After we broke up she told me she didn't want to talk to me again because that would be hurtful to both of us, but then she started messagimg me again anf saying that if i ever talk about her it has to be nicd thing and such.

I sort of vowed to myself to be single for at least until i had bettered myself (thing that i was planning on doig this summer but failed), but now just out of nowhere i start to realize that now i'm falling for my one of my friends.

She was really supportive of me during my relationship and gave me some advice when things started to go wrong. I fpund out i can tell her almost anything and she would understand and suport. I now realize that maybe my ex might have been jealous of her too.

She also shares some issues with me (like depression, anxiety and body image issues) and comfort each other when we can.

Every time we part ways she hugs me really hard and realize that my ex didn't do that and sometimes didn't want to hold hands when walking.

I'm just afraid of falling in love with her and ruining our friendship.

Everything that went wrong with my ex happened; my grades tanked, i went back to hate myself and worsen my depressiom, gained a fuckton of weight and now i also feel broken

I don't know what to do

Also, please forgive English lol

Homie

@Dr Meme just meet her

You gotta do what is in your best interest. Friendships with women are NEVER worth not trying for a relationship, take my advise. Men and women, for the most part, are mentally incompatable

Tldr: my ex messed me up and now i might fall in love with a friend

like know her really well

better then yourself

I fail to see how this could go wrong

either way, rejected or accepted, you win

don't risk doing to the same swamp 2 times in the row

We know eachother since when we started college, around three years ago

Fuck her dad

Just kind calm and think about this

@Trash Squid lol

I'm not trying to make a rash desition. Quite the oposite

Did you ever seens her sad as fuck, what might make her jejealous etc

And if your answers are good and you think this will work long them fucking hit it

Yes and yes. We know eachother pretty well

We have taken courses together for almost three years

The thing is that i don't think is a good idea, because i just got out of a bad relationship

And i don't want to hurt her

So just wait

Don't make her your pillow so you can get on your feet

Men the fuck up and do it alone and like real men you are make it fucking work

Show her you are kind of guy for her

That's what i mean

The thing is im a retard with words lol

But yeah

We are still planing on hanging out once she gets back from her home state

She knows about this right?

.about what

That you have problem with words and shit

Yeah she knows

So don't worry about this just get your shit together give yourself some time and then try with her

Yeah, i think i will

Keep us updated and good luck

*I believe in* you *king*

Yeah, i will

Thanks bruvs