@skrappjaw learned on your own or by your father example

I recall a snipit of a study which supported that idea schedrevka

Wol hits what I've found close..people are no longer willing to sacrifice for a relationship nor put in any effort on making one work long term

If a kid doesn't get a father figure in the home, they *will* get one somewhere

Yeah, in the case of a lot of black communities it is gangs.

Usually from a not good place

well Yugure, why would they? If its easy to just hop to someone with less problems, but the same rewards, people care little for the idea of sacrificing

@Kali Yuga Both. More on my own. I took his absence and had to fill the gaps and be resourceful. It is hard to be a father. But my wife has been an amazing help.

Then clearly, the solution is to vilify men who leave women and women who leave men.

nah

make sex not such an easy thing anymore 😄

"easy", he says ....sigh

Sex should be outlawed tbh

Men will work hard for sex if they can't just get it

they'll sacrifice

Dont know who did it or when, but it did show that having one parent of each gender saw changes in the kids. Kids in dual sex or single parent households were 5-10% more likely to: become criminals, suffer addiction of some kind, end up single and 2-5% less likely to graduate college

they'll work

Easy..is maybe the wrong word wol

depends on your looks and social-ability i guess 😦

enforced monogamy

yeah, mr lucky pants

I'm still not convinced that sex isn't a myth

HA 😛

😃

socially contractual enforced monogamy

It would be hard synce we have Pyligamy culture

Right now socieitily speaking, sex is mainly for sexual pleasure without a care with who it's with

bread and circues

circuses

you can legally marry 6 wives here

entertainment industry is gigantic

our ex president has 6 wives 3 ex wives and 26 children

It's lost any deeper meaning it held in earlier generations

spilling over into rest of the planet

I don't think I like South Africa, Walsp.

lol

food industry is gigantic and accessible too

me neither

I mean, and I really do hate using personal experiences as arguments but I forget the word for doing that

Anicdotal ?