Message from @Fingol
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spanking is not an argument
Children should be spanked as a punishment if they do something really bad, the extent to which this is needed depends on the child because some children don't really do that many wrongdoings.
This is not necessarily effective.
I think spanking shows a weakness in character from the parent if they aren't capable of instilling reason into the child with rational arguments
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Well it's not about spanking per se, but the parents need to find an effective punishment for wrongdoings. Children aren't rational, they're kids.
Spanking, and physical punishment works best
Do they even learn WHY an action is wrong in the first place then?
Depends on the kid
All they know is the punishment
Yes, so they wont do it
Bullshit.
And as they get older, they start thinking
Koninos, you obviously have no experience with raising a child
Of course, you explain the rules and why something is wrong. If they break the rules, you must show there is consequences.
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If you just say "I said don't do it" they wont care
They are little, they don't get it
Children will try your boundaries
Yeah.. that's gonna be fun when my son gets to that age lol
Consequences shouldn't be spanking and all these king of shit. Many recent studies have shown that the children who are getting constantly spanked by their parents, not even don't have a good childhood, but also repeat the same mistakes, and if not, they live in terror, inside their own home.
Muh studies
Okay
Limitations is the best kind of consequences.
I don't care what some faggot says, i will follow the traditional way of raising a child, and not some new generation bullshit
The children don't need constant spanking if they teach them consequences of breaking rules at an early age. They will stop breaking rules, and that's the point of punishment.
Leading by example won't work?
Yes, discipline isnt about beating the shit out of a child
You call me a faggot?
I'm taslking about the study
talking*
You're not even mature enough to be a father. I feel sad for your child - if you have any.
How am i immature
Your words prove it.
Wow okay you got me there wow
You should of course also try to reward your child for doing well and show example. Punishment is only one part of parenthood.
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If a child learns he gets punished for doing something then rationally that should encourage him to lie and cover up