Ooooooooh

This Cool Cat Is Talking To Hundreds Of Women, And Basically, You're A Dumb Idiot

Based on a quick Google search, I need to learn *10* cool tricks

@Jacob as far as being personable goes, listen to what people say, and smile genuinely. People like to talk in a conversation, not be talked at, unless you're a uniquely interesting person, which is less than one in 100

That 10 point list was basically 8/10 different ways of saying "show interest in other people"

Which is probably something I don't do enough of

lol I can imagine this tip going wrong

No you’re right about the 2:1 thing it’s not for relationships which are serious. There shouldn’t be such a barrier as message length to a healthy relationship

@Jacob read about body language. That can make a huge difference.

How to win friends and influence people @Jacob

@Zyzz funny thing about that book, the first edition had a chapter specifically for married couples, it was later removed as the book became to be known better as a resource for business-types

But you can find that chapter online

Is it good @ThisIsChris i read the rest of the book a few years ago. It was good but a lot of it was common sense. My grandpa actually recommended. It. He said it helped him when he moved to Cali from an isolated farm.

@Zyzz Oh ya I was already planning on buying that

I have a girlfriend!

Gratz bro

Awesome! Now turn this on and let things happen naturally. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZW9SiFzR8s

She's in Australia so I'm not sure that's going to work, but I'm going to visit her in December so I'll keep this in mind.

@Der Seeteufel - SD ayyyyyyyyyy nice

Did you send her a letter?

"Do you like like me?

Yes
No"

grats @Der Seeteufel - SD !

@Der Seeteufel - SD how did it happen? Did you ask her out?

We met through my church. I saw her over the summer but she wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I kept emailing her every so often though and just the other day she started emailing me back and then we started video calling one another. I asked to go and see her and she said yes and so I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes.

When are you traveling to the Southern Hemisphere?

Probably December around Christmas time.

We haven't fully worked out the details yet.

That will be nice considering that is their spring/summer.

Australia is a great place to visit. So much to see. What area will you be traveling to while there?

South Australia, North of Adelaide.

It's a family farm sort of in the middle of nowhere.

A lot like where I live.

Awesome. I never got to travel that far south when I was there. I have heard the southern coast has great coastline also.

I need that nervous man emoji on this server. I just got off the phone with her father. I hope I made a good impression.

You did.

simply talking to her dad is a great sign. She wouldn't do it if she wasn't serious

I was worried I was moving things along too quickly but then she goes and pulls introducing me to her father the day after I ask her to be my girlfriend. I think we might be made for each other. We're constantly keeping each other on our toes.

Yeah that's serious

Right now the biggest struggle in my relationship is getting to know her dad better

I plan on asking for his blessing soon

Congratulations man that's great. I always love seeing IE guys settling down and getting ready to raise the next generation of Identitarians.