Don't worry @Jotaro the d1xieb00 you will get there eventually. My first (and last so far) relationship was at 22yo

A sadness is upon me, but i can't identify why and rn that's making me loose sleep. Too bad i have to drive 6 hrs back home tomorrow first thing in the morning

Someone I have a very deep care for was just diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor.

Fuck this year

Fuck this planet.

I'm done

Sorry to hear that man. Life can be a total bitch

How are you feeling?

Like eating a bullet

Can't say i don't know what that feels like. I wish i could do anything other than messages but that's how it is on this bitch of an earth.

How much more shit am I supposed to take fam? How many more people can I lose?

Doing anything helps?

Whenever i'm extremely depressed i listen to some classical music. My favourite song is Winter by Vivaldi

Maybe that isn't for you, but it might help

I can't anymore man. Thanks for trying but I don't think that's going to work this time

I get it

Stay safe fam

I'm not even Catholic and I'm thinking about going to confession. Fuck this fam. Fuck this.

I would say that's sort of normal. I am also not catholic and have thought of confessing. If that helps you go for it, there is something about talkin about your problems with the anonimity that it provides that kind of removes weight off that if they give you advice it might be religiously motivated.your back. Keep in mind

*weight of your back. Keep in mind that if they give you advice it might be religiously motivated.

Autocorrect messed me that one

If doing anything helps you cope, go for it, as long as it isn't unhealthy (drugs, alcohol or such)

@Foxhound I feel sorry for you

Don't take hard on you, if you're trying to get less sad

Only thing we can do is wait

But as Dr Meme said, don't drink to feel less depressed. One of my best friend drinks to keep him "away" with his sadness, and course it doesn't help

Drinking is cool, at the right moment and circumstances

Your emotional state is like pulling a string

Pull too hard, It'll break

Don't pull at all, It'll get stuck and won't move

Try to keep things balanced. Take your time, pal

@Foxhound I’m really sorry to hear that man. That’s rough dude

The only advice I can give is spend every second you can with them, because he/she needs u just as much as u need him/her

Is this channel just for rants or sadposting or what?

Mostly venting about problems

For when you catch the big gey

For when Merc is being a feg

For when Karen leaves you and takes the kids this is not a fucking joke I'm serious Karen just please let me see them!

For when you have an absolute bruh moment

What a night

* wake up
* look at chat
Well this is interesting

Lol

Im no longer a virgin...

Hooray!

Human or taxes?

What?

I banged a hooker

I didn't like it much

Buuuuut

Nice man

Tfw your ex is still stalking your profiles 2 months later

I fell in love with that bitch

Worst mistake ever

Oh fuck, not supposed to docthat

Most bizarre night of my life

Might wanna get your shit tested

I used condom lol

They don't fuck with you if you don't use one

Condoms dont necessarily stop everything. Do yourself a favor and get checked

Um, how don't they?

But yeah

Im getting checked anyway

Condoms are a profilactic, and not 100% effective

It didn't snap or anything

Yeah I'll let the Doc handle this one

Lol

This can be by a number of reasons (certain diseases are smaller than the pores in latex, thinner condoms break easily, other contact besides genitals) and you should always get checked as a safety mechanism when having sex with random people

^^^^^^^^^^

After a hook up I *always* get checked. No matter if a condom was used or not

This includes one night stands or hookers. If you already know your partner it's not urgent to check yourself, but still UTIs can still happen from time to time if you are not careful.

^^^^^^^^^^%

You may be right

We are right

Hes a doctor lmao

For serious

Thought it was only a nick

I got the nick because of medschool lol

At least I was super careful

Still fucking nervous

I'm a very worried person

Just get tested. It's easy enough to do

I'm getting a piss and blood test

Gg

Go get checked. If by whatever reason you got something there is treatment, and the majority of STDs are now easy to treat

And it's not expensive

If it is expensive to either buy protection, or get checked, maybe you shouldn't be having sex with random people

Just some general guidelines

Not the case

Ok then

Just get checked for your own safety

Still fucking afraid

Dunno why I did it

I generally don't advise to have a large number of sexual partners (besides moral reasons) because the more you have, the larger the chance of catching something you don't want, but if you do decide to have sex, practice it carefully and don't do stupid shit, your own safety is first.

Preach

No need to be afraid. Just get yourself checked out to be on the safe side

@Foxhound lol

@Sir Harndes I'm assuming that is because of porn. The image portrayed in porn of sex is different from real life (sounding like a bommer here) but the thought of paying someone to have sex sounds good at first, but you still lack the emotional connection. It will still feel good (physically at least) because you are sticking your dick in something.

Seriously though beyond moral reasons try not to sleep with random people. Playing with fire is fun till you get burnt

I hate myself

Why?

Did a fucking bad decision

Everyone does,

Yeah but this can compromise my health. Not something you play with, as he said before

Yo

Life is about having fun man

Sometimes you gotta take a chance like that.

But.

Be safe about it

It's that easy. I've fallen into bed with people before too. It happens.

What do you mean "easy"?

At first it sounds like you did something really bad, but its nervousnes. If you take it easy you will notice that the heaviest judgement Will be yourself

Just be safe and you can have fun.

I'm not gonna say you can't have any sexual contact yo be safe, just know that if something happens it's not the end of the world

It's easy to play it safe. Dont sleep around too much, wear a condom and get checked

I changed condom 3 times during sex

And always checked if it snaped or something

If I get a disease, I'll probably die lol

What do you do when you're getting super anxious and worried about something?

try to get your mind off of it, go play a agme or workout of rear a book

I feel ashamed, a disgrace to myself and my family

Get drunk

Lay down

Sleep it off

Prob the bigest shit I've done in my life so far

Lmao if that's the biggest thing you're doing fine

lol

IF I already don't have a disease

lol

I even let her kiss my mouth

Harn how old are you

Holy Balor...

19

At your age I was full on committing crimes like a hood eat lmao

*rat

Just get checked

Most likely you're fine

On the off chance you're notn

You deal with it. There are treatments available

Not for AIDS

There isn't a cure for it

You're thinking worst case senarios

go get checked man

I know

Fuck I1m crying

Shit

Sorry

brb

Bro its fine man xD

Just calm down

Ur overthinking a little

Yeah, take a breather man, or take a cool shower

Def not the worst thing you could have done dude

Cost benefit here of thing going wrong. Worst case you get a treatable disease. Best case you had an experience. Now you know what it was like and will be able to use that data to make future decisions.

@Sir Harndes you are not a disgrace to your family or yourself. Idgaf what anyone says, there is no shame in being a client to sex workers. There just isn't. It's legitimate work, and the only reason people feel shitty about it is because of the stigma surrounding it. As for your predicament, go get tested. What symptoms are you experiencing?

No simptoms

I had a panic attack

My hands still shacking

K well go get checked so u can stop doing a worry

Yeah man, if you're not suffering symptoms, you're probably fine

Breath in through your nose and out through your mouth

AIDS don't show symptoms so early, or not, idk

It takes a few weeks for symptoms to show up post coitus, a buddy got the clap 👏🏻 and didn’t see symptoms for 4 weeks until after the deed was done

How much did you pay?

It wasn't on dollars

???

Oh

Slrry

Oh I get it

Im a bit hazy

Look, I'm sure you're fine, you're just feeling panicky because it was your first time, and I'm guessing you paid her with a lil somethin somethin am I right?

What do you mean?

How did you pay her?

Money?

Oh, lol, well you said it wasn't in dollars, and I got confused so for some reason I assumed you paid her in like weed or coke or something 😂

Nvm about that, how much did you pay?

Reais

Brazil, remember?

Idk if I can explain

Just tell me how much you paid

150

40 min

Plus 40 for the room

Ok, that doesn't sound too bad

It ain't cheap, but I made a bargain

She wanted 200

Now I'm gonna ask, but im not judging, I get it was your first time, I'm just asking because I'm trying to get a sense of how likely it is you caught something. How pretty was she. 1 to 10, 1 being I needed a bag over her head, 10 being she was a god damn angel

I give her a solid 9

She's a milf lol

Oh ok then, you're probably fine :)

Older gals in that industry usually know what they're doing. Did you use protection?

@Sir Harndesthere actually is a cure for aids

Yeah

Changed 3 times

Cause it was dry af

But even if you can't get it, in this day and age it's not a problem, you can still die of old age even if you have it

Oh dude, you'll be fine

He doesn't have AIDs xD

I know he doesn't

I really dk

@Sir Harndes go get tested just to be certain, but chances are you don't have an STI

Just clarifying some previous statements

Can't rembember if I touched my dick when I switched comdoms

Is mean, she's 31

Not an oldy, but can be considered a milf

I'm sure you're fine, like 99.9% positive you are :)

Oh boy...

Wew

And btw

Good for you man

On one hand, you lost your v card, and on the other, you supported an industry that suffers too much stigma and bullshit. You deserve a gopnik award

Lol

Finally I can use my full adidas set proudly

I mean, you didn't need a gopnik award to do that but if it gives you the confidence to do that, then welcome to the club

Just a question @AKAlexei my dude? What country you live in that sex work is "legitimate" ?

Corrected lol

@Dr Meme well, he lives in US

It depends on state's law

From example

I live in the US. I believe firmly that sex work is legitimate work and that it needs to be legalized nationwide for the purposes of ending human trafficking, creating industry, and protecting those that work in the industry

I lived in Texas, and I can tell you It's agains't the law

If they see someone trying to "sell their product", the feds will give you a ride in their car

And I agree with him

There are a lot of woman who's just trying to survive

In my country sex work is the product of human trafficking, which it's the main reason it is illegal here. Legalizing it means legitimization of drug cartel work since they abduct girls and make them "work"

Forced prostitution isn't sex work. Its forced prostitution

There's a difference

The only "independent" service are woman trying to cheat on their husbands

Un here there is no legitimacy on that stuff

Well, technically it is. They have girls and make money by offering services, wether it is legal or ethical it's another thing

Ironic

>where I live, that service is just women cheating on their husbands
>literally most clients of sex workers are men cheating on their wives

Same thing here

Majority of clients are husbands who want to have some fun with another woman

I didn't say they are mutually exclusive, or making excuses for any of the parties involved. That's just the how things work around here

You hear all kinds of shit on the clinics

Because they come for STD treatment

And they just babble away all this stuff

Claiming they want to have something wives don't give'em

Well, think about it this way. It's two consenting adults agreeing to an exchange of money for services. Nothing unethical about that. I mean if you think about it, there isn't much a difference between porn and prostitution except that there's a camera involved so therefore it isn't legally prostitution. Two people are still being paid to fuck.

I mean, i don't really watch porn, but thats for health reasons, not ethical, although the porn industry plays a major role on sex trafficking and unethical practices that border on rape (as per testimonies of ex-pornstars)

That's why a lot of porn is independent now

Gives the actors and actresses more control over their work

Unless they are a couple that films their own sexual endeavors, there is no escape from the abuse they suffer

Hey man, I'm friends with people that do it, who are single and they enjoy their work just fine

I didn't say it's wrong or you shouldn't be friends with them

I'm not implying you did xD

They have a particular case and that is allright

But

Acknowledging the way that the industry promotes human trafficking and all kinds of abuse, won't solve the problems of many people and ultimately safe and ethical practices

I have personally nothing against sex work if proper regulation is placed, but atm that's not the way it works in the rest of the world, and the stigma (imo) is well deserved