The thing is, it seems like your friend is very unsatisfied with their life and is making a lot of changes to search for something that will fix that unsatisfied feeling. I am afraid that doing something so permanent will only cause your friend to go farther into an emotional spiral, because it won't be what they are looking for.

The whole thing is fucked

https://www.thestranger.com/features/2017/06/28/25252342/the-detransitioners-they-were-transgender-until-they-werent

Is there something wrong with encouraging a mentally unstable person from self harming themselves?

How much does a doctor cost in the US?

one visit

its wrong to encourage anyone to harm themselves

a regular doctor

you mean discouraging?

I mean isn't that what we are saying is okay, with this whole trans thing too?

even the stable ones

If they can lop off their dick, they can kill themselves. Let them choose.

You never think about the reproconcusions till it is too late.

And be supportive...

Maybe they wanna kill you too, member, be supportive.

Oh, they wanna shoot up that concert, be supportive.

All I will say is that there can be sunshine after surgery. But it won't fix a broken life.

How about you dont take a decision that will physically change you for life with no reverse or escape, when you are 22, depressed and got no idea nor plan for the future

You are one of those Stable people 10th.

Hey, instead let's push it on them when they are 7

There are many people who have regrets going through surgery, end up taking their own lives.

too old? 5?

It is a big decision.

It depends on the source of the depression, Paradox

thats not the point here paradox

big is an understatement, Mark lol

I basically try to tell people. LET THEM make that decision and don't pressure them to choose any path.

Maybe I should talk to her again

Idk

you should

If you are uncomfortable and have concerns, Hiniku then you should voice it. Otherwise if something happens as a result of your silence, you will blame yourself

It should be their decision and their decision alone.

I've voiced it

Only advice they should take is from Doctors themselves, not friends or family.

It didn't go well

I feel like I've said what I needed to say

yet you still are worried

Oh, so it depends. When people can harm themselves and others depends, ok. I agree with that. So, thinking you are a sex you aren't is a good time for that? I don't and wouldn't encourage it.

I live in France:
If I earn 4000€/Month ( which WOULD be my salary at the end of my studies )
1 268€ will be taxed
So I will keep 2 732€/month ( without house tax, gas, oil, etc )

The minimum wage in France is 1300€/month and
It get taxed: 291€
So actually they keep 980€

You see why people riot?
@Dusty Morgan

Not the people who encourage it or heavily discourage them.

Anymore would just hurt our friendship