I just don't want short term raelationships

jsut don't want them

if I understood your answer correctly

I cry sometimes

social isolation

that is my problem

I have no place to start

legit none

I'm into cars, vidya, 3D modeling and doing random shit

I'm selling my MX5 for an SLK merc

if everything goes to plan I'll be building that bad boy up

also what do you mean by night/day game?

Not sure. I'm not a huge fan of aftermarket exhaust systems, so probably a nice turbo kit

definitely shortshifter and bucket seats

racing, RPGs, sometimes srategy and space sims

https://static.cargurus.com/images/site/2010/08/20/13/39/2000_mercedes-benz_slk-class-pic-4017957313594993209-1600x1200.jpeg

thsis is what I'm going for

I have a thing for convertibles

I never wanted a car jsut to get girls

bai tubby

if I did, I wouldn't be selling my MX

true

I'll do a mad vinyl because rice is nice

I legit don't care, I want my 10 year old NFS Carbon playing nolifer me happy

I want to go for a mid 2000 fnf kinda look but more refined and less exaggerated

not that huge of a fan of today's tuning scene, at least visually

clean look just seems lazy to me

I actually like the car in your profile pic quite a bit

Nice

ouch

so he totalled it completely?

and there I was thinking of building a track car lol

I'm not a good driver though

I think I'd prefer time attack

Like, I have no problem playing racing sims but real life is probablt completely different

only thing I change normally is I use no clutch pedal (I don't have third pedal in my setup) and increased steering rate (1:1 is impossible in an office chair)

Okay, that's quite a text dump gimme a sec to read xD

I have one word of advice

RUN.

Now, I am a person with mental issues that I'm trying to work through but the guy is not only damaged but also not willing to change for the better

Also, as for the thing about overstepping your physical boundaries

that can be a sign of a malicious sociopath or even a narcissist

So yeah, jsut RUN

You should have said so

Does he still disrespect your physical boundaries?

oh sorry I may have missed it

I don't think we can help you with that

That is entirely up to you

I have my own list of things that would be forgiveable and unforgiveable

If I were you I'd give him jsut one chance, but only one.

As I said, it's difficult to say

If it was me, it would be one more chance, but no more than that.

Maybe I'm just saying this because I can empathize with the misery TRP can bring onto you and how it can be spread to people around you

Wait, does he really still think TRP caused only 5% of your relationship's problems?

Because if he doesn't admit that he fucked up there is no reason to forgive him

TRP is turning into male version of feminism

I've had a weird phase after leaving TRP

best way to call it would be "Fuck the world, I'll just live alone"

right now I'm transitioning from this to "maybe I will let someone into my cold dead heart if they bring cookies"

believe it or not but I probably have even more boundaries when it comes to physical contact than you do @Maria Matthew so it's not really a male/female thing

Mine is 95% flushed to be honest

So I can't entirely relate

then again, I probably started earlier

Oh, I definitely have trust problems with women

that's why I'm not in a relationship lol

Mine is only from past experiences

TRP played no part in that

I'm noticing that I'm recovering from TRP a little quicker than the average person

I hope I can help others recover too

I've bridged the gap by going outcast for a while

which exaggerated my depression but also gave me valuable perspective

That's great

Started early 2016-ish

ended mid last year

on detox since jan

Because it started to appear absurd

started noticing pseudoscience

I had a spinal trauma from Aikido many years back

I do find stupidface's profile triggering because I still like Trump lol

/rthebluepill and especially r/mens lib are pretty toxic

though r/niceguys provides excellent examples of how NOT to pick up women

I personally find honesty the best policy when it comes to talking to women and I beleive the same holds actual dating

dunno if anyone would agree

if I need some rigid rules that exploit human nature to make someone attracted to me then probably I shouldn't be dating that someone

I don't see attention as currency as much as a side effect of attraction

reducing human interaction to transaction is the basis of TRP philosophy

fuck I should write that down

excessive attention right away is unattractive even to men

as a moderately attractive male I have had some women just stare at me in classes without trying to talk to me and I find that creepy and unattractive

I don't even want a family so it makes that goal twice as easy for me!

Cya tubs

personally I'd rather have a small circle of friends and family

so just having a gf would probably satisfy that need

but that is jsut me

obviously

god I'm starting to feel guilty for my plans xD

I understand that it would be best to but I really really really really don't want children

But should I feel guilty if I still don't want that when I'm 40?

In terms of gender roles I think some men will want to go for feminine things and vice versa and I think that's fine

@-stupidface- I may have misunderstood what your username+avatar meant :p