Message from @Commandant

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2018-12-16 00:28:25 UTC  

that’s way too old

2018-12-16 00:28:36 UTC  

you shouldn’t be spanked in middle school

2018-12-16 00:35:37 UTC  

Parents should discipline their children using their feelings

2018-12-16 00:35:42 UTC  

*feelings*

2018-12-16 00:41:48 UTC  

If you don’t punish your kids with spanking as a child then they grow up to be libtards or softies. Every hard worker I know grew up being spanked or worse when growing up

2018-12-16 00:43:10 UTC  

it shouldn’t be an option unless the kid won’t learn

2018-12-16 00:43:32 UTC  

He who spares his rod hates his son,
But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.

2018-12-16 00:44:12 UTC  

Proverbs 13:24

2018-12-16 00:45:41 UTC  

It has also been more commonly said as “Spare the rod spoil the child”

2018-12-16 00:46:02 UTC  

But the second one is only a derivative

2018-12-16 00:51:37 UTC  

Now unless you are some heretic, that is a message from God and therefore makes all counter arguments null and void.

2018-12-16 09:17:57 UTC  

no violates muh nap, bruh

2018-12-16 09:18:13 UTC  

spanking is not an argument

2018-12-16 09:18:55 UTC  

Children should be spanked as a punishment if they do something really bad, the extent to which this is needed depends on the child because some children don't really do that many wrongdoings.

2018-12-16 09:20:02 UTC  

This is not necessarily effective.

2018-12-16 09:20:03 UTC  

I think spanking shows a weakness in character from the parent if they aren't capable of instilling reason into the child with rational arguments

2018-12-16 09:20:10 UTC  

^

2018-12-16 09:21:06 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/516711835857059867/523791671905878032/Push_the_Youth.png

2018-12-16 09:21:19 UTC  

Well it's not about spanking per se, but the parents need to find an effective punishment for wrongdoings. Children aren't rational, they're kids.

2018-12-16 09:21:47 UTC  

Spanking, and physical punishment works best

2018-12-16 09:22:06 UTC  

Do they even learn WHY an action is wrong in the first place then?

2018-12-16 09:22:13 UTC  

Depends on the kid

2018-12-16 09:22:19 UTC  

All they know is the punishment

2018-12-16 09:22:25 UTC  

Yes, so they wont do it

2018-12-16 09:22:31 UTC  

Bullshit.

2018-12-16 09:22:33 UTC  

And as they get older, they start thinking

2018-12-16 09:22:46 UTC  

Koninos, you obviously have no experience with raising a child

2018-12-16 09:22:54 UTC  

Of course, you explain the rules and why something is wrong. If they break the rules, you must show there is consequences.

2018-12-16 09:23:04 UTC  

^

2018-12-16 09:23:16 UTC  

If you just say "I said don't do it" they wont care

2018-12-16 09:23:23 UTC  

They are little, they don't get it

2018-12-16 09:23:30 UTC  

Children will try your boundaries

2018-12-16 09:23:36 UTC  

That's just how they are

2018-12-16 09:23:50 UTC  

Yeah.. that's gonna be fun when my son gets to that age lol

2018-12-16 09:25:08 UTC  

Consequences shouldn't be spanking and all these king of shit. Many recent studies have shown that the children who are getting constantly spanked by their parents, not even don't have a good childhood, but also repeat the same mistakes, and if not, they live in terror, inside their own home.

2018-12-16 09:25:34 UTC  

Muh studies

2018-12-16 09:25:34 UTC  

Okay

2018-12-16 09:25:41 UTC  

Limitations is the best kind of consequences.

2018-12-16 09:26:15 UTC  

I don't care what some faggot says, i will follow the traditional way of raising a child, and not some new generation bullshit

2018-12-16 09:26:16 UTC  

The children don't need constant spanking if they teach them consequences of breaking rules at an early age. They will stop breaking rules, and that's the point of punishment.

2018-12-16 09:26:28 UTC  

Leading by example won't work?