Message from @P I L L A R M A N
Discord ID: 628295324070576141
Because im broke. And im not gonna make her pay for it.
And also, i think she'd laugh at me and i don't think im ready for that one
Yeah man - these fresh situations are rough, especially with history.
The very best thing you can do is be calm and confident.
I can help you have more control
There are plenty of free things to go see my man
Like I said literally just go to a park
or something
you don't need to spend a dollar on a date if you don't want to
A good thing to recognize and toughen your skin to,is rejection from women. After a few hyper heartbreaks like what you are going through. I said fuck it and purposely asked some 10 level women out to get used to getting rejected
and finding the victory of just facing your own mind/fears there
is fucking nice
I mean even beyond just saying fuck it, you might as well just ask her out because it'll be easier if you both end it now
if she does say no
god forbid ofc
I got tired of giving control of my emotions to these imaginary situations
The longer you drag this out the worse it gets for you homeboy
Any help at all is definitely appreciated
Im pretty used to rejection. I can usually just deal with it. It's the fact that its specifically her. I don't want HER to reject me. I don't want to push my luck and end something i could've been patient for.
Which raises another problem. Because i feel like i wait too long and they end up losing interest
You never know - she might pull a "God I have been waiting for you to ask - been dropping hints like a mf"
Or any cool free museums or public attractions near you
girls are fuckin weird dude.
literally just go now nigga
or if you can physically get ahold of her go ask her in person
like this fuckin second
you'll have more respect for yourself if just do it my guy
go
Instead of typing in this discord you could be typing a message to her right now asking her out on a date
Make her something,bitches love thoughtful shit
Shit I got my girl to be my girl by cooking for her
but that's not important
what is important is that you don't delay it any longer and go ask her out asap
and have a few set date and times that you can offer her for this date
How tf do i even do that?
I really don't know if i can do tbat
Find somewhere to take her
I might actually have an aneurysm
Find out when you are free
Message her "hey there's this [insert cool place here] you wanna go check it out with me on [insert date here]"
it's that simple
or any variation of that
Dude, i live in bumfuk meth and cornville. There is a total of 0 interesting places here to go, and the only transportation i have is my longboard
If she says she's not free on that date ask her "ok well what about [insert alternate date time here]"
No you dont. I live there lol