Do they even learn WHY an action is wrong in the first place then?

Depends on the kid

All they know is the punishment

Yes, so they wont do it

Bullshit.

And as they get older, they start thinking

Koninos, you obviously have no experience with raising a child

Of course, you explain the rules and why something is wrong. If they break the rules, you must show there is consequences.

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If you just say "I said don't do it" they wont care

They are little, they don't get it

Children will try your boundaries

That's just how they are

Yeah.. that's gonna be fun when my son gets to that age lol

Consequences shouldn't be spanking and all these king of shit. Many recent studies have shown that the children who are getting constantly spanked by their parents, not even don't have a good childhood, but also repeat the same mistakes, and if not, they live in terror, inside their own home.

Muh studies

Okay

Limitations is the best kind of consequences.

I don't care what some faggot says, i will follow the traditional way of raising a child, and not some new generation bullshit

The children don't need constant spanking if they teach them consequences of breaking rules at an early age. They will stop breaking rules, and that's the point of punishment.

Leading by example won't work?

@Aztec You don't sound like a father.

Yes, discipline isnt about beating the shit out of a child

You call me a faggot?

I'm taslking about the study

talking*

You're not even mature enough to be a father. I feel sad for your child - if you have any.

How am i immature

Your words prove it.

Wow okay you got me there wow

You should of course also try to reward your child for doing well and show example. Punishment is only one part of parenthood.

^^^

If a child learns he gets punished for doing something then rationally that should encourage him to lie and cover up

If the child is rewarded, he will wanna continue being good, and even improve

It's easy to spot lying

Anyways, i'm gonna dip because Koninos got me with facts and logic as you could see

Then beat his ass for lying

@Fingol Sometimes, it's better for the children to keep doing shit rather than spanking them. I mean, if you do it once, or twice, it doesn't matter. Because the parents are people, they have feelings, and they cannot easily control them. But spanking it constantly is fucking its feelings up, and leads to lack of childhood.

I can say that personally, i was spanked the fuck out of as a child

That's sad.

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