Message from @Donut Steel Tendies
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No problem, btw if anyone has an advice on the situation I am living ( I'm still with him). It would be gladly accepted 😃
I have one word of advice
RUN.
So...You're still living with a guy who humiliated you and won't take you seriously.
yea no joke what in the world
I think the answer is pretty clear.
hi i just wrote a book about why this sucks.......PS im still with him?
Exactly.
Now, I am a person with mental issues that I'm trying to work through but the guy is not only damaged but also not willing to change for the better
Also, as for the thing about overstepping your physical boundaries
You know his viewpoints. He hasn't given you any indication those viewpoints have changed.
you know better people are out there
go seek
that can be a sign of a malicious sociopath or even a narcissist
So yeah, jsut RUN
Way better people, at the very least people who will respect your physical boundaries.
But he changed, he got involved into ExRedPill groups, he recognises the fact that TRP is terrible and he's trying to spread that too. But it doesn't take away what he did
You should have said so
You left that part out
I said it in the end
Now, he discovered how toxic TRP is, he’s totally against it and he’s trying to make a change "
No he doesn't
oh sorry I may have missed it
No worries
But that's the tricky part
Can you forgive someone who had been like that ?
has
I don't think we can help you with that
You're the one in the relationship that is up to you
That is entirely up to you
I have my own list of things that would be forgiveable and unforgiveable
If I were you I'd give him jsut one chance, but only one.
that choice is yours but you sure did make a long list of very negatives
enough for any normal person to hit the bricks
sane normal people are just around the corner
and you don't have all that baggage lurking
clean fresh start
for BOTH of you
Yup.
You don't believe that a relationship can grow stronger from forgiveness from those kind of baggage ? You think it's something that can ruin it forever ?