Message from @fgtveassassin

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2019-01-31 04:29:48 UTC  

Fair enough

2019-01-31 04:33:07 UTC  

brap

2019-01-31 04:33:26 UTC  

nah not really

2019-01-31 04:33:35 UTC  

but there's a learning curve I guess

2019-01-31 04:38:57 UTC  

The trickiest part is knowing who to pay homage to

2019-01-31 04:43:37 UTC  

@The Eternal Anglo babies are cheaper than living without them. The only costs are with copays. If you have some complications (we had an ambulance ride for example) you may pay 600 for the birth but likely less.

2019-01-31 04:44:47 UTC  

We did it with a midwife in a birth center which may have made it cheaper

2019-01-31 04:44:53 UTC  

Saw a very wholesome video of dads playing with their kids today on twatter

2019-01-31 04:45:14 UTC  

Made me wonder why I didn't want kids for so long

2019-01-31 04:50:25 UTC  

when did you start wanting kids?

2019-01-31 04:50:36 UTC  

was it a sudden thing or was it gradual?

2019-01-31 04:51:29 UTC  

Pretty recently actually, I was just around kids way more often and I realized how much I enjoyed it

2019-01-31 04:52:13 UTC  

Also for the time being, I like being around people's younger siblings so its nice to experience that since I never really had a younger sibling I was close with and its very fulfilling

2019-01-31 04:55:54 UTC  

oh that makes sense

2019-01-31 04:57:49 UTC  

Yeah, boys like between like 8-12 are the funniest too because they just want to rough house constantly, its all just very wholesome

2019-01-31 05:02:10 UTC  

@Logan that is odd, my sister has state employee insurance and her birthing cost $6k!

2019-01-31 05:03:00 UTC  

I don't think she took an ambulance or had a C-section (things that would hike cost)

2019-01-31 05:07:21 UTC  

this girl I know who is normally fairly liberal (nothing crazy, but like center left) told me yesterday "everyone wants kids"

2019-01-31 05:07:26 UTC  

I was actually kinda surprised

2019-01-31 05:07:46 UTC  

like isn't that pretty offensive to say these days? lol

2019-01-31 05:08:43 UTC  

They do in my experience, even the most degenerate people I know say they want kids one day, even if they say "eventually" I haven't met too many people that are adamant about no kids

2019-01-31 05:10:15 UTC  

Hospitals are extremely expense even without "extras" @Wood-Ape - OK/MN

2019-01-31 05:12:44 UTC  

My ambulance ride was non-emergency after the birth, just standard discharge procedure from the birth center because my blood pressure was slightly elevated. We paid less than $300 for the ride and the monitoring at the hospital.

2019-01-31 05:13:39 UTC  

I didn't want kids until my thirties but then I got major baby cravings

2019-01-31 05:14:19 UTC  

@Wood-Ape - OK/MN we had tricare at the time. I think it is better than most providers for having babies.

2019-01-31 05:17:06 UTC  

Birth centers and home births are always going to be cheaper because those facilities don't have the overhead costs of hospitals. I've read of people with no insurance at all paying 3k for a home birth, prenatal midwifery included.

2019-01-31 05:19:49 UTC  

woah, how much would a hospital birth cost?!

2019-01-31 05:20:24 UTC  

What exactly is the advantage of giving birth at a hospital opposed to an at home birth barring the child being choked by the umbilical cord/emergency situation

2019-01-31 05:24:25 UTC  

High risk moms must give birth in hospital by law (specifics vary by state). This includes conditions like gestational diabetes, preeclampsia, multiparity (twins+). If you want an epidural you must be in a hospital.

2019-01-31 05:25:09 UTC  

Birth center or at home means a totally drug free birth

2019-01-31 05:26:21 UTC  

I just checked my bank account and I'm actually doing surprisingly well with my spending this month

2019-01-31 05:27:06 UTC  

I only spent $817 in the past 30 days and that includes rent, utilities, food, and my trip to Montana

2019-01-31 05:27:39 UTC  

@missliterallywho that is a good tip, thank you. Any lady that can stand me enough to reproduce would probably be somewhat innawoods anyway. So I will remember about birth centers

2019-01-31 05:28:43 UTC  

Gotta have that helicopter ambulance insurance then

2019-01-31 05:29:38 UTC  

yes

2019-01-31 05:30:02 UTC  

I think it's different, rescue vs rural emergency

2019-01-31 05:30:59 UTC  

Those things are spendy to keep in the air. One rescue piolet I know said it's like $400 just in fuel

2019-01-31 05:31:17 UTC  

@Nemets you got taken away by a helicopter?

2019-01-31 05:32:26 UTC  

Only 43%?!

2019-01-31 05:32:49 UTC  

@missliterallywho ooooor, my own floatplane. 😎