OH. And if anyone knows of any MHRM forums or other places, please do share them there or tell me the names!

@Dan da Dad I honestly wanna thank you for showing me Meny calculation book. Its mind blowing how true everything he is saying and to think i was the only one going through it alone. Thank you again.

@InsaneCaterpilla For neatness, would you add the calculations link to your own post?

Oh, done, btw

Thanks!

@Night Terror I felt the same way, so I'm more than glad to share. I reflected on this in a Reddit post reply where I said: "I think many of us have an idea of what is in store, and how to prepare. I fear most of us are gravely mistaken. Maybe that is reflected in the statistics more so than having two chromosomes?"

Better, and proper, preparation is key. Knowing when and how to lawyer up is key. Preparation, Execution. From there, it's a matter of presenting the best case properly to the courts.

You are not alone, my friend.

My Amazon account wouldn't let me leave a review for the book. I request you do if you are able. I'm so very glad it helped!

i will leave a great review

I escaped, brothers.

Halleluijah! Tell us about your experience @RandyLahey !

Can i claim my kids for taxes if im paying child support
I have joint custody

In GA (which should help you, too) Alimony is tax deductble, but child support is not, which is why you see amicalbe divorced settled by the parties to "favor" alimony

Since they receive it tax-free (custodial support)

https://www.hrblock.com/tax-center/income/other-income/alimony-and-child-support/

You need to qualify for it, though. Check the link

GA is an at-fault state, so she is not entitled to Alimony if it was decided as Adultery, but was the verdict Adultery or Irreparable differences?

So, about a month or 2 now my dad divorced my mom bc she was cheating on him

Yesterday she came back because she said she wanted to apologize

Instead, she screamed and hit my dad all night

omg...

so what happened?

She came in “wanting” to apologize

They had a bit of discussion

She complained about how shitty her life was with him

Then he told her “well I never had much chance to be with you”

She then started being mad and hitting him

what did he do?

Back to her?

nothing

in general

Oh

Well

He didn’t have much time to be with her

Because of work

And he had to educate me and my sister

so he had to be the real parent, in other words

did he at least get single parent benefits?

no

did he apply?

nope

so whatds going to happen now?