Message from @Victor Von Doom
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I think if raised properly, it's rarely needed. If you are spanking them all the time, there's a problem. So yes, in moderation.
is spanking like beating the shit out of the kid or slapping the kid in the face 5 times to learn that they did something wrong?
because i prefer the latter and reject the former
I think spanking above the age of 6 is pretty trashy to do
Because 6 and under is enough
but if it’s necessary sometimes
Wrong
6 is when it should start
Under that and they are generally too young
Certainly over a certain age it's not needed unless you are a shit parent
Should end arpund 9-11ish
that’s way too old
you shouldn’t be spanked in middle school
Parents should discipline their children using their feelings
*feelings*
If you don’t punish your kids with spanking as a child then they grow up to be libtards or softies. Every hard worker I know grew up being spanked or worse when growing up
it shouldn’t be an option unless the kid won’t learn
He who spares his rod hates his son,
But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.
Proverbs 13:24
It has also been more commonly said as “Spare the rod spoil the child”
Now unless you are some heretic, that is a message from God and therefore makes all counter arguments null and void.
no violates muh nap, bruh
spanking is not an argument
Children should be spanked as a punishment if they do something really bad, the extent to which this is needed depends on the child because some children don't really do that many wrongdoings.
This is not necessarily effective.
I think spanking shows a weakness in character from the parent if they aren't capable of instilling reason into the child with rational arguments
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Well it's not about spanking per se, but the parents need to find an effective punishment for wrongdoings. Children aren't rational, they're kids.
Spanking, and physical punishment works best
Do they even learn WHY an action is wrong in the first place then?
Depends on the kid
All they know is the punishment
Yes, so they wont do it
Bullshit.
And as they get older, they start thinking
Koninos, you obviously have no experience with raising a child
Of course, you explain the rules and why something is wrong. If they break the rules, you must show there is consequences.
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If you just say "I said don't do it" they wont care