Message from @INNYGMATYK
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Im fucking autistic and there's a seriously good chance I'm gonna not only burn, but obliterate this bridge. I used to be fucking racist until i started talking to her. She has a crush on this girl(the only reason im still trying is because she said some shit about not being able to be satisfied by a female, idfk man)
Honestly, my ptsd from past experiences has been fucking with me really bad and im more scared than i am sad now
Which imo is way worse
Ive been right in that boat my guy. I have childhood PTSD and shit and I'll try my best
Have you tried to explain your ptsd to her ? Where it comes from ? Idk how serious yall are but like,giving a good view point on your habits from that pain
not only does it let someone in,and see the real you,and accept you fully,if she cares,she can empathize with you and also help hold you accountable for those emotion pains and help see you through them
See, I've hugged her one time. Thats the closest to me actually showing interest in her further than just a friend. Its really fucked because I've been talking to her for like a week
I mean, I've tried dropping hints and little gay things like that, but im a fucking spaz and she always ends up thinking im joking
First off, slow the fuck down there chief
You aren't gonna get anywhere panicking about it
Not exactly on my brains to do list
Second off have you taken her on any dates yet
and explicitly called them DATES
No
Take your time on this bubby. I know you know this but we high emotional types always have big fucking waves of feelings. Recognizing this will help you be alert to when your PTSD is effecting you
Go ask her to go somewhere with you
Hell just make it like a walk in a park or soemthing
or something neat to go see
Write about yourself,to yourself,as if you weren't yourself.
Because im broke. And im not gonna make her pay for it.
And also, i think she'd laugh at me and i don't think im ready for that one
Yeah man - these fresh situations are rough, especially with history.
The very best thing you can do is be calm and confident.
I can help you have more control
There are plenty of free things to go see my man
Like I said literally just go to a park
or something
you don't need to spend a dollar on a date if you don't want to
A good thing to recognize and toughen your skin to,is rejection from women. After a few hyper heartbreaks like what you are going through. I said fuck it and purposely asked some 10 level women out to get used to getting rejected
and finding the victory of just facing your own mind/fears there
is fucking nice
I mean even beyond just saying fuck it, you might as well just ask her out because it'll be easier if you both end it now
if she does say no
god forbid ofc
I got tired of giving control of my emotions to these imaginary situations
The longer you drag this out the worse it gets for you homeboy
Any help at all is definitely appreciated
Im pretty used to rejection. I can usually just deal with it. It's the fact that its specifically her. I don't want HER to reject me. I don't want to push my luck and end something i could've been patient for.
Which raises another problem. Because i feel like i wait too long and they end up losing interest
You never know - she might pull a "God I have been waiting for you to ask - been dropping hints like a mf"
Or any cool free museums or public attractions near you
girls are fuckin weird dude.
literally just go now nigga
go message her and ask her
or if you can physically get ahold of her go ask her in person