lack of action options for men.

Unlimited swiping has me hooked

Does Tinder not let you swipe in an unlimited way? OKCupid did.

OKCupid lets you undo a positive swipe, which bumble doesn't

Not if you aren’t paying for it. Which idk about y’all but I’ll pass on

I see. Of course, never pay Silicon Satan.
Bumble's pay feature seems to be kind of "poke" you can give a woman who has mutual liked you but not messaged you yet. Very underwhelming.

I got on bumble yesterday and there are some decent girls on there

I tried okcupid a long time ago but literally every girl was either a single mom or a feminist phd student

@Sherlock Many such cases. (sad!)