It's understandable. do you think you would ever make that mistake again or have you outgrown that?

Well, I'm getting married in June, so hopefully I wont have to be in that situation again

But I think I outgrew the negative side of that for the most part.

Bros I hate to disagree but as a man being red pilled you absolutely do not have to have a woman whom is. While my wife is smart enough to see most of the bs going on in society today she doesn't involve her self with it. My wife is a total normie and that is perfectly fine. She is concerned with our kids and our house. She has no reason to be politically involved and that is perfectly fine. She knows my opinions and agrees with me but she doesn't have even the slightest itch to be concerned with this stuff. We have been married for 12 years and together for 15.

Perhaps I should clarify. My Fiance is apolitical. She happily agrees with my points and cares about other things. I very much enjoy it this way.

^ sounds good.
As long as she shares your morales and values that's what means the most.

Completely agree

I find most woman are that way unless they get pushed into it.

My wife is pretty apolitical. She definitely leans towards disagreement with me, but she is mostly indifferent.

But that indifference bothers me. It might be what others want, but it bothers me.

I get that, but back when women were women and men were men, it wasn't a problem.

Perhaps.

@Patient Zero I’ve made the mistake too, and I’ve watched several of my friends doing the same thing. That’s why I always stress that protocol now.

@JesseJames my wife is not red pilled either but she stays at home and takes care of our four kids, which was my top priority. Having a family unit is more important to me than having a red pilled wife. She doesn’t even think about politics anyways and votes republican because I tell her to.

Isn't that just a better system in general?

I'm so glad I found that. I know a lot of the younger guys in this movement are having a lot of trouble finding a girl who can at least be unbrainwashed or isn't and ideologue.

@Patient Zero once you have kids most women focus on that and the politics and philosophy no longer matter to them. They just need to fill their time up with child rearing to get their head right.

Tis a gift. One I respect.

@Deleted User you and I are on the same level my friend.

@JesseJames cheers to that sir. We’re on to something.

@Rick when you say compromise your principals, are you taking about any specific principals? Or morals and values in general

@Pat-MA I guess I compromised all around. I was not as selective as I should have been. My standards were too low. I settled. I have learned that you are better off being alone than with someone you aren't compatible with or head over heels in love with. It makes you feel trapped. No matter how anguishing loneliness is, being stuck in a relationship with someone you aren't happy with is worse. Curing loneliness is much easier than getting out of a bad relationship.

^^^ literally my situation for the past 5 years

Just ended it yesterday

I feel liberated

Glad to hear that. Not sure how to tag you.

Yeah, fix your name Pinoche Ball @𝖕 𝖎 𝖓 𝖔 𝖈 𝖍 𝖊 𝖙 𝖇 𝖆 𝖑 𝖑#2036

And how do you know if you should stay or leave?

@Pinochetball ^^^

Cant the mods fix my name independently in each server? If i change it doesnt it change it in every server?

It can't be read on phones because of the font

Im on a phone lol

all we see is boxes with questionmarks in them

Ill change it

Thats lame af

My phone displays it fine. Man... ghey

K gimme a min

Better?

No change?

Legible

Cool