Hello, anyone here?

What are you all talking about?

I'm talking more along the lines of what's being discussed right now

Yeah, I can tell

Can I start by asking a more practical question?

At what point does "Having standards" stop and "Being shallow" begins?

When it comes to a man being the one who is deciding

It's just that there is someone interested in me but I'm not interested in that person and I find her unattractive to me but I also feel guilty for that

I am not a picky person at all but I am even less than average attracted to people who are overweight

Anyway I have a lecture in a few mins, I can chat some more in two hours

Welp, lecture's not happening so I'm back

can you explain what you mean by "you are less than avg so jsut take whatever comes your way"

Well, on one hand, it is true that I'm not in the best mental condition recently and my self esteem is really damn low, maybe even somewhat unreasonably so.

but I also believe that there is more to people than looks, though I think being overweight is a consequence of bad descisions and maybe it's okay to find it undesirable

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

Been having these problems since at least 5 years ago and I don't even know what to do. Tried everything, nothing worked

I have above average self consciousness so I'm less likely to do something cringy I guess

I used to have hobbies but I just don't seem to care about them much anymore

I need to find something new to do

Well, I've always been into cars. Maybe it's time to get serious about that

I've done some rust repair

done a shite job but I've learned a lot

Same with my MX5 though I'm selling it to get some money for a real project car

normally it would do but it has too much rust so I don't want to invest into it

that's pretty cool

Obviously, video games

but I'd like to reduce that

I aalso do some basic 3D modelling

yeah

I mostly do low to med poly car models

made like 4 of them since I'm not that quick. All made for VRChat

I always wanted to try DnD but I have no friends xD

Maybe one day I'll get enough people online together to try it since it sounds fun

Is it true that most people here are ex-TRP?

I was this close to going full TRP

luckily I found out that it's fundamentally flawed in its core before it was too late

I fall into the latter I guess

though my appearance apart from not being muscular is the exact opposite of what a socially awkward person would look like

I'm in the middle in terms of extroversion/introversion

I remember when I was first exposed to the whole TRP thing

it was a TFM's video about cycle of civilizations

started watching him from then until he started spamming my feed with adult toy reviews lol

one of the things that pushed me away from TRP was how I started reading between the lines of what TFM was saying and got to know him as a person a bit

for instance he was in a LTR with a fat and unattractive girl just so that she wouldn't leave him

you can guess how that ended

and yeah, you got it spot on with the "easy button" thing

Sandman is the worst of all and it is hard for me to admit I used to watch him but even then I didn't agree with him much

oh god

he makes Mark Zuckerberg sound like a real human

Main problem is that they preach for codependancy in relationships

not to mention that the theory of hypergamy is extremely flawed and it surprises me taht even those against TRP rarely bring that up

except r/exredpill, of course

True, though I wouldn't go as far as to say men and women are the same psychologically

*femoids

I see

incels are even more interesting actually

Same, but not in the way they want us to be sorry for them

I agree and I can empathise

I have low self esteem but I also know that a lot of the times it's not justified

I have low self esteem but I also know that a lot of the times it's not justified

I also see more parallels between incels and radfems than TRPs and radfems

Thanks, see you later

Now, I don't think everyone has a "responsibility" to have kids, but I do think that there is value in taking up responsibilities and overcoming them

then again I'm just saying this as someone who wouldn't want kids

just doesn't sound like my sort of thing, that's all

I cant even sort myself out

Howdy

r/exredpill

The whole alpha/beta thing is a false dichotomy I think and the best way to begin self improvement would be to ditch that entirely, in my opinion.

And the attention from women is also an inaccurate way to measure success. Harmful, even

Take me, for example

While I am bit on the shorter side and skinny I have decent looks and I do have some attention from women. However, if all was fine in my life I wouldn't be here.

That is actually true with any social rejection

I'm saying this as someone who didn't have a friendship that would last to this day

Women aren't the only ones that can hurt your self esteem

Most likely but I don't have a functional mic here

When I get back to uni I will have a mic ready

That's Monday until then I can only text

No, but I am from europe

2hrs ahead of you

Had a garbage middle school, changed schools, became socially isolated, had a few betrayals from friends, then I entered uni, had depression since then because subject I'm studying is quite stressful

I had only one unpleasant experience with a girl but it ended better for me than it did for her and I'm completely over that

Found TRP in 2016 I think, left late 2017

My main motivation was looking for meaning in life

I appreciate your honesty, too

Sure. Cya tommorow then.

Hey

@Rarespawn | (213) Not only that, observable reality is far from that

also thsoe "chads" mostly go for high n-count women, too and that was actually scientifically proven

most RP victims are socially isolated people.

I think staying away from crazy women should work in most cases

yeah

thank god i left it before it made me even more miserable

ironically only now i feel like im going my own way

I don't find pua lifestyle appealing

I'd rather have a proper ltr and be done with it

I have never been directly rejected in life so I cant relate

neither have I been accepted

I'm actually curious how different hunting for ltr and a regular pua thing are