As of right now, I’d like to thank Jesse and BOND, because I’ve gotten my life in order. I obtained a new job and I’m moving out into my own place. I’m going to start school again in January, as well. As soon as I’m used to my job I’ll be getting a gym membership and I’ll be working on myself, grinding. As men we have to sweat for what we have and earn. We can’t be held back by our fear. Thank you @JesseLee for your wisdom and for helping put me on the right path.

@noobpocket thats amazing - thanks for sharing your story - congrats on the new job

@noobpocket so proud and happy for you. I am very impressed.

#rebuildingtheman.

We need more success stories and testimonies. Don’t be shy folks

@Hake

@noobpocket hey man, its great to hear about a brother doing well. If you can, enroll in a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu academy; or any martial art. It fosters camaraderie, self-confidence, and life long friendships. You meet people that are practicing a beautiful but challenging art and you're learning together. You advancing together. You'll have stories to tell! Trust me. I haven't met anyone that didn't like it yet. Continue making progress brother. We all have your back.

great input walter, I appreciate the brotherhood here.

Happy Men's History month!!

IT IS MENS HISTORY MONTH!!!

🎉 I love men! 🎈

Can’t say that too loud tho

I love being a man. Grateful God made me a man.

good morning, baby stepping this new medium: discord, to many moving pieces 😃

hey all happy mans history month.

HAPPY MENS HISTORY MONTH!!!

Heya

I had some questions I think could get some help with 😅

Do all men need to be manly men?

Like don't guys like hanging out with cuter less imposing guys? Or do you think they don't make good company?

I like going downtown with my tougher friends because I can just chill and not worry about getting jumped or harassed. It's just easier since I'm pretty small and weak. I think it's smart.

Some men are more poetic and weak like Jacob in the Bible. Nothing really wrong with it. A beta is a man who is Spiritually weak, not physically.

My two cents

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I thought hanging out with a manlier crowd would help me be more manly, but it kind of makes me feel effeminate instead since they treat me like a beta. Is there anything I can do?

@aeriey get these mp3's , they'll give spiritual support. I think that's going to be 90% of it. https://archive.org/details/Jesse.Lee.Peterson.Church

@aeriey if this has to do with you possibly being an introvert, then I can answer that being an introvert doesn’t make you a beta male. It’s spiritually & emotionally that does.

Eheh, it's a little more risque than just that. I don't want to put anyone off by sharing the inhibitions I wrecklessly indulge in

Just be comfortable with yourself man. Don’t be caught in your thoughts. When you overthink situations you already defeat and deflate yourself, just be natural and let the “scary” stuff slide off you like it has no effect

Idk what your definition of manly is then. But that sounds kinda scary. Men who are rowdy, drink & indulge in morally unacceptable behavior are not manly, just godless.

I think I'm doing something morally wrong, probably beyond redemption. Oh well

What are you doing here then?

Manly men are not immoral so I guess you have your answer

@aeriey are you going to take steps to a better frame of mind or are you going to just stay on your course?

I'm always trying to improve myself and become better! Just that since I'm not very religiously knowledge beyond my own interpretation, I don't know if I'm a sinner or a good person, or a heathen. And what things I should and shouldn't do. As long as I'm good to others it doesn't matter what I indulge in as long as it doesn't hurt anyone right? I'd really appreciate being corrected if I'm off 😅

I really connected with Jesse Lee's interview videos and really feel like I understand how men need to be leaders and how toxic the slut culture is, so I want to leave behind the bad stuff and condition myself to behave like a proper man. Really I just wish I had some one to talk to who understands what it's like to give into dark desires and how to break away from them

Anyway I'm rambling and embarrassing myself 😏

You said "I don't know if I'm a sinner or a good person", but you then say "as long as i'm good to others it doesn't matter what I indulge in as long as it doesn't hurt anyone" so how can you know if what you are doing is good or bad? --that kind of logical error a sign that you need Church with Jesse Peterson. That's why I gave you the Archive.org link to Jesse's Church service. Find one with a title that attracts you and start from there.

That belief that as long as you’re good to others then it doesn’t matter what you indulge in is a typical leftist view. You need morals and values in order to be an upstanding man. So yes i recommend church with Jesse whether you’re religious or not

how do you guys deal with situation that frighten you like for example I have a little problem with water in my appartement and I am afraid that it might turn into a whole big thing. How can I deal with that fear?