If you don't know how to sacrifice, then at the slightest trouble its "Pff i'll just find another with less problems"

And they bolt

@Kali Yuga In Gnostic cosmology that is how the Father and Mother archetypes are described. With the Father being the Holy Father and the Mother is the Holy Spirit/Sophia.

I've heard that it's more important that there are two parents of any gender than just having both a mom and a dad, but it's hard to have trust in authority when it comes to this sort of topic.

@Dr.Wol It's very hard to become a father without example. You can't teach it. It has to be learned. Take it from me.

And the Son/Child being Logos, the Word brought to life through the synthesis of the fatherly soul and the motherly spirit.

Well i can't argue there Skrapp 😄 my father was always there for me

@Dvir yes

and boy does that man know shit about life 😮

@skrappjaw learned on your own or by your father example

I recall a snipit of a study which supported that idea schedrevka

Wol hits what I've found close..people are no longer willing to sacrifice for a relationship nor put in any effort on making one work long term

If a kid doesn't get a father figure in the home, they *will* get one somewhere

Yeah, in the case of a lot of black communities it is gangs.

Usually from a not good place

well Yugure, why would they? If its easy to just hop to someone with less problems, but the same rewards, people care little for the idea of sacrificing

@Kali Yuga Both. More on my own. I took his absence and had to fill the gaps and be resourceful. It is hard to be a father. But my wife has been an amazing help.

Then clearly, the solution is to vilify men who leave women and women who leave men.

nah

make sex not such an easy thing anymore 😄

"easy", he says ....sigh

Sex should be outlawed tbh

Men will work hard for sex if they can't just get it

they'll sacrifice

Dont know who did it or when, but it did show that having one parent of each gender saw changes in the kids. Kids in dual sex or single parent households were 5-10% more likely to: become criminals, suffer addiction of some kind, end up single and 2-5% less likely to graduate college

they'll work

Easy..is maybe the wrong word wol

depends on your looks and social-ability i guess 😦

enforced monogamy

yeah, mr lucky pants

I'm still not convinced that sex isn't a myth

HA 😛

😃

socially contractual enforced monogamy

It would be hard synce we have Pyligamy culture

Right now socieitily speaking, sex is mainly for sexual pleasure without a care with who it's with

bread and circues

circuses

you can legally marry 6 wives here

entertainment industry is gigantic

our ex president has 6 wives 3 ex wives and 26 children