I never understood why neglect = love in the TRP philosophy.

@Rarespawn | (213) trp iterates that if you love someone, they'll take you for granted.

It just goes completely against logic and common sense. You get out of a relationship what you put into it.

If you love someone TOO MUCH they will take advantage of you

My brother lost his job and his girlfriend and a lot of friends over the TRP stuff.

It's a cult

Agree with @Deleted User . One of the reasons I got into trp was due to having an issue with toxic people on my life. A la friends, relatives, teachers, etc

It is a cult.

Yeah, it's a fucking cult

My brain needs serious fucking rewiring

It doesn't make sense if you think about it, but I know how I felt after being passed on and mistreated by people with whom I was good with. Trp made sense then.

@Deleted User what happened with the girl then?

I met her on a study abroad programme

She fell head over heals for me

And spent 24 hours a day cooking for, loving me, doing things for me

I always cancelled dates and neglected her

I realized i had fucked up in the last month or so but it was too late

We are still together but will break up when I return home

It wouldn't have worked out long term anyway because her parents were strict Muslims

But it could have been a better summer fling if i wasn't brainwashed

What were your feelings towards her?

Loved her to bits but hid it very
Well

it's a damn shame

there's a few elements of trp that I can confirm from personal experience are true

but most of it is bullshit

I don't think I'll ever recover from it to be honest

I feel the same way, man. Now about OCD.

Do you have compulsions or is it Purely Obsessional?

compulsion

always had OCD

used to spend hours doing compulsions

If I may ask, what compulsions?

I'm also generally obsessional

Only if you're comfortable sharing them

repeating the same word

tapping

typing and then deleting thing

*things

I see. Are you on medications/therapy?

neither

been on medication and therapy