Message from @Timeward

Discord ID: 614140185625493504


2019-08-22 16:49:50 UTC  

Parntners vs Team-Mates

2019-08-22 16:50:13 UTC  

a 'Partner' can do each other's jobs BUT has to ask for permission and negoitate everything

2019-08-22 16:50:26 UTC  

a team-mate can't do the job of the other player

2019-08-22 16:50:45 UTC  

so it's easier to accept the shortcomings because.. you can't do what they do

2019-08-22 16:50:50 UTC  

and they can't do what you do

2019-08-22 16:50:55 UTC  

I think thats the best description.

2019-08-22 16:51:08 UTC  

Role separation is indeed a better strategy:
>> parents don't compete, and thus don't casue unnecessary conflicts
>> family is more efficient, with clear cut borders of responsibility and decision-making superior
>> it teaches kids both the personal and professional ethic from the start

2019-08-22 16:51:15 UTC  

My mother cant have the same heart to heart with me in the way my dad can

2019-08-22 16:51:42 UTC  

the relationship is MOST valuable if each person knows where the other needs them to be without them every having to ask

2019-08-22 16:51:45 UTC  

ok what is the vampire smoking?

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/613767975614283832/614139648804913163/unknown.png

2019-08-22 16:51:55 UTC  

Equality only matters in specific areas, it is not needed literally everywhere

2019-08-22 16:52:03 UTC  

cause when shit gets tough, the first thing that goes is communication

2019-08-22 16:52:05 UTC  

And there are things he can do for me she cant. And thats true the other wya around as well.

2019-08-22 16:52:21 UTC  

A gynecologist is not obliged to screen for prostate cancer, yaknow

2019-08-22 16:52:36 UTC  

There are reasons to have inequalities that matter

2019-08-22 16:53:01 UTC  

My current struggle is opening up more with my parents, and because I spend less time with my dad, I feel more comfortable opening up to him... Idk why.

2019-08-22 16:53:09 UTC  

exactly, i don't think alot of women realize how overbearing they can be and that men have weaknesses just like they do BUT men can't advertise them like they can

2019-08-22 16:53:17 UTC  

Maybe because I know he wont push me too far

2019-08-22 16:53:28 UTC  

that comes with learning when they are young

2019-08-22 16:53:36 UTC  

from watching THEIR dad

2019-08-22 16:53:50 UTC  

I know that if I open up to him he'll respect my comfort zone, where as my mom tends to prod and poke a bit more

2019-08-22 16:53:56 UTC  

one person needs to walk away and the other needs to chase them

2019-08-22 16:54:17 UTC  

sometimes, you need the person to walk away.. other times you need to be chased

2019-08-22 16:54:50 UTC  

Kids need structure

2019-08-22 16:54:53 UTC  

@Xaverius True Romanian Kush, of the highest quality

2019-08-22 16:55:02 UTC  

"Sometimes a person walks away because they want to be left alone. Other times, a person walks away because he wants to know if you CARE enought to follow him through hell"

2019-08-22 16:55:08 UTC  

And parents that are equal in every aspect is the opposite of structure

2019-08-22 16:55:10 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/613767975614283832/614140511233638401/image.jpg

2019-08-22 16:55:13 UTC  

My dad knows where my comfort zone is and wont push too far on it, and he also knows I'm more relaxed around him so he can get s little more from me withiut making me uncomfortavle.

2019-08-22 16:55:16 UTC  

That's a recipe for endless bicklering

2019-08-22 16:55:56 UTC  

you are definately right about the structure, Ukisio

2019-08-22 16:56:39 UTC  

that's where the 'clean your room' comes from. Worst thing one can do is let on failure or setback effect the next chance at getting it right

2019-08-22 16:57:28 UTC  

Cleaning the room, is the idea of stopping the slide downwards and establishing a beachead towards turning a negative into a positiive

2019-08-22 16:57:40 UTC  

@ManAnimal this program we're about to work with only accepts icon imports in Pnp or gif formats.
The age of this thing is already hurting me.

2019-08-22 16:57:49 UTC  

A republican president will never win a election 2024 and on

2019-08-22 16:57:51 UTC  

lol

2019-08-22 16:57:57 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/613767975614283832/614141217843839015/image.jpg

2019-08-22 16:58:12 UTC  

Because of mass migration

2019-08-22 16:58:16 UTC  

Unless it is stopped

2019-08-22 16:58:26 UTC  

well, also long as they aren't .jpeg or . dict