Message from @DrYuriMom

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2018-11-17 16:37:12 UTC  

Working IT I know that feeling

2018-11-17 16:37:28 UTC  

what's your favorite extinct species?

2018-11-17 16:37:58 UTC  

Andrewsuchus is probably one of my second favorites due to their really strange appearance, as well as megaloceros.

2018-11-17 16:38:01 UTC  

>everything is working
>Take a moment to look and make sure
>Suddenly stops working
"Okay, what did I touch"

2018-11-17 16:38:56 UTC  

I'd say the transition species for dinos to birds

2018-11-17 16:39:06 UTC  

my favorite extinct species is jimacostatus

2018-11-17 16:39:22 UTC  

My wife and I like to refer to birds as dinosaurs

2018-11-17 16:39:39 UTC  

that's because biologically they are

2018-11-17 16:39:50 UTC  

Exactly

2018-11-17 16:40:00 UTC  

Am I a joke to you?

2018-11-17 16:40:04 UTC  

Dinosaurs are classified by the type of hipbone they have. Birds share this type of hipbone, pterosaurs do not.

2018-11-17 16:40:12 UTC  

yes. you are UM

2018-11-17 16:40:21 UTC  

😦

2018-11-17 16:40:34 UTC  

We love ya, UM 😃

2018-11-17 16:40:42 UTC  

I'm gonna go afk for 15

2018-11-17 16:40:45 UTC  

I don't love.

2018-11-17 17:09:40 UTC  

Okay, here's a debate based on Tim's video yesterday. Should someone be required to have their penis/testicles or ovaries/uterus removed in order to change their IDs? I'm actually torn on this. Five years ago I would have said no, but seeing where things have gone I am now edging to yes. Abuse on the left and trolling on the right makes self-identification untenable which is sad but no longer surprising.

2018-11-17 17:14:50 UTC  

An opinion on the trans legislation issue
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IXRRIG8o3wg

2018-11-17 17:16:46 UTC  

@DrYuriMom here's a middle ground, what value is that on an ID?

2018-11-17 17:19:02 UTC  

Get sex off ID entirely?

2018-11-17 17:19:52 UTC  

Oh Blair

2018-11-17 17:20:06 UTC  

Depends, if there is a medial reason, then perhaps it should refer to biological sex, or add something like T(m).

2018-11-17 17:20:20 UTC  

but if not, and its just mainly a looks thing, than remove it

2018-11-17 17:23:44 UTC  

How about anatomical?

2018-11-17 17:24:30 UTC  

I'm listening to Blair but the issue to me is an attempt to define as sex assigned as birth.

2018-11-17 17:24:33 UTC  

what is the point if it is not about medical and simply for looks to verify the id belongs to the person

2018-11-17 17:25:05 UTC  

seriously, why is it on there?

2018-11-17 17:25:26 UTC  

Because it's a quick way to define how someone should look

2018-11-17 17:25:44 UTC  

why is that needed?

2018-11-17 17:25:47 UTC  

Blair is ignoring passports which are not state by state

2018-11-17 17:26:37 UTC  

lets take, for example, a drag king/queen who is fine with their sex.

2018-11-17 17:27:03 UTC  

so why is this quick reference needed when it doesn't really help?

2018-11-17 17:27:09 UTC  

and apparently causes problems

2018-11-17 17:57:54 UTC  

In my opinion, if having your biological sex recognized on legal documents is simply too much for you to handle, then you need to go to therapy.
Gender dysphoria cannot be relieve simply by denying objective reality, you have to accept what reality is and recognize it does not control your existence to really be at peace.
So if seeing your sex on a passport "triggers" you, that's not an issue with the US government, that's an issue with your inability to cope.

2018-11-17 18:09:44 UTC  

But what if personal safety? Being outed a trans when one blends just fine can be a real safety issue. Many trans look perfectly female even on medical exam. But being outed with documents can result in rather bad situations.

2018-11-17 18:11:57 UTC  

You're saying someone is going to physically assault you for being trans?

2018-11-17 18:12:36 UTC  

Not anyone in specific, but just a general portion of the population would assault you if they found out you were trans?

2018-11-17 18:19:39 UTC  

as i said, if it has no real useful purpose because it doesn't necessarily helpful even when dealing with people without dysphoria (for example, an effeminate looking guy that is clean shaven with long hair), then why have it?

2018-11-17 18:23:33 UTC  

the times change. A lot of hair metal rockers could have passed for chicks today. Blue used to be a female color and Pink a male color. What "looks" like male or female changes and plenty of people don't match it. Hell, what is male or female based on looks changes from culture to culture.

2018-11-17 18:23:44 UTC  

so, if it doesn't have a medical use, why have it?