you know better people are out there

go seek

that can be a sign of a malicious sociopath or even a narcissist

So yeah, jsut RUN

Way better people, at the very least people who will respect your physical boundaries.

But he changed, he got involved into ExRedPill groups, he recognises the fact that TRP is terrible and he's trying to spread that too. But it doesn't take away what he did

You should have said so

You left that part out

I said it in the end

Does he still disrespect your physical boundaries?

Now, he discovered how toxic TRP is, he’s totally against it and he’s trying to make a change "

No he doesn't

oh sorry I may have missed it

No worries

But that's the tricky part

Can you forgive someone who had been like that ?

has

I don't think we can help you with that

You're the one in the relationship that is up to you

That is entirely up to you

I have my own list of things that would be forgiveable and unforgiveable

If I were you I'd give him jsut one chance, but only one.

that choice is yours but you sure did make a long list of very negatives

enough for any normal person to hit the bricks

sane normal people are just around the corner

and you don't have all that baggage lurking

clean fresh start

for BOTH of you

Yup.

You don't believe that a relationship can grow stronger from forgiveness from those kind of baggage ? You think it's something that can ruin it forever ?

Sorry for my bad English by the way

As I said, it's difficult to say

getting started on the right foot is just around the corner

i'd rather build a future on solid ground

rather then a toxic dump site i've fixed

If it was me, it would be one more chance, but no more than that.

and from what you said plenty of lines have been crossed

shes got her whole life ahead of her for chances

shes 20

He keep saying that we built on a solid ground because we love each other a lot and we shared a deep connection and the things that he did was maybe like " 5 percent of the relationship", that's what he says. But I told him that I considered that to be shaky, what do you think about what he says ?

thats pretty early in life to start making such compromises