Message from @Der Seeteufel - SD
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That’s not enough for me, I’d like a plan. Thus far, I’m leaning towards fertility testing before getting engaged.
The biggest issue of your plan is how to get that testing done without weirding her out.
Don't get me wrong, I'm in favor of it. I just don't know how to even go about bringing it up. It seems hard enough to do in the case where a husband and wife have tried and failed for a while.
It's asking a woman to potentially unveil the most brutal of truths.
You could >stumble upon information, and in a roundabout way make her think it's her own idea to find out?
lol
“Hey I found out there are great ways to test one’s fertility, here are my results; let’s see yours”?
@Tanner - SC I think this is the only way to make it turn out well
man, modernity is so weird
Don’t ask your girlfriend to take a fertility test lol.
Geez most people are afraid of having kids because of the...media...
We are fortunate.
The new Murdoch Murdoch knows what I’m talking about:
<https://youtu.be/s76QB5wiOlY>
MURDOCH-CHAN NOOOOO
@Tanner - SC haha that's great
Ultrasounds and bloodtests from a gynecologist can give a lot of insight. Not a 100% guarantee (which doesn't exist) but it will lead to a better understanding of her ability to carry.
Thanks y’all, that’s a plan I can follow.
I know I’m late to the party @Tanner - SC but you can tell a lot about fertility by appearance. Also was she on the pill? That stuff can mess with her health in many ways. I go married to a 28 yo when I was in my mid thirties. Two kids down and looking to have number 3 before she is 32.
I know I'm a bit late this too so... There are 14yrs btwn my hubby & I, I got married at 21,but had my daughter at 23. I know myself & Hubby are both "Fertile Myrtles", so it goes without saying that the 2 older Stepkids are Fertile but my step daughter has a harder time delivering. My own daughter I believe will be like me,so has also done the Norplant until she's ready some years later.
I think asking a woman outright about her Fertility would likely freak most out. So like above as mentioned..,its always good to ask what the mom,sisters, aunts have been like as far as getting pregnant right away,etc.
Dueling should be brought back
Seconded
I hope it grows to other states!
I don't think that is going to happen. Honestly this law might not even survive this case.
This is the best book on relationships I’ve ever read.
https://www.audible.com/pd/The-5-Love-Languages-for-Men-Audiobook/B00SI7P9QC
I have the generic 5 languages book. I will check out the for men version. thanks for the recommend
Yeah I've taken two marriage courses both mentioned 5 love languages
What does it mean when a girl asks "what are your stats?"
Asking for a friend
I sincerely hope that's not in reference to body count, ugh.
I think she wants to know your strength, dexterity, constitution, intelligence, wisdom, and charisma. Check your character sheet.
Height, weight, bench press, squat, hair eye color? AncestryDNA results?
Send her all your lift stats. Deadlift, squat, bench, pull ups. She’ll laugh and then clarify what she meant.
Or if you’re a car guy, send your horsepower, cylinder count, brake piston count, wheelbase, curb weight, etc.
She was just a random girl on the bus. I was just wondering what she meant
If you’re ever confused by what a girl is asking (all of us are, and frequently), play it off with a joke and then she’ll either joke along or clarify what she was more seriously seeking.
You're right about that. It's good advice. I used to just send emojis to girls when I didn't know how to respond. That or a "..."
Dang, I was thinking measurements...height, weight, uh.......height.
Interesting hypothesis. Probably correct in the broad general sense, but the reverse of course happens in individuals and situations.