I got to go bois and revise, catch you later

I never wanted a car jsut to get girls

See ya.

bai tubby

if I did, I wouldn't be selling my MX

Changes you make for others are temporary at best. Changes you make for you have a higher likelihood of being permanent.

true

I'll do a mad vinyl because rice is nice

I legit don't care, I want my 10 year old NFS Carbon playing nolifer me happy

And that's the real goal. Can you be happy in and of yourself?

Because if you can, it shines through. People notice that, they want a part of it.

I want to go for a mid 2000 fnf kinda look but more refined and less exaggerated

not that huge of a fan of today's tuning scene, at least visually

clean look just seems lazy to me

I've seen it done nicely both ways, I think it comes down to personal preference. I'm all for variety.

I actually like the car in your profile pic quite a bit

It's my dad's, his racing Porsche that he built. Sadly it's the one he crashed on the racetrack. His new one is a 911 with an Italian police paint job...lol

Nice

He races casually in his club. Some guy clipped him on a corner and it was over. I should try to find the pic of the door torn off

ouch

I was just glad he walked away from that accident.

so he totalled it completely?

Yep, and no insurance on race cars so it was a total loss.

You generally don't want to reuse parts for racing that have been in an accident.

and there I was thinking of building a track car lol

I'm not a good driver though

If you do, just go into it realising that...lol

They make you take driving classes. You have to put in like 60 hours of practice before you can do your first race.

I think I'd prefer time attack

I think it's a lot safer probably. You avoid the having to be first.

Like, I have no problem playing racing sims but real life is probablt completely different

only thing I change normally is I use no clutch pedal (I don't have third pedal in my setup) and increased steering rate (1:1 is impossible in an office chair)

Hi guys,
I have been dating this guy that I met in my first year of university since December 2016. I knew he had some strong opinions about manhood and women and I also knew he was very intelligent ( writing a lot for himself, online, very interesting views for a guy his age …) . I bonded with him, I guess because we understood each other. We were the two “gifted kids”, interesting ourselves to things that were supposed to be for “ more mature people” I thought he was just sharing random tips and opinions on what I discovered to be The Red Pill. I didn’t bother much until I found that he had a few books picturing women as those evil creatures who completely lack self-control and are just craving money and attention. For all the guys out here who may find themselves a bit lost in this whole Redpill BS, I am turning 20 years old, I am a woman and without bragging, I am considered attractive and I can tell you that women, ARE NOT searching for those kind of things. The Red Pill manipulates, twists and simplifies things. Yes, a woman prefers a man in shape, because that demonstrates that he can take care of himself and of her. Yes, women need the attention of a man, a lot of attention, to feel love, protected and taken care of. Women also tend to search a man with positive ambition ( not a money making machine without ethics), with a vision and who is hard-working and that’s just normal.
To sum up, I met this guy who is a wonderful person but who was lost into this RedPill shit. Once who got to know a bit more each other and we started dating, I told him very explicitly : “ Don’t try to touch me in a sexual manner because I need way more time”. He agreed but he kept pushing. Trying to burry his head in my cleavage, trying to touch me in other ways, grabbing me everywhere. I kept telling him to stop doing that, that I felt very uncomfortable. I told him more than 100th times.

One day, he got mad at me and told me : “ You’re not normal, why don’t you ever want to do anything fun with me ?”. There, I exploded. I started crying and explaining that I got raped a few years ago ( no not the average “ I got raped at a college party at least I think so”). He looked compassionate and I told him to keep it secret. And guess what, not only did he continue to grab me everywhere and pressure me (and it felt like a terrible humiliation), I also discovered than some of our friends knew about it, that he let a friend compare me to a “damage good”, he also wrote about it on TRP (I discovered it months later). People told him that he was my emotional sponge, that girls always apply last minute resistance because they don’t want to feel like sluts (if you go down this road and you force, it’s called a rape btw), and that every girl has a “stupid rape story”. That was just one story, but I have several like that in which my boyfriend said terrible things and acted terribly. But this one really hurted me . Now, he discovered how toxic TRP is, he’s totally against it and he’s trying to make a change but I am not sure it will erase all the things he did since I have been hurt by all his Red Pill mistakes for one year and a half while I tried to be the sweetest woman for him. So guys, please stay far away from TRP, it has the power to screw up your entire life and beautiful relationships.

Okay, that's quite a text dump gimme a sec to read xD

No problem, btw if anyone has an advice on the situation I am living ( I'm still with him). It would be gladly accepted 😃

I have one word of advice

RUN.

So...You're still living with a guy who humiliated you and won't take you seriously.

yea no joke what in the world

I think the answer is pretty clear.

hi i just wrote a book about why this sucks.......PS im still with him?

Exactly.

Now, I am a person with mental issues that I'm trying to work through but the guy is not only damaged but also not willing to change for the better

Also, as for the thing about overstepping your physical boundaries

You know his viewpoints. He hasn't given you any indication those viewpoints have changed.

you know better people are out there

go seek

that can be a sign of a malicious sociopath or even a narcissist

So yeah, jsut RUN

Way better people, at the very least people who will respect your physical boundaries.

But he changed, he got involved into ExRedPill groups, he recognises the fact that TRP is terrible and he's trying to spread that too. But it doesn't take away what he did

You should have said so

You left that part out

I said it in the end

Does he still disrespect your physical boundaries?

Now, he discovered how toxic TRP is, he’s totally against it and he’s trying to make a change "

No he doesn't

oh sorry I may have missed it

No worries

But that's the tricky part

Can you forgive someone who had been like that ?

has

I don't think we can help you with that

You're the one in the relationship that is up to you

That is entirely up to you

I have my own list of things that would be forgiveable and unforgiveable

If I were you I'd give him jsut one chance, but only one.

that choice is yours but you sure did make a long list of very negatives

enough for any normal person to hit the bricks

sane normal people are just around the corner

and you don't have all that baggage lurking

clean fresh start

for BOTH of you

Yup.

You don't believe that a relationship can grow stronger from forgiveness from those kind of baggage ? You think it's something that can ruin it forever ?

Sorry for my bad English by the way

As I said, it's difficult to say

getting started on the right foot is just around the corner

i'd rather build a future on solid ground

rather then a toxic dump site i've fixed

If it was me, it would be one more chance, but no more than that.

and from what you said plenty of lines have been crossed

shes got her whole life ahead of her for chances

shes 20

He keep saying that we built on a solid ground because we love each other a lot and we shared a deep connection and the things that he did was maybe like " 5 percent of the relationship", that's what he says. But I told him that I considered that to be shaky, what do you think about what he says ?

thats pretty early in life to start making such compromises

Maybe I'm just saying this because I can empathize with the misery TRP can bring onto you and how it can be spread to people around you

I feel you

I have so much empathy that I excuse anyone for anything, even if I suffer a lot from it

Wait, does he really still think TRP caused only 5% of your relationship's problems?

Because if he doesn't admit that he fucked up there is no reason to forgive him

No that's not it. He meant to say that 5 percent of our relationship were those problems even if he admits he completely f up. The rest was just pure love according to him

He said he had been trapped in the red pill since he was 15. Like a cult, he believed anything they said. He told me he honestly did not want to cause me any harm. He truly believed that women were like that and that's how you had to treat them. I can feel he's honest when he says it but...

do this guys have fathers?

these

i've never seen such a giant pile of toxic unguided people in my life

its like where all the single mother guys wash up

toxic unguided teaching other lost souls how to live a toxic unguided life

I think his issues lie beyond the red pill