Message from Attrition in the desert in MacGuyver - Skills & Academics #i-am-single
If I didn't know the context that would be a really scary quite. 😅
@Der Seeteufel - SD tell her you live in the Windows XP background and she won't be able to resist
@TV#8133 I don't actually live in the Windows XP background. I'm just the guy who grows them. Background farming is a small and neglected portion of the meme farming community.
Also I think I just figured out why I'm single.
Kinda disagree, to a degree.
If you are under ~28-30, etc. there is no reason you should settle for less. You should be focusing on you, your skills, your fitness, your career, etc. and trying to better yourself to the point where you can "have any woman you want"
Varg didn't start having kids till he was like 35
To be fair the rest of the time he was in prison lol
I think what he meant was that you have to actually step up and be a leader. No woman is going to meet all of your expectations right out of the gate...
Not really about settling for less
Yeah that perfect person in your head doesn't exist
its important to put into perspective that your SO may have attributes that may be less than ideal. You need to decide if you can live with this. No one is perfect
Surely we all have deal breakers but i think its important to not have an infinite number of them
"you've got to learn to live with what you can't rise above if you want to make it down into this tunnel of love"-Bruce Springsteen
At the end of the day you're lucky to just find one willing to grow with you
"elbows too pointy. NEXT!"
Yeah, I think any well adjusted person realizes this.
Everyone is flawed and a work in progress
Does anyone know any good dating apps that aren't scams or structured like a gimmick
Idk man, the idea of dating apps is kinda flawed, like only broken women who can't get a date irl are on them in my experience.
It's just getting off the ground
Can't vouch for it
Just know it exists
Less than 2k members though
Wheat field update #3: Due to a continuing lack of women we have decided to fertilize the wheat fields. Will update again in 15 days.
how do you tell the difference between a girl just being nice to you/platonically friendly and her giving signs she's into you?
There's entire books about this sort of stuff, but just asking is probably the easiest option. If you don't want to be super obvious just ask her to do something alone with you.
tbh i'm not sure if I'm into her
there's a girl in my martial arts class who started at the same time as me
and all this time I have no idea if she's just been friendly with me or trying to subtley tell me she's into me
so I'm just hoping for some kind of wisdom so I could differentiate
Yeah if you're not really interested in her then I would just not even worry about it. Just do what you normally do and let her escalate things if that's what she wants to do.
Well if you are not interested and she likes you and she never says anything that's not really your problem.
@Gaius Mucius Scaevola look up IOIs (indicators of interest). Study these and eventually you’ll be able to tell on your own if she’s into you.
Newly single. Advice on looking for someone who could be considered "marriage material?"
And/or what should be some basic criteria to look for?
I might be biased, but, being an IE member is a good start