Message from @Bobby_Hill
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After there is a baby, yeah, way harder
Although not all women will ask for child support
it's better to be preventative, but it is why we are trying to fight for more protection to fathers
9/10 women ask for childsupport
If you don't want to stay in a relationship with her, then I guess your best bet is to be unable to find
trying to be productive instead of just complaining.
But you're not a father now as far as I can tell so yeah, I agree, better to work on prevention
but when prevention is nolonger an option suicide is painless
no suicide is not painless
only if you do it right and dont fuck it up
no, that's not true at all
suicide is immensely destructive to those in your life
even a bullet to the head, you will be in extreme pain for a few seconds as your nerves are still completely active
Honestly, you're not even there yet. And if you were, there would be people you can talk to that could help you
And I mean, killing yourself is giving up ALL the money you'd have been making instead of part of it so not sure why it's better
thats why you destroy all the money beforehand
ive thought this shit through incase i ever got entrapped
then don't get entrapped, be preventative instead
I'm talking about future money. Once you're dead you can't earn it and buy stuff you want. You're losing a lot more than some of your money. It's disproportionate
you are leaping to very big extremes that don't even apply to you yet
So does everything else. For you
im thinking ahead unlike most males
no, you are thinking to extremes, thinking ahead would be taking preventive steps like we mentioned earlier
and if those all fail (With my luck they will) I know what to do
my life is pretty meaningless anyways so if i died tomarrow not much lost
it is really hard to get a girl pregnant with the snip, and if you do want kids later, the procedure is reversible
I was never really suicidal before my dad kept saying he was gonna kill himself and not doing it so many times
now its kinda rubbed off on me a bit
you will continue to get no where if you continue to wallow in self pity, the only way you get anywhere is to try and be more productive with your life.
what self pitty
you're acting like you're already locked in for 18 years
24 soon to be 25 years has been long enough
No I mean you're acting like you're already on the line for child support
im way past that conversation
im talking about my retarded ass life and how if it ended tomarrow i would have no problem with that
well only you are responsible for your own life, the only way to improve it is to embrace a more positive outlook and get on with it, it's not unique to you, it is much the same for everyone, and if you are really struggling that bad, you need to go and get professional help from someone trained in psychology, if it is clinical depression, you may need medication to help balance out the chemicals in your mind.
whatever
I'm of the opinion that the point of life is sifting through the bad times to savor the good
Find what makes you happy and don't compromise on it, enjoy it as much as you can
I mean like actually happy, not artificial happiness like drugs