Message from @Donut Steel Tendies
Discord ID: 447157286948044801
Out of curiosity how did you find this server?
r/exredpill
Hey there @Bustin Loose , welcome aboard
Sup bois. Found this on r/exredpill. I'm down for this. I've just started doing day game but as me.... No PUA shit just standard direct day game. If this discord remains active and fat we could start where mystery and style left off with some more honest shit. You won't convert red pillers if you've not much to offer. They crave juicy field reports. One that sucked me in was a guy talking about his 'plate' when wiping off his jizz off her chest she asked 'I wonder if counselling will help with my husband'.
my main concern is I have nothing to offer these guys. i have very little experience, I am a beta chode that's finally growing some balls. I have nothing juicy to convince them
As of now the red pill has 266k subscribers. If you want to make a real difference I think lilly on the exredpill post has a point. To make something to counter it. i wonder if infield day game on a youtube channel would help? Most of the redpill guys I imagine are just sat indoors seething with approach anxiety/social anxiety induced rage.
As a side I'm a massive nerd. I've constructed a spreadsheet that I'm filling in with my progression with girls. Hoping it will give some 'stats' for the cause
Would be decent to speak to some guys who have had the same experience as me. I'm UK based, what times are you bois on? I'm guessing you're all across the pond?
@IntAnon I can get behind this 'We need to teach young men that while they should be alpha, they should also be smart and look to their ancestors.'. If we promote growing some big old balls with a backbone and stay true to your morals I think that's a concept that can easily be sold. Hardcore self development too.
Also if anyone wants to play video games hit me up. Down for dota players.
The whole alpha/beta thing is a false dichotomy I think and the best way to begin self improvement would be to ditch that entirely, in my opinion.
yeah I get you man. 'tank' is my preferred adjective
'absolute unit'
And the attention from women is also an inaccurate way to measure success. Harmful, even
Take me, for example
While I am bit on the shorter side and skinny I have decent looks and I do have some attention from women. However, if all was fine in my life I wouldn't be here.
Trouble is though is it is a direct indicator of improvement. BUT I know what you mean. The moment you hit a drought with girls your self esteem/happiness goes down
That is actually true with any social rejection
What do you mean my man?
Weak friendships? If so, I'm in the same boat. Once uni ends, my social circle will crumble
Women aren't the only ones that can hurt your self esteem
Bro I'd chat but I can't go on the mic. Small house problems xD You about tomorrow?
Most likely but I don't have a functional mic here
When I get back to uni I will have a mic ready
That's Monday until then I can only text
Quick question, are you UK based?
I am.
No, but I am from europe
aaah ok bro. 😄
2hrs ahead of you
Briefly, what's your story then?
with trp
I'm sensing that you've been hurt by friends and girls?
* I don't want to pry too much
only say what you want 😄
Had a garbage middle school, changed schools, became socially isolated, had a few betrayals from friends, then I entered uni, had depression since then because subject I'm studying is quite stressful
I had only one unpleasant experience with a girl but it ended better for me than it did for her and I'm completely over that
Found TRP in 2016 I think, left late 2017