Message from @Ryan -NJ
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But everything your saying I think applies if you've got the resources, familial connections, and so on to trust that in time she comes around. Gotta be a pretty powerful guy to do so I think.
Just do *something* outside of politics
work out, do keto, learn a language, etc
*something* that you can focus your mind on so it's not constantly "this is why diversity sucks"
I’m reading books to the fam. I’ll get back to you guys ASAP.
I do those things. But all of them I do in order to have a family and advance my race. It is my religion, I don't believe in God or anything like that.
This stuff really belongs in <#436337973001322508> . <#436337800405581824> is for engaged and married people
not a big deal, maybe I'll merge some of the channels since it's confusing
@Jonaltright Both my wife and I came from center right families. NYC type Republicans. I’ve always been pro white and conservative. Both of us have been involved in right leaning churches and social circles for most of our adult lives. She has remained socially center right. I’ve remained right / dissident right. She cares about politics where rubber meets the road. In matters of familial importance, schooling, taxation, and freedom of religion. We’ve been together 15+ years. She knows me. I don’t need to preach idenitarian beliefs because I run a campaign of attraction and not promotion. I feel that this method of social capital influence is the best take when we want to enact real change within our small sphere of influence.
@Jonaltright @Jacob Some of the issues you present surround presenting yourself, your ideas, and attracting a mate. I suggest reading something by Roosh V. Start with Game. NOTE: I am NOT promoting pickup culture and degenerate behavior. I suggest reading this book because it’ll give you a framework of alpha mannerisms by which to help you step up your stature. The outline of personal and cosmetic betterment can bring you up multiple notches in the food chain.
what is this in response to?
I’m adding to what you mentioned earlier Having the issue with knowing how or when to talk to a woman and about what things.
ah okay makes sense
I think Roosh is trying to reform to a degree now. His past was so seedy
@VinceChaos Yeah. I don’t support any of that element, but his chad 101 stuff is an excellent tool for young men who need it.
I watched his stream a couple weeks ago I might look into that thanks
@Ryan -NJ love Rooshs work, also Chateau Heartiste, etc. Came through that scene as early as 2012 when I was in college. Improved my interactions with women immensely. A man can, to a great degree, improve his interactions/relationships with women by adopting more alpha behavior. There are limits to this though. Looks matter. A man with the best game and best looks al.ways beats the man with the same game but no looks/muscles/height. The same is true for wealth. Bottom line is that for those of us who are suffering significantly in one of these areas, their are very few opportunities where a woman is BOTH moderately right wing and at the same time willing to consider us as a marriage partner. It is of course not impossible, but for many men they are effectively locked out. For those who successfully land such a woman have to consider luck as a very real ingredient in how they ended up where they did. For the rest of the men, key laws will simply have to change. The culture will need to change. Sadly, this likely will not happen anytime soon. Myself I consider myself extremely lucky to be in the current relationship I'm in, despite it not at all being ideal, she makes much more money than me and I hold no power in that aspect of the relationship.
@Jonaltright Very well. How long of you been in the relationship? The main issue seems to be that you can’t discuss your passion of politics with her. Is that the case? Have you been trying? Does she have a lukewarm response or she respond receptive to the idea of discussing politics?
@Ryan -NJ already was red pilled, just not on Jews and women's lib. The woman's lib stuff was hard and their were several nasty fights before she came around. The reason she is red pilled is due to her age mostly. I think that she was turned on initially by my doxxing when she did a back ground check on me, like it had a bad boy appeal to her. I am extremely relaxed around her and can speak my mind and not feel like I'm hiding who I am from her. When it comes to game, my politics as a lifestyle is who I am. I wouldn't have much to say, either serious or in trivial matters, that doesn't come from my politics. How I perceive a film, decide what to for fun, explain my source of motivation to get up in the morning- it all revolves around politics. With her, it actually drew her to me. I can't imagine converting one of the many women I've dated since college in the past to me, with these ideas in my head. It's a curse, that's cost me much in terms of career chances, but for her it gave me a narrative at least she likes
My girlfriend and her brother are home schooled Australians who have never had Facebook before. As a matter of fact they have very little experience with the internet in general. After I visited just recently they both made Facebook pages. I did not encourage them to do so. As a matter of fact I initially told them that they shouldn't, but my girlfriend, in particular, wanted to make one so we could communicate better while we're apart. We settled on me helping them with their security settings and me giving them advice on what to do. I have a Facebook page but it's extremely carefully curated. I deleted my old profile from 2007 and made a new one last year because people and employers think you're weird if you don't have one but I wanted to eliminate some of the political stuff that I said in the past.
Do you guys think that I should try harder to make them get off Facebook or am I worrying too much? I know that they are both adults but I still feel bad for introducing them to it. So far they both only have 3 or 4 friends and I was extremely explicit on telling them not to add anyone who they haven't met in person.
@Ryan -NJ yes. I pushed her the rest of the way though. So I take credit on that. Gender was the tough one though
@Der Seeteufel - SD I think that like anything all you can do is offer advice and that's it, besides the occasional reminder for things that you feel very strongly about. They should be ok if they keep a close circle of friends.