^^^^

What would have happened to the couples who struggled with such problems that the article mentions if they got married and then lived together?

you have to work them out because you have a preexisting bilateral commitment to do so

I wonder why the mod had to issue that announcement. Was there a problem in the chat?

@Deleted User I learned that lesson the hard way.

@Rick there was an article about "female hypergamy" posted that I removed. I made the announcement to make sure everyone is on the same page that we are here to help IE members and not to lament the status (accurately or not) of dating today.

@ThisIsChris ha. ok. I thought it be something like that.

If there is one piece of advice that I can offer my fellow goyim it is to never marry a girl for whom you have to compromise on your principles for. That will never work. Take it from someone who is redpilled and married to someone who isn't. It's rough. It's almost as bad has having different religions.

I got so incredibly lucky. I sat down with my now fiance about the JQ and race realism and all of it and she agreed with me

@Patient Zero What lesson did you learn?

To forget a girl when she ghosts you.

Never go back.

If it didn't work the first time, their is a reason for that.

I was especially vulnerable because I am far too trusting and hate being single.

It's understandable. do you think you would ever make that mistake again or have you outgrown that?

Well, I'm getting married in June, so hopefully I wont have to be in that situation again

But I think I outgrew the negative side of that for the most part.

Bros I hate to disagree but as a man being red pilled you absolutely do not have to have a woman whom is. While my wife is smart enough to see most of the bs going on in society today she doesn't involve her self with it. My wife is a total normie and that is perfectly fine. She is concerned with our kids and our house. She has no reason to be politically involved and that is perfectly fine. She knows my opinions and agrees with me but she doesn't have even the slightest itch to be concerned with this stuff. We have been married for 12 years and together for 15.

Perhaps I should clarify. My Fiance is apolitical. She happily agrees with my points and cares about other things. I very much enjoy it this way.

^ sounds good.
As long as she shares your morales and values that's what means the most.

Completely agree

I find most woman are that way unless they get pushed into it.

My wife is pretty apolitical. She definitely leans towards disagreement with me, but she is mostly indifferent.

But that indifference bothers me. It might be what others want, but it bothers me.

I get that, but back when women were women and men were men, it wasn't a problem.

Perhaps.

@Patient Zero I’ve made the mistake too, and I’ve watched several of my friends doing the same thing. That’s why I always stress that protocol now.

@JesseJames my wife is not red pilled either but she stays at home and takes care of our four kids, which was my top priority. Having a family unit is more important to me than having a red pilled wife. She doesn’t even think about politics anyways and votes republican because I tell her to.

Isn't that just a better system in general?

I'm so glad I found that. I know a lot of the younger guys in this movement are having a lot of trouble finding a girl who can at least be unbrainwashed or isn't and ideologue.

@Patient Zero once you have kids most women focus on that and the politics and philosophy no longer matter to them. They just need to fill their time up with child rearing to get their head right.

Tis a gift. One I respect.

@Deleted User you and I are on the same level my friend.

@JesseJames cheers to that sir. We’re on to something.

@Rick when you say compromise your principals, are you taking about any specific principals? Or morals and values in general

@Pat-MA I guess I compromised all around. I was not as selective as I should have been. My standards were too low. I settled. I have learned that you are better off being alone than with someone you aren't compatible with or head over heels in love with. It makes you feel trapped. No matter how anguishing loneliness is, being stuck in a relationship with someone you aren't happy with is worse. Curing loneliness is much easier than getting out of a bad relationship.

^^^ literally my situation for the past 5 years

Just ended it yesterday

I feel liberated

Glad to hear that. Not sure how to tag you.

Yeah, fix your name Pinoche Ball @𝖕 𝖎 𝖓 𝖔 𝖈 𝖍 𝖊 𝖙 𝖇 𝖆 𝖑 𝖑#2036