I wil chat with you

im listening. and i can change the subject and talk about something other than me... damn man.

until you are ready to get some rest....I am here

u guys are really great man

@Sam Amari we're your Bros, bro!

You're great and no....we cannot relate..........and its terrible right now. However, if you want to vent. I will reply

the last day that they removed the metal bars from my chest was the superbowl 49ers versus the Ravens

did the niners win?

I don't particularly like NFL, but I was in the hospital for 2 months with SHIT internet

not a footballer

I think the 49ers won

What is the composition of your metal bar?

so i got released the day of the superbowl, and in germany it was on at like 1am, so i stayed up til like 5am. it was also the game where the lights went out for like an hour so i was up super late. but i was so glad to be out of the hospital and hear like american voies man. the particular hospital i was in was in Berlin

eh......niners.........okay I remember reading about that

so in Berlin... the part i was in was the russian part, so most of my nurses just knew russian and german as opposed to russian and english

so i had to learn lots of words

which one was when that guy from the Seahawks went on a rant "Don't you EVER talk about me!!!"

the one i remember most is schmerzen

ill never forget that one

LOL

Richard Sherman

that's right

tbh man im so conflicted. i look back at my mom and she went through some shit with me in Germany and temper tantrums that i had being so frustrated by my situation. but at this point in time shes decided to exile me for what i feel is a completely asinine reason. maybe shes having financial troubles i dont know abut and she cant afford to keep helping me but i really doub tthat.

its not like im trying to be a leech, i just literally have never had a job that made enough to afford my medical stuff. i mean, i had surgery every summer i should have had internships. i just dont have the absolute greatest resume

Hey.....at this point....you have to worry about you at the moment

Mom and family will have to work themselves out in due time.

@Sam Amari and?

And it will

when i get this stressed i just dont have an appetite. part of it is cuz there's always like a permanent "pressing" or restricted feeling on my chest from the metal bars that i had in there and when i get really full, its painful in a way that it wasnt before i had the surgery

meh, sorry @Kazemaru

im feeling sorry for myself for sure. but i really cant put together like a vision of what i need to do

just seems hopeless

No need to sorry, @Sam Amari just keep talking. You need this

my bad yeah i thought i was over doing it

Dont be ashamed of reveal your weakness

its just fucked man. i would never wish the situation where you still have to feel dependant on someone at 29 on anyone. but i had literally no control over my medical situation being what it is. i was just born

Sam......this is going to take a little time to get over with........I just want you when you close up for the night to know that you are indeed cared for, and have value to quite a few gents here

i think of moms who have kids with downs syndrome or other horrible things that have to take care of them their whole life. its not like ive been anywhere near that much of a leech. ive always had a job its just never enough for me to afford everything in the hellish fucking expensive as time we live in

right....and moms / dads with special need kids and adults are not perfect either Sam. They have their cahllenges too

*challenges

yeah