if i get punched in the kidney i can die. i had to stop playing hockey my favorite sport. and when you've had the operations ive had you have NO upper body strength or muscle and cannot really build it. its like the cartiledge in my chest if frozen in place

so i fear the fuck out of situations where im like a "weak other" like being homeless or in prison. i have a billion scars on my chest

not a billion but yeah

I get what you mean......

@Sam Amari There are charities and organizations to help people exactly like you.

ESPECIALLY IN FUCKING OREGON

Yes there are.

The most liberal place ever.

You can set up a gofundme... if anything dude.

You don't have to mention the family stuff just your situation.

lol i dont even have a fucking BANK account right now cuz out of sheer coincidence, all of this happened while i was trying to switch banks

No! No gofundme, no PayPal, nothing. At least, for now

so i closed an account and then this shit went down before i got a new bank account

and you need to call the iunsurance, the doctors offices and get the info from them......they can direct you to other services that can help. It's a start.....and you must start somewhere my man

@Sam Amari you will be alright after a sleep

i dont really want to leave the chat but i will if u guys want me to

I wil chat with you

im listening. and i can change the subject and talk about something other than me... damn man.

until you are ready to get some rest....I am here

u guys are really great man

@Sam Amari we're your Bros, bro!

You're great and no....we cannot relate..........and its terrible right now. However, if you want to vent. I will reply

the last day that they removed the metal bars from my chest was the superbowl 49ers versus the Ravens

did the niners win?

I don't particularly like NFL, but I was in the hospital for 2 months with SHIT internet

not a footballer

I think the 49ers won

What is the composition of your metal bar?

so i got released the day of the superbowl, and in germany it was on at like 1am, so i stayed up til like 5am. it was also the game where the lights went out for like an hour so i was up super late. but i was so glad to be out of the hospital and hear like american voies man. the particular hospital i was in was in Berlin

eh......niners.........okay I remember reading about that

so in Berlin... the part i was in was the russian part, so most of my nurses just knew russian and german as opposed to russian and english

so i had to learn lots of words

which one was when that guy from the Seahawks went on a rant "Don't you EVER talk about me!!!"

the one i remember most is schmerzen

ill never forget that one

LOL

Richard Sherman

that's right

tbh man im so conflicted. i look back at my mom and she went through some shit with me in Germany and temper tantrums that i had being so frustrated by my situation. but at this point in time shes decided to exile me for what i feel is a completely asinine reason. maybe shes having financial troubles i dont know abut and she cant afford to keep helping me but i really doub tthat.

its not like im trying to be a leech, i just literally have never had a job that made enough to afford my medical stuff. i mean, i had surgery every summer i should have had internships. i just dont have the absolute greatest resume

Hey.....at this point....you have to worry about you at the moment