Message from @Dr Meme

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2019-07-19 20:25:24 UTC  

After we broke up she told me she didn't want to talk to me again because that would be hurtful to both of us, but then she started messagimg me again anf saying that if i ever talk about her it has to be nicd thing and such.

I sort of vowed to myself to be single for at least until i had bettered myself (thing that i was planning on doig this summer but failed), but now just out of nowhere i start to realize that now i'm falling for my one of my friends.

She was really supportive of me during my relationship and gave me some advice when things started to go wrong. I fpund out i can tell her almost anything and she would understand and suport. I now realize that maybe my ex might have been jealous of her too.

She also shares some issues with me (like depression, anxiety and body image issues) and comfort each other when we can.

Every time we part ways she hugs me really hard and realize that my ex didn't do that and sometimes didn't want to hold hands when walking.

I'm just afraid of falling in love with her and ruining our friendship.

Everything that went wrong with my ex happened; my grades tanked, i went back to hate myself and worsen my depressiom, gained a fuckton of weight and now i also feel broken

2019-07-19 20:25:49 UTC  

I don't know what to do

2019-07-19 20:26:14 UTC  

Also, please forgive English lol

2019-07-19 20:26:56 UTC  


2019-07-19 20:27:29 UTC  

@Dr Meme just meet her

2019-07-19 20:27:29 UTC  

You gotta do what is in your best interest. Friendships with women are NEVER worth not trying for a relationship, take my advise. Men and women, for the most part, are mentally incompatable

2019-07-19 20:27:35 UTC  

Tldr: my ex messed me up and now i might fall in love with a friend

2019-07-19 20:27:46 UTC  

like know her really well

2019-07-19 20:27:50 UTC  

better then yourself

2019-07-19 20:28:05 UTC  

I fail to see how this could go wrong

2019-07-19 20:28:12 UTC  

either way, rejected or accepted, you win

2019-07-19 20:28:17 UTC  

don't risk doing to the same swamp 2 times in the row

2019-07-19 20:28:28 UTC  

We know eachother since when we started college, around three years ago

2019-07-19 20:28:44 UTC  

Fuck her dad

2019-07-19 20:30:03 UTC  

Just kind calm and think about this

2019-07-19 20:30:29 UTC  
2019-07-19 20:30:31 UTC  

I'm not trying to make a rash desition. Quite the oposite

2019-07-19 20:30:45 UTC  

Did you ever seens her sad as fuck, what might make her jejealous etc

2019-07-19 20:31:27 UTC  

And if your answers are good and you think this will work long them fucking hit it

2019-07-19 20:32:03 UTC  

Yes and yes. We know eachother pretty well

2019-07-19 20:32:24 UTC  

We have taken courses together for almost three years

2019-07-19 20:33:13 UTC  

The thing is that i don't think is a good idea, because i just got out of a bad relationship

2019-07-19 20:33:24 UTC  

And i don't want to hurt her

2019-07-19 20:34:00 UTC  

So just wait

2019-07-19 20:34:17 UTC  

Don't make her your pillow so you can get on your feet

2019-07-19 20:34:47 UTC  

Men the fuck up and do it alone and like real men you are make it fucking work

2019-07-19 20:35:23 UTC  

Show her you are kind of guy for her

2019-07-19 20:35:24 UTC  

That's what i mean

2019-07-19 20:35:38 UTC  

The thing is im a retard with words lol

2019-07-19 20:35:42 UTC  

But yeah

2019-07-19 20:36:24 UTC  

We are still planing on hanging out once she gets back from her home state

2019-07-19 20:36:34 UTC  

She knows about this right?

2019-07-19 20:36:40 UTC  

.about what

2019-07-19 20:36:46 UTC  

That you have problem with words and shit

2019-07-19 20:37:22 UTC  

Yeah she knows

2019-07-19 20:38:24 UTC  

So don't worry about this just get your shit together give yourself some time and then try with her

2019-07-19 20:38:53 UTC  

Yeah, i think i will

2019-07-19 20:41:03 UTC  

Keep us updated and good luck

2019-07-19 20:42:39 UTC  

*I believe in* you *king*

2019-07-19 20:42:49 UTC  

Yeah, i will

2019-07-19 20:42:56 UTC  

Thanks bruvs