Message from @TV
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What should I look for in particular? Are there any tell-tale body signs that have worked for you guys?
honestly, you'll know
Yeah, pretty much you'll just know, but it something you'll have to start paying attention to.
There used to be some videos on the subject but they all got taken down because it's sexist to recognize micro expressions
For good reason too, readable body language is a tool of male dominance
But thanks for the advice so far, I'll definitely be more aware of it going forward
like, if you're not full on autistic (literaly they're unable to recognize body language and emotion), you're fine lol
oh and experiment with your facial hair
I find for me, a great shave really makes my jaw stronger
Yeah, same, whenever I have the time I always stay clean shaven
though I still want a beard... In time 🙄
@Nicholas1166 - NY That's exactly why those videos were taken down lol. People used to get so worked up over the idea that there are observable beta and alpha traits. Even though one of the videos was just comparing footage of gorillas in the wild.
The virgin/Chad meme really changed the game.
It really is a high caliber meme, and a very versatile one at that
oh and I totally neglected to mention the obvious: lower body fat = more chiseled jaw
😉
@TV I don't think that's true. I didn't know about that complaint until I read internet forums, and I kind of always would have felt weird just going up to someone in public and striking up conversation.
What's not true?
That the only reason you feel weird striking up conversations with strangers is because women complain about "creepy men"
Oooh. It's true for a lot of guys though.
more generally I'd say it's just lacking confidence
That's the main issue.
A confident, fit, white man is exactly what they don't want you to be.
we live in a society
here's a good video to observe body language.
look at his wife throughout this journey
Wife of the year if she stayed with him that long
Lack of confidence will ruin your chances chicks will pick up on that instantly
Always appear confident if you find yourself unable to do that then try some self improvement
In that video, look at the guys shirt at 2:09
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Commie...
Or I dunno, his wife is cute, maybe NAZBOL GANG?
(probably not)
Thoughts on the glasses question? Been thinking of getting contacts. Sometimes I think I look good with them, sometimes not.
@Attrition in the desert I have been thinking the same thing.
Well, I know when looking at screens for extended periods (its exacerbated at night or the end of a day,) my contacts can really irritate my eyes. So on a day I'm going to be much more active, or need to look my best, I'll don the contacts. On days I'm doing a lot of work at a screen, or just to give my eyes a break, be lazy, w/e , I'll go for glasses. It's quite nice having both. And I usually end up going a month and a half to two months per pair of 1-month lenses before having to replace since I wear glasses sometimes. (They'll start to split/tear, get warped, etc.)
Acuvue Oaysis contact lenses are so comfortable, I never have issues wearing them, highly recommended.
Contacts worn everyday will dry out and hurt your eyes. It's best to put some drops or gel in before bed if you wear contacts everyday. I don't think glasses or no glasses is much of a factor. If you feel confident in glasses then great if not try some new pairs or switch to contacts.
I take out the contact lenses before bed and store them in cleaning solution overnight.