Message from @Jacob

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2018-09-29 17:02:04 UTC  

just like, line up your teeth where they should naturally fit

2018-09-29 17:03:10 UTC  

A girl's body language tells you how she feels about you more than anything else you can pick up in a conversation

2018-09-29 17:06:57 UTC  

What should I look for in particular? Are there any tell-tale body signs that have worked for you guys?

2018-09-29 17:07:12 UTC  

honestly, you'll know

2018-09-29 17:08:13 UTC  

Yeah, pretty much you'll just know, but it something you'll have to start paying attention to.

2018-09-29 17:10:46 UTC  

There used to be some videos on the subject but they all got taken down because it's sexist to recognize micro expressions

2018-09-29 17:11:54 UTC  

For good reason too, readable body language is a tool of male dominance

2018-09-29 17:12:20 UTC  

But thanks for the advice so far, I'll definitely be more aware of it going forward

2018-09-29 17:12:40 UTC  

like, if you're not full on autistic (literaly they're unable to recognize body language and emotion), you're fine lol

2018-09-29 17:26:17 UTC  

oh and experiment with your facial hair

2018-09-29 17:26:42 UTC  

I find for me, a great shave really makes my jaw stronger

2018-09-29 17:27:00 UTC  

Yeah, same, whenever I have the time I always stay clean shaven

2018-09-29 17:27:48 UTC  

though I still want a beard... In time 🙄

2018-09-29 17:28:05 UTC  

@Nicholas1166 - NY That's exactly why those videos were taken down lol. People used to get so worked up over the idea that there are observable beta and alpha traits. Even though one of the videos was just comparing footage of gorillas in the wild.

2018-09-29 17:28:39 UTC  

The virgin/Chad meme really changed the game.

2018-09-29 17:30:51 UTC  

It really is a high caliber meme, and a very versatile one at that

2018-09-29 17:37:03 UTC  

oh and I totally neglected to mention the obvious: lower body fat = more chiseled jaw

2018-09-29 17:37:17 UTC  

😉

2018-09-29 17:39:34 UTC  

@TV I don't think that's true. I didn't know about that complaint until I read internet forums, and I kind of always would have felt weird just going up to someone in public and striking up conversation.

2018-09-29 17:41:38 UTC  

What's not true?

2018-09-29 17:43:27 UTC  

That the only reason you feel weird striking up conversations with strangers is because women complain about "creepy men"

2018-09-29 17:44:02 UTC  

Oooh. It's true for a lot of guys though.

2018-09-29 17:47:35 UTC  

And maybe it's not 100% of the reason, but part of it, for some guys.

2018-09-29 17:59:55 UTC  

more generally I'd say it's just lacking confidence

2018-09-29 18:06:08 UTC  

That's the main issue.

2018-09-29 18:08:00 UTC  

A confident, fit, white man is exactly what they don't want you to be.

2018-09-29 18:32:01 UTC  

we live in a society

2018-09-30 00:59:34 UTC  

here's a good video to observe body language.

2018-09-30 01:00:03 UTC  

look at his wife throughout this journey

2018-09-30 02:08:59 UTC  

Wife of the year if she stayed with him that long

2018-09-30 14:12:24 UTC  

Lack of confidence will ruin your chances chicks will pick up on that instantly

2018-09-30 14:13:43 UTC  

Always appear confident if you find yourself unable to do that then try some self improvement

2018-09-30 20:09:21 UTC  

In that video, look at the guys shirt at 2:09

2018-09-30 20:09:27 UTC  

😒

2018-09-30 20:22:18 UTC  

Commie...
Or I dunno, his wife is cute, maybe NAZBOL GANG?

2018-09-30 20:22:24 UTC  

(probably not)

2018-10-01 04:06:28 UTC  

Thoughts on the glasses question? Been thinking of getting contacts. Sometimes I think I look good with them, sometimes not.

2018-10-01 04:09:28 UTC  

@Attrition in the desert I have been thinking the same thing.

2018-10-01 04:14:00 UTC  

Well, I know when looking at screens for extended periods (its exacerbated at night or the end of a day,) my contacts can really irritate my eyes. So on a day I'm going to be much more active, or need to look my best, I'll don the contacts. On days I'm doing a lot of work at a screen, or just to give my eyes a break, be lazy, w/e , I'll go for glasses. It's quite nice having both. And I usually end up going a month and a half to two months per pair of 1-month lenses before having to replace since I wear glasses sometimes. (They'll start to split/tear, get warped, etc.)

2018-10-01 06:17:18 UTC  

Acuvue Oaysis contact lenses are so comfortable, I never have issues wearing them, highly recommended.