Message from @Abbysol
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no, a lot of men manage to skip child support by moving country, the issue is that interest still builds up, so you still owe the money but they just can't force it from you if you are not there
thus making suicide the only option for us
it's not
that is a very dangerous way of thinking
Well. Celibacy and vasectomies work too
And adoption
its either pay unfair amounts of money to the whore who tampered with your condoms and got pregnant with a kid you didnt want or put a bullet through your skull
men suffering from things shouldn't be told death is the only option, because that is a lie that will only bring them more pain
Or you could find someone who's actually worth trusting
You can check if your condom has a hole in it before you open it
Try to move the air around, if there are holes it will escape
good luck with finding a partner you can trust in current year
Well, someone who also doesn't want kids could work, or someone who is sterile, if you want to be super sure
the trust ratio between men and women is at an all time low
But I think you're dramatizing, you have other options than suicide
I like to think I am trustworthy for my partner, so we are out there, but it will be difficult to find someone if you do nothing but wallow in negativity and self-loathing.
name 3 options a man who doesnt want to be a father and doesnt want to pay for a kid he didnt want has
Celibacy, vasectomy and non reproductive sex
getting the snip, using protection, or just not having sex... or find a girl willing to take it in the ass
i meant afterwards
after the kid is born
Oh, yeah, after that I guess you could declare bankruptcy... maybe try to sue her for getting a kid behind your back but I doubt you'll get far.
After there is a baby, yeah, way harder
Although not all women will ask for child support
it's better to be preventative, but it is why we are trying to fight for more protection to fathers
9/10 women ask for childsupport
If you don't want to stay in a relationship with her, then I guess your best bet is to be unable to find
trying to be productive instead of just complaining.
But you're not a father now as far as I can tell so yeah, I agree, better to work on prevention
but when prevention is nolonger an option suicide is painless
no suicide is not painless
only if you do it right and dont fuck it up
no, that's not true at all
suicide is immensely destructive to those in your life
even a bullet to the head, you will be in extreme pain for a few seconds as your nerves are still completely active
Honestly, you're not even there yet. And if you were, there would be people you can talk to that could help you
And I mean, killing yourself is giving up ALL the money you'd have been making instead of part of it so not sure why it's better
thats why you destroy all the money beforehand
ive thought this shit through incase i ever got entrapped
then don't get entrapped, be preventative instead