Message from @Hans
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@Triple Hernan I think that as long as you remain in control of your masturbation habits, as long as it doesn't suck in a lot of your time, and as long as you don't use porn, then it's fine.
You shouldn't be masturbating as much as your urges tell you to do, that's for sure. But I don't think there's anything wrong with weekly, once per three days, or even daily masturbation if you're really constantly horny. You can't give into the urges though. You cannot suffer from the tyranny of desires or else it becomes harmful IMO.
If you are used to masturbating 4x a day without porn, cut to daily, and treat it like a sacred ritual. No porn, no imagination, just you doing something to keep yourself healthy and even give yourself a treat (with some restraint). Maybe even use it as a method of positive reinforcement (i.e., masturbate after going to the gym or doing daily reading, a reward for a job well done).
If you're used to masturbating 1x a day without porn, cut to every two days. etc.
And if you're masturbating often "because you're constantly horny" but you still use porn, then you don't really know much about your innate sexual drive because it's being constantly distorted by porn.
Maybe to the point where you don't even know what it means to be horny the way you were probably horny when you were going through the middle of puberty.
No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover advocates something along these lines.
@Black Chad me
Sounds like we need a formal debate on the jack off question
@Punished Bob what's your snapchat brother? let's get some dikpiks going
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@Black Chad I mean if you actually care I can vouch for you but doesn’t mean your role will change
Did you piss off nick at all?
lol haven't been on the server in a while bruv
came back on and bam. thot role
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no fap gets easy after like 3 days of not fapping
disagree
But it also depends on how long you've been watching porn so maybe longer for some
When u say fap but not to porn, what the hell do u mean?
never fapped to nothing?
Yes
Only because I didn't have anything to fap to
Blackout no internet
Fapping often to no porn can also be an issue but but porn is definitely the biggest problem
Id say id you're not having sex fap 1 or 2 times a month
So if you have sex dont fap at all?
how regular does it have to be
Yeah if you having sex multiple times a month i wouldn't fap at all
Because fapping in general just kind of makes you a cuck and gives a similar dopamine fix but abstaining completely is probably worse for you imo
But if you are just getting off porn i would suggest you dont fap at all for at least 3 months and let your brain fix itself.
Gymed today and day 6 of nofap.
Hail victory
>day 6
>not fapping 100 times a day