Message from @Bobby_Hill
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Try to move the air around, if there are holes it will escape
good luck with finding a partner you can trust in current year
Well, someone who also doesn't want kids could work, or someone who is sterile, if you want to be super sure
the trust ratio between men and women is at an all time low
But I think you're dramatizing, you have other options than suicide
I like to think I am trustworthy for my partner, so we are out there, but it will be difficult to find someone if you do nothing but wallow in negativity and self-loathing.
name 3 options a man who doesnt want to be a father and doesnt want to pay for a kid he didnt want has
Celibacy, vasectomy and non reproductive sex
getting the snip, using protection, or just not having sex... or find a girl willing to take it in the ass
i meant afterwards
also we are getting really close to a birth control pill for men 😃
after the kid is born
Oh, yeah, after that I guess you could declare bankruptcy... maybe try to sue her for getting a kid behind your back but I doubt you'll get far.
After there is a baby, yeah, way harder
Although not all women will ask for child support
it's better to be preventative, but it is why we are trying to fight for more protection to fathers
9/10 women ask for childsupport
If you don't want to stay in a relationship with her, then I guess your best bet is to be unable to find
trying to be productive instead of just complaining.
But you're not a father now as far as I can tell so yeah, I agree, better to work on prevention
no suicide is not painless
only if you do it right and dont fuck it up
no, that's not true at all
suicide is immensely destructive to those in your life
even a bullet to the head, you will be in extreme pain for a few seconds as your nerves are still completely active
Honestly, you're not even there yet. And if you were, there would be people you can talk to that could help you
And I mean, killing yourself is giving up ALL the money you'd have been making instead of part of it so not sure why it's better
thats why you destroy all the money beforehand
ive thought this shit through incase i ever got entrapped
then don't get entrapped, be preventative instead
I'm talking about future money. Once you're dead you can't earn it and buy stuff you want. You're losing a lot more than some of your money. It's disproportionate
you are leaping to very big extremes that don't even apply to you yet
once your dead the child support ends
So does everything else. For you
im thinking ahead unlike most males
no, you are thinking to extremes, thinking ahead would be taking preventive steps like we mentioned earlier
and if those all fail (With my luck they will) I know what to do
my life is pretty meaningless anyways so if i died tomarrow not much lost
it is really hard to get a girl pregnant with the snip, and if you do want kids later, the procedure is reversible
I was never really suicidal before my dad kept saying he was gonna kill himself and not doing it so many times