Message from @Attrition in the desert

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2018-04-19 02:21:00 UTC  

and orthodox christians are already an intense minority in this country

2018-04-19 02:21:36 UTC  

I agree religion is important. On religion she sounds great, but I think the age thing really is a challenge.

2018-04-19 02:21:49 UTC  

true

2018-04-19 02:21:54 UTC  

i was a fucking retard at 18

2018-04-19 02:22:01 UTC  

i'm still a fucking retard, only slightly less

2018-04-19 02:22:19 UTC  

lol

2018-04-19 02:22:37 UTC  

Yeah I don't want to knock anyone man or woman, i can only imagine what I looked like to other people, but I quickly learned that girls 18-23 are basically pixies

2018-04-19 02:22:48 UTC  

Then around 23 they start to get a little more serious

2018-04-19 02:23:03 UTC  

my personal experience, though I'm sure it's the same the other way around as well

2018-04-19 02:24:10 UTC  

You are definitely right man. Then at 27 they usually take another turn

2018-04-19 02:24:11 UTC  

i was a shithead up until like 2 years ago

2018-04-19 02:26:28 UTC  

I'm a shithead

2018-04-19 02:47:14 UTC  

So i've been texting this girl for a week, then I ask her out on a date and she says she's not looking to date anyone right now. When I asked for her number initially I was perfectly clear I wanted to date her, so why did she text with me for a week acting like she was into me?

2018-04-19 02:47:32 UTC  

Because girls love attention

2018-04-19 02:48:06 UTC  

She could have been texting other guys at the same time

2018-04-19 02:48:20 UTC  

Oof, you are probably right though.

2018-04-19 02:48:46 UTC  

>texting for a week

2018-04-19 02:48:49 UTC  

no no no

2018-04-19 02:48:49 UTC  

Unfortunately it is probably done man. Lots of girls are like that though, on to the next

2018-04-19 02:49:09 UTC  

only use texting to set up a real world meeting

2018-04-19 02:49:54 UTC  

I probably messed up by not asking her out sooner right?

2018-04-19 02:50:05 UTC  

depends

2018-04-19 02:50:10 UTC  

just be aware of momentum

2018-04-19 02:50:19 UTC  

feelings build

2018-04-19 02:50:37 UTC  

or fall off

2018-04-19 02:50:45 UTC  

You do want to strike while the iron is hot. Ask her out when she is feeling you

2018-04-19 02:51:46 UTC  

@Attrition in the desert I think the principle behind what @Deleted User and @Pat-MA are saying is that you want to make your intentions clear. If you dilly dally for a week she may have no idea you're actually serious either

2018-04-19 02:53:13 UTC  

True, my rationale was that I didn't want to come on too strong.

2018-04-19 02:53:39 UTC  

I'm pretty retarded with women though so haha

2018-04-19 02:54:32 UTC  

I'd unironically recommend pua channels

2018-04-19 02:54:44 UTC  

they understand the female psyche very well

2018-04-19 02:55:02 UTC  

alot of pua are degenerate fags though

2018-04-19 02:55:43 UTC  

The least bad I'd say is RSDMax

2018-04-19 02:57:27 UTC  

Didn't one of those guys get kicked out of japan for being too chad rofl?

2018-04-19 02:57:53 UTC  

i like the website girlschase

2018-04-19 02:59:21 UTC  

I'll have to check both those out, thanks bois.

2018-04-19 11:50:20 UTC  

@Attrition in the desert#6260 that’s was julien I believe and no it wasn’t because he was being too chad but too rapey

2018-04-19 16:53:36 UTC  

Convo from <#436337973001322508> that belongs here:

>Is money really that attractive to women
The base biological value that women bring to a relationship is fertility and the base value that men bring is resources.

Most things men first notice in a women are indicators of fertility.

Most things women first notice in a man are indicators of resources and the ability to acquire resources.

2018-04-19 18:55:32 UTC  

Indeed, sexual market value like Stefan molyneux talks about.

2018-04-19 19:39:15 UTC  

I think it’s important to display your resources in a non tacky way. Taking it to the extreme, I think it looks tacky for a 20 something to drive around in a Ferrari or to wear a very expensive watch. The question here is how to display our resources in a non tacky manner that will attract the right girls rather than those looking for a meal ticket.

2018-04-19 19:40:43 UTC  

Why not discuss your ambition to own a decent home.