My only concern is you're up against a multinational industry almost. Depends on your goals. Convert as many as possible or just a few

Just got some guy on r/dating advice

They just want to be shown a little bit of support and encouragement. That they will be rejected but it's ok as some random internet stranger understands them and told them to keep going.

Hey

@tubby you're just repeating RP philosophy right there though. There is no real, peer reviewed, published, scientific evidence supporting the existence of a 'top' group of guys 'sleeping with all the women'.

RP preys on young men who are suffering, it preys on their self doubt and low self esteem, much like a cult would. The 'epidemic' of girls only having sex with hot guys is made up to keep guys in the group.

True, hand't thought of it as a tactic to convince. Trouble is they confirm the biases that their user base already has through being an insecure, spineless shy guy.

@Rarespawn | (213) Not only that, observable reality is far from that

also thsoe "chads" mostly go for high n-count women, too and that was actually scientifically proven

It is, but RP converts are taught not to look.

most RP victims are socially isolated people.

I work on a college campus. My brother came to eat lunch with me a few weeks ago. He was acting so weird and I asked him what was up. He was completely convinced someone would accuse him of rape in broad daylight, and it would ruin his (already ironically ruined) life. That's how messed up this stuff is.

I think staying away from crazy women should work in most cases

I get the concern, and I fully intend to teach my son to take care. But nobody is going to yell rape on a crowded street at lunchtime.

yeah

RP makes women subhuman, it's another way of further cutting off these young men from real connections.

thank god i left it before it made me even more miserable

ironically only now i feel like im going my own way

I'm glad you did. And in a way, you are :)

I think some aspects of game are real and these guys could do with learning it eye contact, tonality, kino ect. The key, and the hard core pua's and trp forget that it all has to be done in your own way which echos what @Donut Steel Tendies just said

I don't find pua lifestyle appealing

I'd rather have a proper ltr and be done with it

I think it needs to be treated with more respect then a game.

The good thing with 'game' is it takes more of the sting out of rejection. If a sad emerging incel leaves his sess pit and gets hit with 10 rejections fuck that's going to crush him

The only thing RP has right is self improvement and self confidence. And ironically those and all the other tricks work just as well on both men and women.

Exactly

I have never been directly rejected in life so I cant relate

neither have I been accepted

100% agree. What trp has over other subs is it drives those aspects home harder. Which I think is more 'truthful'. Some of the guys on r/dating need to do some motherfucking work

I'm actually curious how different hunting for ltr and a regular pua thing are

You have some time. The other thing RP philosophy pushes is that it's over for women at 30. Making it seem like there is a rush. There is a lot of life after 30, for both men and women.

I just don't want short term raelationships

More life than before, if you are being realistic.

jsut don't want them

if I understood your answer correctly

I've been rejected a shit tonne. In person, over text, in public. Stood up all that shit. It didn't do me any good xD I haven't cried for 10 years. I nearly cried on the bus on the way home after a rejection that stung. Then I found trp.

I think the power dynamic shifts at the age of ~30 though.

As for hunting, you hunt for great women that you like. If you hit it off enough that's when it becomes more serious.

I cry sometimes

only human

Crying is human, men would do well to remember that.

What is important is that you find what makes you sad and, isolate the problem and deal with it

Rejection hurts for both sides too.