“No-one cares”

“My mind won’t accept that anyone can care”

Like Jesus fuck I wouldn’t be helping constantly if I didn’t care

Seriously. And not to be overly sexist but when A chick does this it is absolutely about attention. And nothing more. Your best bet is to block her for a solid week and see if that doesnt get her moving on to the next victim. These kinda chicks need reinforcement of the behavior or they find the nearest person to start the same bs with. Total block, phone, FB, no in person, nada.

Zoomer, there comes a time that you just have to walk away and let them deal with it, as shitty as that sounds. You can talk until you’re blue in the face, but if they don’t want to stop doing that because they’ve learned it gets them the attention they want, there’s nothing you can do to help them if they don’t want to help themselves, no matter how hard you try. She wants attention. Point blank.

Thanks guys.

“if i don't let them in then maybe me dying wont affect them that much. cus they'll start to care less n if i have no one to care ab me then ill have even less of a purpose.”

Her response to me telling her to let a therapist and her family in.

Sure as hell sounds like she just wants a reason to die.

“you think i wanted it to come to this? cus i didn't but i really have no choice. “

Other people care and can get her the appropriate care. Push that and you may have to tell someone.

Told her mother.

Good call.

That was the best thing you could have done honestly.

Mental health is complex and there needs to be a support system of people.

you can't physically do anything to "save" her and i'm sure you already know that all you can do is offer support and resources from professionals that can help her if she really is suffering from a nasty chemical imbalance in her brain (because thats really all it is). you certainly can't force her to get help so all you can do is offer to maybe bring her to see a therapist or tell her about the hotlines that are out there. Keeping her family in the loop is best because at the end of the day shes their responsibility shes their family

but at the end of the day she has to voluntarily choose to go seek help from someone who can help her overcome any feelings a hopelessness or anxiety or any of the other feelings that come with depression, she can get accurately (hopefully) diagnosed and treatment.

Hey Zoomer, coming from somebody that's had that stuggle with depression and hopelessness, I can tell you that you did the right thing speaking to this chick's mother.

However, in the future - don't start being a supportive figure for someone with mental illnesses and just dip out of nowhere.

Truth ^^

> Hey Zoomer, coming from somebody that's had that stuggle with depression and hopelessness, I can tell you that you did the right thing speaking to this chick's mother.
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> However, in the future - don't start being a supportive figure for someone with mental illnesses and just dip out of nowhere.
@CowboyLeone#0794

I haven’t dipped. I’m supporting however I can, I just needed to vent as it was getting aggravating as hell. I told her mother and I’m fairly sure her mother is going to get her professional help.

@John Public I slept with my ex’s older sister who sought me out and she got engaged a week later and is preggers, slight chance it could be mine but I doubt it.

Theory of mine.

Human society exists in a constant cycle of violent segregation of tribes, eventual integration, peacful coexistence, ideological clash, open violent seperation, rinse and repeat. We are destined to never have a political or societal model last more than 100 years, due to a variety of factors such as greed, wealth, and the inherent herd mentality

I think 100 years may be a little short. China showed us that dynasties usually last 300 or so. Of course, if all depends on how strong the foundation is.

In the Information Age, where everything can be transmitted in fractions of a second, it does make sense that those “dynasties” would last for shorter and shorter periods of time, especially as populations, and, more importantly, population *density* continues to increase.

All assuming a relatively free flow of information, accurate or otherwise.

That being said, 70 years between major wars does seem to be about average, so I can see where 100 years would be the reasonable benchmark there.

Major wars here being defined as conflicts like WWI and WWII, where multiple actors mobilize multiple armies in open conflict. Although I think the days of that have passed us by for the most part. Fourth generation warfare seems to be more or less the norm now.

Violence is part of nature humans are part of that too things we describe as inherently evil are more or less not. (with the exception of pedophilia) Subjugation of humans isnt an evil thing either it is truly natural. I know it sounds like im trying to push some racial eugenics but im not it more or less the fact that all of are history is humans subjugating each other over and over. But nowadays we dont so now we are trying to break the cycle and in doing so there will be a learning peroid for the masses to catch up on. I noticed that virtue signaling is a form of subjugation nowadays its a subliminal way to say "look at that human hes different from us now shun him hate him for being different" its no different from when we called each spics niggers wopps mics and crackers. The whole system we built even on the founsing fathers had a caste/class ideaology embedded into it. Because as jordan peterson realized ever thing has a hierarchy. Amd until we break that mentality then we can become the star children we were meant to be colonizing star to star.

We need conflict in order to thrive

Everyone says you can’t find joy without having faced challenges. But wisdom comes from conflict and suffering. If we aren’t faced with conflict then we have no encouragement to improve our community, and will fail to thrive.

And not thriving will force you into conflict. The longer you wait the suffering will get worse. Everyone has a breaking point. The longer we wait to end this oppression the worse it will get for the next generation. Our goal as humanity should be bettering the next generation.

Is it wrong of me to end a relationship of 2 years because I felt I wasn't respected like not constantly but when it happened it was bad? To an extent I know it was the right choice but why do I have regrets. Sorry guys I wish I could just talk to someone but I know nobody close to me will listen or care enough.

It depends in what ways did she disrespect you?

And its ok we all have those days of big sad

And also did you try to work through and comunicate tge disrespect or did you freak or clam up?

@BlurRodriguez just because we're committed to "radical change" and the like doesnt mean that you won't find someone here to talk to

@BlurRodriguez A relationship should challenge you, but leave you feeling whole. If you felt disrespected enough to leave, it was the right call. A partner should not disrespect you. Sometimes it’s just incompatibility. Sometimes it’s worse.

We might fall in love 3-5 times before we find the right one

https://youtu.be/jPu92-yC2ew

Alright gents, it has been a while but boy oh boy do I have an elephant sized dump for y'all.
So I've seen some post recently about the need for criminal justice reform and of course we all share a general distrust if not out right loathing of the government. I have a feeling this is gonna get some reactions and i welcome them as always

The Tribunal of the Republic

We demand the creation of a "Tribunal for the Republic," comprised of 2 Citizens  elected by each state who shall each serve for a single term 6 years. If further time is needed to complete its mandate, they shall be held on the year closest to the expiration of the current term. The Tribunal of the Republic shall only remain in existence for however long is required to submit final reports of evidence on all of the accused and shall not exceed the duration of 18 years regardless. The members of the Tribunal shall receive a stipend for personal expenses and no other form of payment of any kind from any source except those sources that predate their election.

The Tribunal for the Republic will be tasked with investigating all former members of Congress, including their family members, Congressional staff and their family members as well as any and all former members of Congress still alive at the Foundation of the New Republic.
The Tribunal will investigate and collect all evidence related to the charges of Treason, corruption and all other crimes committed while seeking and or holding public office by the accused.

Treason shall include acts of violating the oath of office that all members of Congress freely swore to uphold. This documentation and all evidence uncovered shall be submitted in separate reports to the Supreme Court, along with the charges being brought forward in the name of the people.

When needed, the Supreme Court shall be responsible for recommending to the New Congress that a temporary lower judicial body be formed that will conduct the fair and impartial trails of all those accused of Treason, corruption or any other crimes that evidence is found of. This lower court will be charged with deciding if the evidence contained in the Tribunals report is of sufficient veracity that a reasonable person would be convinced of the guilt of the accused.
If found guilty of Treason; and if after an appeal, that can only be raised to dispute the facts presented and available at the time of the original trial, the accuseds guilt is reaffirmed, the punishment shall in all cases be death by hanging; to be carried out on the grounds of the State House the member represented.