No he doesn't

oh sorry I may have missed it

No worries

But that's the tricky part

Can you forgive someone who had been like that ?

has

I don't think we can help you with that

You're the one in the relationship that is up to you

That is entirely up to you

I have my own list of things that would be forgiveable and unforgiveable

If I were you I'd give him jsut one chance, but only one.

that choice is yours but you sure did make a long list of very negatives

enough for any normal person to hit the bricks

sane normal people are just around the corner

and you don't have all that baggage lurking

clean fresh start

for BOTH of you

Yup.

You don't believe that a relationship can grow stronger from forgiveness from those kind of baggage ? You think it's something that can ruin it forever ?

Sorry for my bad English by the way

As I said, it's difficult to say

getting started on the right foot is just around the corner

i'd rather build a future on solid ground

rather then a toxic dump site i've fixed

If it was me, it would be one more chance, but no more than that.

and from what you said plenty of lines have been crossed

shes got her whole life ahead of her for chances

shes 20

He keep saying that we built on a solid ground because we love each other a lot and we shared a deep connection and the things that he did was maybe like " 5 percent of the relationship", that's what he says. But I told him that I considered that to be shaky, what do you think about what he says ?

thats pretty early in life to start making such compromises

Maybe I'm just saying this because I can empathize with the misery TRP can bring onto you and how it can be spread to people around you

I feel you

I have so much empathy that I excuse anyone for anything, even if I suffer a lot from it

Wait, does he really still think TRP caused only 5% of your relationship's problems?

Because if he doesn't admit that he fucked up there is no reason to forgive him

No that's not it. He meant to say that 5 percent of our relationship were those problems even if he admits he completely f up. The rest was just pure love according to him

He said he had been trapped in the red pill since he was 15. Like a cult, he believed anything they said. He told me he honestly did not want to cause me any harm. He truly believed that women were like that and that's how you had to treat them. I can feel he's honest when he says it but...

do this guys have fathers?

these

i've never seen such a giant pile of toxic unguided people in my life

its like where all the single mother guys wash up