sane normal people are just around the corner

and you don't have all that baggage lurking

clean fresh start

for BOTH of you

Yup.

You don't believe that a relationship can grow stronger from forgiveness from those kind of baggage ? You think it's something that can ruin it forever ?

Sorry for my bad English by the way

As I said, it's difficult to say

getting started on the right foot is just around the corner

i'd rather build a future on solid ground

rather then a toxic dump site i've fixed

If it was me, it would be one more chance, but no more than that.

and from what you said plenty of lines have been crossed

shes got her whole life ahead of her for chances

shes 20

He keep saying that we built on a solid ground because we love each other a lot and we shared a deep connection and the things that he did was maybe like " 5 percent of the relationship", that's what he says. But I told him that I considered that to be shaky, what do you think about what he says ?

thats pretty early in life to start making such compromises

Maybe I'm just saying this because I can empathize with the misery TRP can bring onto you and how it can be spread to people around you

I feel you

I have so much empathy that I excuse anyone for anything, even if I suffer a lot from it

Wait, does he really still think TRP caused only 5% of your relationship's problems?

Because if he doesn't admit that he fucked up there is no reason to forgive him

No that's not it. He meant to say that 5 percent of our relationship were those problems even if he admits he completely f up. The rest was just pure love according to him

He said he had been trapped in the red pill since he was 15. Like a cult, he believed anything they said. He told me he honestly did not want to cause me any harm. He truly believed that women were like that and that's how you had to treat them. I can feel he's honest when he says it but...

do this guys have fathers?

these

i've never seen such a giant pile of toxic unguided people in my life

its like where all the single mother guys wash up

toxic unguided teaching other lost souls how to live a toxic unguided life

I think his issues lie beyond the red pill

they all do

Me I didn't had one, He had one. He is kind of a wealthy American kid, went to a private school went to business school. I already spent time with his dad and even if he's physically there, I would say he was a bad role model, looking at a lot of other women than his lovely wife, poor standards and values, screams he's conservative but has the attitude of a crazy liberal,...

but they buy into this cult

what if these guys stick with it...actually have kids

It's crazy, TRP is completely toxic to society, the funny part is that they claim to be conservative while fucking up society

TRP is turning into male version of feminism

But even if you're in a cult, I don't get how you can lack humanity to this point

oxymoron

Forgiving someone and being in a relationship with them are two different things. You can do them together you can also do them separately.

It's reactionary to crazy feminists

One justifies the existence of the other