Message from @Patient Zero

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2018-04-20 01:11:39 UTC  

It's not necessarily *living together.* It's *living together before marriage.* Marriage is a a responsibility, like anything else. What the results are pointing to is that people who do not take this responsibility seriously are more likely to be irresponsible in other matters.

2018-04-20 01:15:45 UTC  

I was also thinking that people on the lower rungs of society are more likely to cohabitate for economic reasons

2018-04-20 01:16:24 UTC  

so just by shear numbers of the type of people who cohabitate first can add to those numbers

2018-04-20 01:16:29 UTC  

if that made sense

2018-04-20 01:18:47 UTC  

I agree with the general perception that, if a woman lives together with a man, doesn't marry him and then tries to continue dating she is seen as sullied, in the trad worldview at least.

2018-04-20 01:21:30 UTC  

@SamanthaM Exactly. That's correlation, not causality. If a responsible couple decides to live together without being married for whatever reason, they won't become more likely to have negative consequences just for that reason. The same as just because irresponsible couple gets married, doesn't mean they will stop drinking or being irresponsible.

2018-04-20 01:35:45 UTC  

One piece of advice gentlemen. If you break up with a girl, make her a complete stranger. No contact. Delete on line photos immediately. Delete her contact information and look forward completely. In addition once you get serious with a woman, drop all female friends. Don’t ever allow yourself to be in a room alone with another woman, even at work if you can.

2018-04-20 01:36:05 UTC  

^^^^

2018-04-20 01:46:34 UTC  

What would have happened to the couples who struggled with such problems that the article mentions if they got married and then lived together?

2018-04-20 03:03:20 UTC  

you have to work them out because you have a preexisting bilateral commitment to do so

2018-04-20 03:17:48 UTC  

I wonder why the mod had to issue that announcement. Was there a problem in the chat?

2018-04-20 03:19:47 UTC  

@Deleted User I learned that lesson the hard way.

2018-04-20 03:42:35 UTC  

@Rick there was an article about "female hypergamy" posted that I removed. I made the announcement to make sure everyone is on the same page that we are here to help IE members and not to lament the status (accurately or not) of dating today.

2018-04-20 03:49:45 UTC  

@ThisIsChris ha. ok. I thought it be something like that.

2018-04-20 03:52:13 UTC  

If there is one piece of advice that I can offer my fellow goyim it is to never marry a girl for whom you have to compromise on your principles for. That will never work. Take it from someone who is redpilled and married to someone who isn't. It's rough. It's almost as bad has having different religions.

2018-04-20 03:53:46 UTC  

I got so incredibly lucky. I sat down with my now fiance about the JQ and race realism and all of it and she agreed with me

2018-04-20 04:00:19 UTC  

@Patient Zero What lesson did you learn?

2018-04-20 04:02:23 UTC  

To forget a girl when she ghosts you.

2018-04-20 04:02:40 UTC  

Never go back.

2018-04-20 04:03:07 UTC  

If it didn't work the first time, their is a reason for that.

2018-04-20 04:04:26 UTC  

I was especially vulnerable because I am far too trusting and hate being single.

2018-04-20 04:05:32 UTC  

It's understandable. do you think you would ever make that mistake again or have you outgrown that?

2018-04-20 04:06:18 UTC  

Well, I'm getting married in June, so hopefully I wont have to be in that situation again

2018-04-20 04:06:37 UTC  

But I think I outgrew the negative side of that for the most part.

2018-04-20 04:11:32 UTC  

Bros I hate to disagree but as a man being red pilled you absolutely do not have to have a woman whom is. While my wife is smart enough to see most of the bs going on in society today she doesn't involve her self with it. My wife is a total normie and that is perfectly fine. She is concerned with our kids and our house. She has no reason to be politically involved and that is perfectly fine. She knows my opinions and agrees with me but she doesn't have even the slightest itch to be concerned with this stuff. We have been married for 12 years and together for 15.

2018-04-20 04:13:05 UTC  

Perhaps I should clarify. My Fiance is apolitical. She happily agrees with my points and cares about other things. I very much enjoy it this way.

2018-04-20 04:15:26 UTC  

^ sounds good.
As long as she shares your morales and values that's what means the most.

2018-04-20 04:15:41 UTC  

Completely agree

2018-04-20 04:16:05 UTC  

I find most woman are that way unless they get pushed into it.

2018-04-20 04:16:18 UTC  

My wife is pretty apolitical. She definitely leans towards disagreement with me, but she is mostly indifferent.

2018-04-20 04:17:26 UTC  

But that indifference bothers me. It might be what others want, but it bothers me.

2018-04-20 04:18:01 UTC  

I get that, but back when women were women and men were men, it wasn't a problem.

2018-04-20 04:24:37 UTC  

Perhaps.

2018-04-20 13:00:19 UTC  

@Patient Zero I’ve made the mistake too, and I’ve watched several of my friends doing the same thing. That’s why I always stress that protocol now.

2018-04-20 13:02:13 UTC  

@JesseJames my wife is not red pilled either but she stays at home and takes care of our four kids, which was my top priority. Having a family unit is more important to me than having a red pilled wife. She doesn’t even think about politics anyways and votes republican because I tell her to.

2018-04-20 13:40:19 UTC  

Isn't that just a better system in general?

2018-04-20 13:41:21 UTC  

I'm so glad I found that. I know a lot of the younger guys in this movement are having a lot of trouble finding a girl who can at least be unbrainwashed or isn't and ideologue.

2018-04-20 14:55:06 UTC  

@Patient Zero once you have kids most women focus on that and the politics and philosophy no longer matter to them. They just need to fill their time up with child rearing to get their head right.

2018-04-20 15:14:30 UTC  

Tis a gift. One I respect.

2018-04-20 16:49:48 UTC  

@Deleted User you and I are on the same level my friend.

2018-04-20 17:21:07 UTC  

@JesseJames cheers to that sir. We’re on to something.