Message from @Szayel's Pooppion
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Hmm I wonder if that makes me overbearing as well?
I just don't see that actually fitting the definition, you just sound either assertive, or assertive boardering aggressive
I'm assertive myself, so I've had plenty of rl or online situations where people thought I was being aggressive, saying something too sternly, cold, angry or upset. It rarely ever is the case though
Being assertive can deff cost you friends at times as well.
Men that can't overpower a woman's assertiveness is a beta male. lol So I'd say not to worry
Like come on, truly assertive or aggressive men shouldn't have too much problems taming an assertive woman
HAHA
I like the last line
Are yall both single?
or married?
Single
@Szayel's Pooppion I have been tame most of my life until I was getting screwed over. I had to learn to be defensive for my sake. And all of this happened before coming to Christ.
Now coming to this realization and asking for forgiveness, I see now that my sharpness is really anger. I hope that I will be able to overcome that.
Yes I know what you mean there. Before I woke up I was an angry girl, being defensive was also how I had to learn to live
After being woke I saw where I had to draw the line. For instance now that I'm christian I try my hardest not to lose my temper with people anymore like when I was young. It's all about self improvement now & unlearning the things we had to unfortunately learn in our environments
Agreed.
That said we can't undo everything in our conditioning. I'll always be assertive and stand up for what's right. But at least now that's more polished so that I'm not just coming off as only being aggressive
@csquare In a relationship
he's an alpha
@Szayel's Pooppion That's good. Is he a Christian?
yep (:
I think meeting him helped guide me to the true faith as well
sorry ppl keep walking up to me and talking IRL, I was wondering : when one is in an argument with an assertive woman - why do they always say LET ME TALK
@csquare Simply put: defensive behavior.
My wife doesnt do that. Just the ones before her
Think of a bull. When it sees red, it goes crazy. It will keep charging until it doesn't see anymore red regardless of the environment.
Oh ya, is that what you mean by assertive or is that something else?
I don't think I do that tbh lol
hha that is what I am asking poop
Well you have a good, submissive, Godly woman.
Like assertive is different than just aggressive
so I don't mean to confuse that
ya she good gal
Assertive is borderline aggressive
I think it can be
Just knowing to speak your mind and stand up for what is right
doing so in a firm manner
I think some women can be more than others
But as long as they're being assertive alongside what is godly